Control or no control, I have come to realize that women no matter how good they should be kept on a short leash. That is why we hv so many "real men" coming to whine on nl. For example wen i want to leave a relationship, nowadays, i jst leave.

12 inches!:
Control or no control, I have come to realize that women no matter how good they should be kept on a short leash. That is why we hv so many "real men" coming to whine on nl. For example wen i want to leave a relationship, nowadays, i jst leave.

GBOSA, GBAM, GBOSA!

No be only women have entitlement to such. Only mugu real men would think they are the only ones.

Don't make me happy or be disrespectful and think I will stay there because I am a real man. You will be very surprised.

12 inches!:
Control or no control, I have come to realize that women no matter how good they should be kept on a short leash. That is why we hv so many "real men" coming to whine on nl. For example wen i want to leave a relationship, nowadays, i jst leave.

Correct, jor. They think they are the only ones who should act that way.

Well, the wiser a guy becomes, the less he whine and passively become the 'god'.

Stumbled on this thread,cant believe i read up to the 37th page
Tai2 deserves a godlike status on nairaland for this amazing and legendary thread
Let's hope the phussy whipped dudes would come and read this thread and stop disturbing us with unending and incessant whining of how naija girls are treating them badly.
Big ups

So many angry men.

andromida: So many angry men.

Lol! Funny how most of them have testimonies of how they have been heart broken

Una ndo, it is well

Have a great weekend

bukatyne:

Lol! Funny how most of them have testimonies of how they have been heart broken

Una ndo, it is well

Have a great weekend

For all the learners, this is a suppression tactic.

It is meant as a challenge of you masculinity to get you to shut up so they have more mugus they can pat on the back as "real men".

Always remind them that they have more testimonies, will probably have lasting testimonies in future and they are likely to suffer more in the battle of the sexes.

Unfortunately, when you ridicule them when they moan about this in future, there will be some moronic real man coming to tell you that it is wrong and not gentlemanly, so he can get his daily affirmation sustenance from the women that will not give him face until the game is over.

I have a passionate dislike of real men.

Oga, Sagamite the Dynamite, what is your definition,description of the REAL MAN? because I sense it( as often used in your context) opposes or contradicts its meaning as generally used by the female/ladies.

Sagamite:

For all the learners, this is a suppression tactic.

It is meant as a challenge of you masculinity to get you to shut up so they have more mugus they can pat on the back as "real men".

Always remind them that they have more testimonies, will probably have lasting testimonies in future and they are likely to suffer more in the battle of the sexes.

Unfortunately, when you ridicule them when they moan about this in future, there will be some moronic real man coming to tell you that it is wrong and not gentlemanly, so he can get his daily affirmation sustenance from the women that will not give him face until the game is over.

I have a passionate dislike of real men.

bukatyne:

Lol! Funny how most of them have testimonies of how they have been heart broken

Una ndo, it is well

Have a great weekend

Its getting out of hand this battle of sexes and i am even beginning to feel bad for them. Is it really this hard to get a nice woman? Like really?

andromida:

Its getting out of hand this battle of sexes and i am even beginning to feel bad for them. Is it really this hard to get a nice woman? Like really?

I wonder o

They are in my prayers

2s£xy:
Oga, Sagamite the Dynamite, what is your definition,description of the REAL MAN? because I sense it( as often used in your context) opposes or contradicts its meaning as generally used by the female/ladies.

Abeg, I dey come.

That deserves a comprehensive address and at the moment I am busy judging many essays in the Family Debate section.


Anyway, a friend just messaged me about this Naija girl he just met, she asked for them to briefly meet up and chat. When he drove to her house to pick her up, this girl demanded they go to restaurant. She then selects an expensive-ish one and for this brief meet-up bobo don spend £55.

What makes this girl think a guy that is not your man should be spending such sum on you?

Sagamite:

Abeg, I dey come.

That deserves a comprehensive address and at the moment I am busy judging many essays in the Family Debate section.


Anyway, a friend just messaged me about this Naija girl he just met, she asked for them to briefly meet up and chat. When he drove to her house to pick her up, this girl demanded they go to restaurant. She then selects an expensive-ish one and for this brief meet-up bobo don spend £55.

What makes this girl think a guy that is not your man should be spending such sum on you?

The Bobo has too much noni and might be probably thinking of how to sleep with her to recoup his 'investment'. Don't be surprised if the foolish boy cannot give his family that money. Like someone would say, 'the boy is good, apa lon je be'. I.e. a waster


I find it as absurd as a random guy asking me to cook for him.

