No trust no love. what sort of love is that anyway?

I feel trust n love go side by side. For you to love someone, i feel trust has to have its own play.
If as u said there is no trust, i will not marry someone i cant trust even if i love the person. Cos trust is very essential in every relationship even friendship.

Well you will prematurely age yourself if you marry this person because you will worry about what he is doing when he is not with you.

Poster. . .

What kind of dumb thread did you create?
I think you need to know the meaning of love before you created this nonsense
Oya, Define Love.

mama-gee:

Poster. . .

What kind of dumb thread did you create?
I think you need to know the meaning of love before you created this nonsense
Oya, Define Love.
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come on, it aint dumb,

no, i love to trust, than i trust to love.

It depends on many other Factors.

We Trust those we Ought to
-     Marry those we Ought to
-    Love those we Ought to.

Sometimes, they all don't roll together but
t's alot berra if Trust is present in marriage.

mama-gee:

Poster. . .

What kind of dumb thread did you create?
I think you need to know the meaning of love before you created this nonsense
Oya, Define Love.

Why do u always criticise other people thought, ideal and feelings does that makes u perfect? What 're u up to?

Love covers all things.I can marry him for the fact that i dont trust him which gives me a more relaxed mind anytime he does anything bad or he misbehaves. Putting too much trust in some one and at the end the person disappoints you,give you an everlasting heartbreak which i dont think is called for.
My own view.

What happened to all those people we had trusted sometime in the past?
Does trusting ever work?

romsky:

y marry a man u dont trust, well love that is blind will be opened by marriage once he puts a tracking device on u

A lot of peeps are besotted with peeps they don't necessarily trust, I think its called being head over heels in-love! As for my humble self, such can't happen to me.

yes it is possible.

there are some people out there who never develope the ability to trust
plent of time menand women loose trust in thier spouse/partner (lies, cheating,etc) but still love them

romsky:

y marry a man u dont trust, well love that is blind will be opened by marriage once he puts a tracking device on u

lmao
@ poster
Trust me u cant possibly love someone u dnt trust, I believe trust breeds love.

trust is the foundation of every love. no trust no real love

Not in all cases.

the question is not dumb, the poster is right, am also a victim too, i love my husband so much but sometimes he behave strange and i start doubting him, so you see sometimes both dont really work together, what if there is heartbreak what will you do? the person might just die, when am in love i sacrifice alot so due to past experiece, i find it hard to trust.

If love is truly blind, why care about trust 

kokoye:

If love is truly blind, why care about trust 

But love is not literally blind, it just overlook some basics in a relationship e.g trust


But love without trust= High blood pressure= sudden death/ gradual death

Real love is blind.

The type of love my savior has for me . . .even when I am undeserving.

Go watch the movie 'Original Sin' for a description of real love.
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We all have all just attached conditions to it. . . .it is now a business / religious venture.

some do dat hoping that he/she will change for good

kokoye:

Real love is blind.

The type of love my savior has for me . . .even when I am undeserving.

Go watch the movie 'Original Sin' for a description of real love.
_______

We all have all just attached conditions to it. . . .it is now a business / religious venture.

that movie was just crazy

mama-gee:

Poster. . .

What kind of dumb thread did you create?
I think you need to know the meaning of love before you created this nonsense
Oya, Define Love.

offtopic - these ridiculous shenanigans will not change the fact that u are nls dumbest poster - all volume and no substance

lov and trust at times works hand to hand
but at times it doesn't work

u might love someone but u never trust him/her

[size=13pt]if you truly love someone i think you should be able to trust them
trust is a function of true love [/size]

googles:

[size=13pt]if you truly love someone i think you should be able to trust them
trust is a function of true love [/size]

that's true in an ideal world but you can lose trust in someone you love based on their actions. Trust and compatibility is more important than love to me.

when will women accept that nature made prowlers of men.
that when he's done he will return home should be enough trust.

Sisi Eko, where have u been all this while?