Some ladies prefer platonic relationship base on spiritual ground or due to painful experience in the past such as molestation and other personal reasons.

However guys who cannot control their sexual urge will find it difficult to date these kind of ladies which by virtue they end up terminating the relationship without giving it a second thought.

In as much as it is very challenging for guys to cope in this kind of relationship, guys can adopt some tips to withstand the circumstance.

1. Spend sparingly on them

The phobia of guys is that they can't afford to spend huge amount of money on a lady yet been denied access to her kitty cat. Most times they count it as dangerous investment without even for once touch her body let alone see her underwear. This can lead to frustration, depression and paranoia on the path of guys which is the reason why it is advisable to spend sparingly such as buying affordable things for her during her birthday and discard other form of spending such as monthly data subscription, fixing hairs, phone purchase, etc.

2. Get busy and focus on work more

For guys who want to endure with their girlfriends whose ideology about sexual relationship is derogatory should channel their energy to work and use their idle time to get busy on productive itinerary. Nonetheless, she would be the one complaining that the relationship lacks sexual spark.

3. Visit a legal brothel

As much as this may sound derogatory but for the best interest of serenity in the relationship, high sexual urge guys should visit a brothel to relief their body of konji instead of reigning insults on their girlfriend adamant on no sexual relationship. As for these category of ladies, do not blame your boyfriend if he gets involved in such act, perhaps the best thing you can do is quietly work out of the relationship.

4. Build friendship with beautiful and elaborate bodied ladies

Guys listen up! In order not to have heart attack, one of the best way to cope with ladies with abstinence orientation is to hang out with ladies who are more beautiful and well endowed to them. Watch how she will rant, raise false accusation as a bait to prove you are guilty of promiscuity and at the end grant you the access to her padlock.

5. Spend quality but limited time with them

One thing I realised about ladies with this mindset is that they often crave for much attention hence the need to spend most of your time discussing and even gossiping with them. This might actually be a tool to knock in sense to their brain by spending less but quality time and at same portray good sense of humour during the conversation. You will be shocked that they will change their mind.

6. Sharing of bills during a date

The perception of some ladies in relationship is that whether a guy sleeps with them or not, he should bare their financial burden starting from basic needs to hangouts, dates, etc. Okay let's assume in a relationship that is devoid of sex, a lady who expects her boyfriend to foot most/all her bills is nothing but an armed robber and it would dawn on the guy soon that despite his faithful status, the said lady would still end up sleeping with another guy. So the best thing is during dates or shopping, let the lady foot her bill.

@ N0. 4, you a bad nigga, you want her have heart attack hun...spending quality time with such a lady is temptation especially on spiritual angle, quality time might lead to touching, smooching, wetness


Choi! wristbangle

Must there be sex in a premarital relationship?

Amarabae:
Must there be sex in a premarital relationship?

Praise the Lord, the Lord is Good all the times, Amarabae has finally said something sensible

all this just for 5mins enjoyment...





Women don suffer....

Amarabae:
Must there be sex in a premarital relationship?

Ideally no but some people have no choice because they don't want stories that would cause big wound in their marriage. Between must money be involved also?

Are u telling me your case is different?

midehi2:


@ N0. 4, you a bad nigga, you want her have heart attack hun...spending quality time with such a lady is temptation especially on spiritual angle, quality time might lead to touching, smooching, wetness


Choi! wristbangle

Shebi na dem say, dem no want. Oya na do me I do you na! Let's be honest, some guys just naturally find themselves doing it because they are somehow pissed.

buharipikin:

Praise the Lord, the Lord is Good all the times, Amarabae has finally said something sensible

you want to insult me?
Answer fast.

Sorry op, I see guys who walk into brothels to patronise prostitutes as those whose moral compass is low, I mean...very low. There's no difference between the guys who patronise them and the prostitutes. They stand a chance of getting infected 'cause condoms don't guarantee a 100% safe sex, very disgusting thing.

Amarabae:
Must there be sex in a premarital relationship?

See your oily mouth

Optional2:


all this just for 5mins enjoyment...