.ike seriously?

bukatyne:
The Bobo has too much noni and might be probably thinking of how to sleep with her to recoup his 'investment'. Don't be surprised if the foolish boy cannot give his family that money. Like someone would say, 'the boy is good, apa lon je be'. I.e. a waster


I find it as absurd as a random guy asking me to cook for him.

.ike seriously?

Damn right!

I told him to include his petrol cost in the returns paa paa.

Then she will come and moan that he used her, when she herself is a moronically inconsiderate ediot. And real men will say "he is such a baaaaaaaaaastard".

Sagamite:

Abeg, I dey come.

That deserves a comprehensive address and at the moment I am busy judging many essays in the Family Debate section.


Anyway, a friend just messaged me about this Naija girl he just met, she asked for them to briefly meet up and chat. When he drove to her house to pick her up, this girl demanded they go to restaurant. She then selects an expensive-ish one and for this brief meet-up bobo don spend £55.

What makes this girl think a guy that is not your man should be spending such sum on you?

May be the guy get the money ni.

Why is he complaning after paying.

Tgirl4real:

May be the guy get the money ni.

Why is he complaning after paying.

What is he suppose to do?

Get himself in the awkward position of telling her to fck off when she said lets go to a restaurant instead of just sitting in the car?

Tell her the restaurant is too expensive after seeing the menu?

Tell her to cough up 50% when the bill arrives?

Which of the above do you think will work in his best interest?

Sagamite:

What is he suppose to do?

Get himself in the awkward position of telling her to fck off when she said lets go to a restaurant instead of just sitting in the car?

Tell her the restaurant is too expensive after seeing the menu?

Tell her to cough up 50% when the bill arrives?

Which of the above do you think will work in his best interest?

The last option sounds good.

I wish I could be half as bad as these ladies. Lol

Tgirl4real:
The last option sounds good.

I wish I could be half as bad as these ladies. Lol

All the options will mean his initial investment is lost.

As an experienced investor, one just has to add to the investment and reap the benefits later without maintenance of the assets when the other party starts investing.

when ladies/women/ girls calls you ''Real Men'' these are the meaning to it;

(1) that you are a he-goat, that must do all what they want at your own discomfort.

(2) that you dont suit the position to be their man, denying you touching, holding, hugging, kissing and f.ucking her pucci.

(3) they see it as if they are doing you favour just by hanging out with you.

(4) even though they knew your galfriend, they still wants to chop your money as if you dont good use of it.

(5) when they hurt you, commit offences against you and provoked you, they still want you to tell them sorry.

(6) they keep numerous boyfriends and have a special f.ucker among you guys, and placed you in 25th position on the list but will go berserk when they see you gist with another girl.

In Joe's voice: i dont want to be a real no more.

Lol@special fuckers.

Kudos to REAL men.

bukatyne:

Lol! Funny how most of them have testimonies of how they have been heart broken

Una ndo, it is well

Have a great weekend

Many of them are bitter from betrayal and poor choices.

Mrs.Chima:
Lol@special fuckers.

Kudos to REAL men.

mrs chima, how market today na?

Mrs.Chima:

Many of them are bitter from betrayal and poor choices.

Are you talking about women?

Because they are usually the ones bitter and moaning.

Trouble dey sleep inyanga go wake am na wetin hin dey find.....

You can tell a girl wey her eye don tear yet u go dey ask am out what do you expect? A saint!? Cmon your longa throut no gree you and when the bill come u con dey cry like nollywood actress

Most of these guy complaining and coverging on how to deal with them 'bitchy' girls are just under-age chaps who want to do adult stuff when they have JAMB and semester exams to write!

When two mature people are dating the entire story is not what I see here....so much complex issues, puppy love drama SMH

Thank God ASUU is calling of the strike today!!!

mencade5: when ladies/women/ girls calls you ''Real Men'' these are the meaning to it;

(1) that you are a he-goat, that must do all what they want at your own discomfort.

(2) that you dont suit the position to be their man, denying you touching, holding, hugging, kissing and f.ucking her pucci.

(3) they see it as if they are doing you favour just by hanging out with you.

(4) even though they knew your galfriend, they still wants to chop your money as if you dont good use of it.

(5) when they hurt you, commit offences against you and provoked you, they still want you to tell them sorry.

(6) they keep numerous boyfriends and have a special f.ucker among you guys, and placed you in 25th position on the list but will go berserk when they see you gist with another girl.

In Joe's voice: i dont want to be a real no more.

My God, u've suffered.

