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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:09pm On Nov 11, 2013
Nashville:

You are feeling cool with yourself abi. I am going to find some very rich and handsome (married) man to start disturbing you from now on. I will ask him to spoil you with gifts and exortic vacations, lets see if you wouldnt yield! cheesy wink

Lol!

If na so, I for done fall since!

What about rich, handsome and single ready to marry?

I know what I want and went for it cheesy

My younger sister nko? lol!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:19pm On Nov 11, 2013
bukatyne:

Lol!

If na so, I for done fall since!

What about rich, handsome and single ready to marry?

I know what I want and went for it cheesy

My younger sister nko? lol!

All very rich and handsome eligible guys I know are already married. 9ja girls no dey waste time when they see goo thing.

All this one that you cannot fall. Dont make me get on your case o. I will just call some of my very rich friends. They dont mind spending any amount - for them its about the feeling that they can get any girl they want. You better beg me not to.

Anyway your sister is too young. My friends dont get involved with minors!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:24pm On Nov 11, 2013
Nashville:

All very rich and handsome eligible guys I know are already married. 9ja girls no dey waste time when they see goo thing.

All this one that you cannot fall. Dont make me get on your case o. I will just call some of my very rich friends. They dont mind spending any amount - for them its about the feeling that they can get any girl they want. You better beg me not to.

Anyway your sister is too young. My friends dont get involved with minors!
cheesy

Lol @ bolded

I am a woman of my words and integritywink cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Slowpois0n: 12:32pm On Nov 11, 2013
bukatyne: cheesy

Lol @ bolded

I am a woman of my words and integritywink cheesy
I have known women not to stand by their words but to be ruled by their emotions

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:34pm On Nov 11, 2013
bukatyne: cheesy

Lol @ bolded

I am a woman of my words and integritywink cheesy

You are not even humble, ehn. I was expecting somethiing like "it is the grace of God" etc.

In that case, I will get on your case. You will hear from one of my boys soon!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:50pm On Nov 11, 2013
Nashville:

You are not even humble, ehn. I was expecting somethiing like "it is the grace of God" etc.

In that case, I will get on your case. You will hear from one of my boys soon!

Boys or men?

God grace is there but we must tap into it and play our parts.

I cannot lie on my bed as an unemployed graduate and be chanting His Grace...
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:50pm On Nov 11, 2013
Slowpois0n:
I have known women not to stand by their words but to be ruled by their emotions

have you met all the women in the world?
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Slowpois0n: 1:16pm On Nov 11, 2013
bukatyne:

have you met all the women in the world?
You haven't met all the men in the world either.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 1:24pm On Nov 11, 2013
bukatyne:

Boys or men?

God grace is there but we must tap into it and play our parts.

I cannot lie on my bed as an unemployed graduate and be chanting His Grace...


Boys, men, all na the same. I am just pitying that your guy. He seems a good fellow and I dont want to hurt him. Ok I will think about it again. I wouldnt do anything just yet.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 1:37pm On Nov 11, 2013
Slowpois0n:
You haven't met all the men in the world either.



And what is my own with all the men in the world?
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 1:38pm On Nov 11, 2013
Nashville:

Boys, men, all na the same. I am just pitying that your guy. He seems a good fellow and I dont want to hurt him. Ok I will think about it again. I wouldnt do anything just yet.

And now, I am quaking in my books grin tongue
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 2:45pm On Nov 11, 2013
Mrs.Chima:


You already know what I am about to say! grin

First of all.....a woman that is not girthed in good character will use you regardless if you exercise control or not.

Secondly, women have fathers and grandfathers to guide them in goodwill....not to mold the woman in what she need to be or look like. They do not need daddy husbands but rather a partner going in the same direction.

How can a man attempt to control a woman if he is not complete and lacks the understanding of leadership?

There is absolutely nothing attractive about a man who treats his wife or woman like a child. If she can't respect you as a person and you can't do the same....no need wasting time!

Rough handling a woman or loud talking does not make you a man nor being lenient makes you a punk or sissy.

You need to screen your chicks better before selection because a ratchet bish is ratchet regardless if you control her or not.

I guess President Obama is a softy since he doesn't control what ignorant people say or do to him.

There is a hugggge difference between a fool and a softy.