Women don suffer....

Who's that nigga that has been torturing u with just five minutes pleasure?

Benita27:
Sorry op, I see guys who walk into brothels to patronise prostitutes as those whose moral compass is low. There's no difference between the guys who patronise them and the prostitutes.

You are right in a way however I stated that it is a counter advice which some guys get involved in the act and it doesn't stop them from loving their girlfriends

Amarabae:
Must there be sex in a premarital relationship?

Must there be money in a premarital relationship?

iykekelvins:
Who's that nigga that has been torturing u with just five minutes pleasure?

iyke if i talk now una go say optional don start again..

Iyke come and be going biko.

ana m arịọ gị na aha Chineke oh.

mtcheeeeww!

why must i have to go through these rigors over one denial? is she the only girl? must i fvck her?

if she won't give me pussy then i'd just forget her and move on to the next available girl. simple!

waxxydude:
Must there be money in a premarital relationship?

na fight? Haba

Benita27:
Sorry op, I see guys who walk into brothels to patronise prostitutes as those whose moral compass is low, I mean...very low. There's no difference between the guys who patronise them and the prostitutes. They stand a chance of getting infected 'cause condoms don't guarantee a 100% safe sex, very disgusting thing.

Same as girls who fvck or have fvcked more than one guy. They're equally prostitutes.

PrickGetSize:

Same as girls who fvck or have fvcked more than one guy. They're equally prostitutes.

Do you patronise prostitutes?.

Buy viagra, vibraetors, mojos, energy drinks, diildoes.

Then buy more rabbit vibs, chocolate jellies, mojos, dilldoes.

And if she still misbehaving, play the No4 like a real time mafia, make it so obvious and a bit annoying. Make her always ponder to herself "what is wrong with this guy self".

Amarabae:
na fight? Haba

No be fight but the thing dey pain me.

You don't want to open your leg, but you want to open your hand.

Are you promoting premarital sex in a relationship?

Benita27:
Do you patronise prostitutes?.

Do you fu*k or have you f*cked more than one guy??

Rorachy:
Are you promoting premarital sex in a relationship?

Should I be promoting spending lavishly on a lady during a relationship?

Mafking:


Do you fu*k or have you f*cked more than one guy?

I knew those of you who patronise prostitutes would come crying with your silly logic.

wristbangle:


Should I be promoting spending lavishly on a lady during a relationship?

Maybe, just maybe .

Go to brothel and Jack all the infections in this life...and give the innocent lass ..just becos she wants to do the right thing..

Spits..

Benita27:
Do you patronise prostitutes?.

If you mean girls in brothels, no.
All fvcks are done in my crib, I don't book hotel rooms.

I get steady hookups with girls from Instagram, Badoo, UNILAG runs girls, street girls, church girls, neighbor's daughters, good girls, bad girls, nymphos and FWB. And I don't do girlfriends because I believe what you call love and relationship is a scam.

So if these girls are not prostitutes I don't know what else they are.

Benita27:
I knew those of you who patronise prostitutes would come crying with your silly logic.

The only difference between a girl that have 5 different boyfriends all year round(she may even cheat on all of them) and a prostitute is that one has a fixed office and has decided to openly market herself and the other is not really sure about her profession yet

Optional2:


all this just for 5mins enjoyment...





Women don suffer....

5 mins ?, you need a good D in your life.

Number 3 is not supposed to be in the list. You're discussing how to deal with girls with strong objection to sex in a relationship not how to cheat on your partner.

PrickGetSize:

If you mean girls in brothels, no.
All fvcks are done in my crib, I don't book hotel rooms.

I get steady hookups with girls from Instagram, Badoo, UNILAG runs girls, street girls, church girls, neighbor's daughters, good girls, bad girls, nymphos and FWB. And I don't do girlfriends because I believe what you call love and relationship is a scam.

So if these girls are not prostitutes I don't know what else they are.

Clearly you have a type of girls you pick, and if they're prostitutes then there's no difference between you and them. Clap for yourself.