49cents: Trouble dey sleep inyanga go wake am na wetin hin dey find.....

You can tell a girl wey her eye don tear yet u go dey ask am out what do you expect? A saint!? Cmon your longa throut no gree you and when the bill come u con dey cry like nollywood actress

Most of these guy complaining and coverging on how to deal with them 'bitchy' girls are just under-age chaps who want to do adult stuff when they have JAMB and semester exams to write!

When two mature people are dating the entire story is not what I see here....so much complex issues, puppy love drama SMH

Thank God ASUU is calling of the strike today!!!

Thank God indeed.

Sagamite:

Are you talking about women?

Because they are usually the ones bitter and moaning.

Erm this thread is proving otherwise.

49cents: Trouble dey sleep inyanga go wake am na wetin hin dey find.....

You can tell a girl wey her eye don tear yet u go dey ask am out what do you expect? A saint!? Cmon your longa throut no gree you and when the bill come u con dey cry like nollywood actress

Most of these guy complaining and coverging on how to deal with them 'bitchy' girls are just under-age chaps who want to do adult stuff when they have JAMB and semester exams to write!

When two mature people are dating the entire story is not what I see here....so much complex issues, puppy love drama SMH

Thank God ASUU is calling of the strike today!!!

You are very right.

As long as you stick with "my time don pass" older babes or "I know I no fine" women, you will get maturity and it is not complex.

Those are adults ready to write JAMB and semester exams with you because dem don see say the future na hardwork if dem no settle the exams soon.

The loss of looks is a strong sedative in terms of women's behaviours.

andromida:

Erm this thread is proving otherwise.

Life does not prove otherwise.

I know many women talk shyt that real men love to believe. Experience professionals like me don't fall for it.

https://www.nairaland.com/1436171/black-berry-wahala-wit-girlfriend/12#18144948

Men, have the power. Because at the end of the day, they will be the one that have what you want and can decide to give it to you or not. They will have more choices than you. It is even worse considering women are more emotional, as that means the effect of the disappointment is more impactful.

https://www.nairaland.com/1436171/black-berry-wahala-wit-girlfriend/12#18145239

andromida:

My God, u've suffered.

hey woman! Don't get me wrong, okay? Those points above were coined from people's experience. Hahahahahaha... This sh.it cannot happen to me.
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#Team make my money

Got my Jamb admission letter in 1999 to study my first choice in UI at my first attempt.....truly hardwork pays!

These days all these boys are just day dreaming about how to poke this girl or that one and sagging their 2K jeans to show their dirty boxers instead of reading their books they rather look for short cuts.....somehow I appreciate that their socio-cultural milleau has changed drastically yet that is no ample reason to wanna put the cart before the horse! Every age had its own challenges too!

Sleeping with a girl in her early twenties is the easiest thing as many of the girls are really cheap, broke and empty-headed without a clear focus in life, peer-pressure and the psychological curiosity for adventure makes it a walk over!

Sad but true, You don't even need to have a car or a crib or cash sef all you need to have is the same empty-head that way the communication is easily understood!

But then the government should really put structures in place to get lads and lasses profitably engaged this will definitely abate this social misnormer

Mature peeps are individuals who have have ripened in self-awareness, sef-dignity, are capable of taking responsibilty for their decisions, are largely independent emotionally, economically and psychologically! You may find them in any age range as experience have shown me that age is but an indication of how long you have existed rather tham that which you have lived!

49cents: Got my Jamb admission letter in 1999 to study my first choice in UI at my first attempt.....truly hardwork pays!

These days all these boys are just day dreaming about how to poke this girl or that one and sagging their 2K jeans to show their dirty boxers instead of reading their books they rather look for short cuts.....somehow I appreciate that their socio-cultural milleau has changed drastically yet that is no ample reason to wanna put the cart before the horse! Every age had its own challenges too!

Sleeping with a girl in her early twenties is the easiest thing as many of the girls are really cheap, broke and empty-headed without a clear focus in life, peer-pressure and the psychological curiosity for adventure makes it a walk over!

Sad but true, You don't even need to have a car or a crib or cash sef all you need to have is the same empty-head that way the communication is easily understood!

But then the government should really put structures in place to get lads and lasses profitably engaged this will definitely abate this social misnormer

Mature peeps are individuals who have have ripened in self-awareness, sef-dignity, are capable of taking responsibilty for their decisions, are largely independent emotionally, economically and psychologically! You may find them in any age range as experience have shown me that age is but an indication of how long you have existed rather tham that which you have lived!

Thoughtful...