Real talk!
2nd paragraph. .... Sorry what you stated there doesn't make much of a sense. What do you mean "use you?"

3rd paragraph.... My dear, women are meant to be given direction and put through all through their lives. Be it an old or young woman, they yet need the guidance of men to carry out things effectively. Wonder why it is said that irrespective of a woman's age she has fish-brains?

4th paragraph.... You guys are having a misconception about this control thing. I think you should read between the lines and stop taking this outta context. Nevertheless, it is worth knowing that by the nature of men, we are made leaders by default.At least, leaders in home settings and therefore it gives every man the needed dominance and for a man not to have cultivated this leadership skill, that would be a topic for another day cause for the purpose of remaining in-line with the nitty-gritty, digressing with a view to stressing on that would negate the actual purpose.

5th paragraph.... No where it was mentioned that women should be treated as children so that is somewhat redundant.

6th paragraph.... The topic didn't advice men to rough handle women. These are tios to help keep women in-line with acceptable behaviours. I won't advice rough or man-handling any woman. I would advice a man to be galant in handling a woman, yet draw the line whenever she falters. Women need mild and lovely treatment in general, yet they also need some bits of harshness to bring them back to their senses every now and then. Accept it or not, its the reality.

I think they rest are not worth commenting on.

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sagamite(m): 2:47pm On Nov 11, 2013
bukatyne:

Thanks, I am blushing grin

We have had our issues but we thank God

I am not giving 'young guys' wrong advise grin

There are good girls out there; they might some issues (cheating, lying, etc. are not issues) but they might just be rough diamonds that need a little polishing, same with the guys too.

Sincerity, honesty, openness and love helps a lot in a relationship/marriage.

When a man is in love, he gives his all... wink

P.S.: What is shocking?

Shocking is the highlighted red.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 2:48pm On Nov 11, 2013
Nashville:

You are not even humble, ehn. I was expecting somethiing like "it is the grace of God" etc.

In that case, I will get on your case. You will hear from one of my boys soon!
Lmao...
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 3:35pm On Nov 11, 2013
Sagamite:

Shocking is the highlighted red.

Ok cheesy

Have a great day (what is left of it)
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 4:21pm On Nov 11, 2013
Mrs.Chima:


You already know what I am about to say! grin

First of all.....a woman that is not girthed in good character will use you regardless if you exercise control or not.

Secondly, women have fathers and grandfathers to guide them in goodwill....not to mold the woman in what she need to be or look like. They do not need daddy husbands but rather a partner going in the same direction.

How can a man attempt to control a woman if he is not complete and lacks the understanding of leadership?

There is absolutely nothing attractive about a man who treats his wife or woman like a child. If she can't respect you as a person and you can't do the same....no need wasting time!

Rough handling a woman or loud talking does not make you a man nor being lenient makes you a punk or sissy.

You need to screen your chicks better before selection because a ratchet bish is ratchet regardless if you control her or not.

I guess President Obama is a softy since he doesn't control what ignorant people say or do to him.

There is a hugggge difference between a fool and a softy.

Real talk!


Very well said!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by WackyJ1(m): 5:47pm On Nov 11, 2013
bukatyne:

Thanks, I am blushing grin

We have had our issues but we thank God

I am not giving 'young guys' wrong advise grin

[b] There are good girls out there; they might some issues (cheating, lying, etc. are not issues) but they might just be rough diamonds that need a little polishing, [/b ]

Sincerity, honesty, openness and love helps a lot in a relationship/marriage.

When a man is in love, he gives his all... wink

P.S.: What is shocking?
The bolded is just sad. Are you saying that cheating and lying are minor things that should not be regarded as issues because they come with the package or are you saying that they should not be regarded as issues to be worked on or tolerated i.e once a guy sees them He should bail?
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 5:49pm On Nov 11, 2013
WackyJ1:
The bolded is just sad. Are you saying that cheating and lying are minor things that should not be regarded as issues because they come with the package or are you saying that they should not be regarded as issues to be worked on or tolerated i.e once a guy sees them He should bail?

The bolded
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 8:49pm On Nov 11, 2013
over 3 years and this post still attracts attention. Trully a legendary posts. Women will never accept that they need control but will all knw they do

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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 4:55pm On Nov 12, 2013
dmcdad:
2nd paragraph. .... Sorry what you stated there doesn't make much of a sense. What do you mean "use you?"

3rd paragraph.... My dear, women are meant to be given direction and put through all through their lives. Be it an old or young woman, they yet need the guidance of men to carry out things effectively. Wonder why it is said that irrespective of a woman's age she has fish-brains?

4th paragraph.... You guys are having a misconception about this control thing. I think you should read between the lines and stop taking this outta context. Nevertheless, it is worth knowing that by the nature of men, we are made leaders by default.At least, leaders in home settings and therefore it gives every man the needed dominance and for a man not to have cultivated this leadership skill, that would be a topic for another day cause for the purpose of remaining in-line with the nitty-gritty, digressing with a view to stressing on that would negate the actual purpose.

5th paragraph.... No where it was mentioned that women should be treated as children so that is somewhat redundant.

6th paragraph.... The topic didn't advice men to rough handle women. These are tios to help keep women in-line with acceptable behaviours. I won't advice rough or man-handling any woman. I would advice a man to be galant in handling a woman, yet draw the line whenever she falters. Women need mild and lovely treatment in general, yet they also need some bits of harshness to bring them back to their senses every now and then. Accept it or not, its the reality.

I think they rest are not worth commenting on.

I have expected this from you. Thank you so much for proving my point. lipsrsealed
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 5:00pm On Nov 12, 2013
12 inches!:
over 3 years and this post still attracts attention. Trully a legendary posts. Women will never accept that they need control but will all knw they do

And men will never accept that they need help and guidance on how to be men.

It doesn't come natural and it's obvious by some comments. ....the type of role models they have grown up with.

An uncomplete man seek control to fill the void of what he lacks internally.

Fact.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 5:02pm On Nov 12, 2013
ileobatojo:


Very well said!

Be careful. I was told that post didn't make sense and unworthy of a response. grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 11:27pm On Nov 12, 2013
Mrs.Chima:


And men will never accept that they need help and guidance on how to be men.

It doesn't come natural and it's obvious by some comments. ....the type of role models they have grown up with.

An uncomplete man seek control to fill the void of what he lacks internally.

Fact.
You're talking off point please. I have compared tai2 post with my life experiences and have found it to be 99.9% correct.
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sagamite(m): 11:59pm On Nov 12, 2013
Mrs.Chima:

And men will never accept that they need help and guidance on how to be men.

It doesn't come natural and it's obvious by some comments. ....the type of role models they have grown up with.

An uncomplete man seek control to fill the void of what he lacks internally.

Fact.

Real Men mugus, start jotting down notes.

Lecture don start. grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sagamite(m): 12:00am On Nov 13, 2013
12 inches!:

You're talking off point please. I have compared tai2 post with my life experiences and have found it to be 99.9% correct.

GBAM!

She is just mis-training now.

Trying to create the next generation of Mugus, so bare with her. grin
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by dmcdad: 2:39am On Nov 13, 2013
Sagamite:

GBAM!

She is just mis-training now.

Trying to create the next generation of Mugus, so bare with her. grin
Lol...
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 3:21am On Nov 13, 2013
12 inches!:

You're talking off point please. I have compared tai2 post with my life experiences and have found it to be 99.9% correct.

Of course a nigga would say some ignant shit like this!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 3:22am On Nov 13, 2013
Sagamite:

GBAM!

She is just mis-training now.

Trying to create the next generation of Mugus, so bare with her. grin

Of course you will agree to some bullshit like this!
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MrsChima(f): 3:23am On Nov 13, 2013
Sagamite:

Real Men mugus, start jotting down notes.

Lecture don start. grin

Did you get your crayon sharpened? tongue
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sagamite(m): 6:13am On Nov 13, 2013
Mrs.Chima:

Did you get your crayon sharpened? tongue

God forbid bad thing. grin

You people can never make me a real man. tongue

I use my eyes, ears and brain. I no be mugu. cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 9:40am On Nov 13, 2013
Sagamite:

God forbid bad thing. grin

You people can never make me a real man. tongue

I use my eyes, ears and brain. I no be mugu. cheesy
or mumuni per se cheesy
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sagamite(m): 9:44am On Nov 13, 2013
2s£xy:
or mumuni per se cheesy

Abi o! grin

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