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Mynd44

She doesn't have a choice, honestly...

crackhaus:
She doesn't have a choice, honestly...

na hard work o

StarBukola:
na hard work o

She still doesn't have a choice in the matter.

Iya ni wura

God bless all present and future mothers

crackhaus:

She still doesn't have a choice in the matter.

obviously she doesn't, isn't that why she is a mother

I heard they enjoy it...

Zeze06:
I heard they enjoy it...

I heard male child is always a pain in the ass

StarBukola:
obviously she doesn't, isn't that why she is a mother

Exactly.

You are right

When you are pregnant, how you know it's a guy

You are sick all morning.
You have pimples and rashes all over your face
You look stressed out 247.
You can't eat, even when you eat you end up vomiting all the food.
You can't spend time inside the church on Sunday's you always go outside to do practically nothing, just to feel comfortable
You look tired and so unattractive

When you see these signs
Just know it's a small devil (guy) in there

StarBukola:
I heard male child is always a pain in the ass

Some fathers are more tolerating.
Kids are naturally closer to such fathers _ they prefer to be fed, dressed, bathed and cuddled to bed by them.

crackhaus:
She doesn't have a choice, honestly...

Actually,she does, but her motherly instincts won't let her.

Mothers are priceless jewels.

She has a choice.

She can get a nanny, and the child doesnt have to sleep in her room. She can switch to formula feeding instead of breast feeding.

She can always push the child in a creche, and after creche hours the nanny takes over.

She can take the child to the grandmother, whether paternal or maternal.

So many options and choices..

Zeze06:


When you are pregnant, how you know it's a guy

You are sick all morning.
You have pimples and rashes all over your face
You look stressed out 247.
You can't eat, even when you eat you end up vomiting all the food.
You can't spend time inside the church on Sunday's you always go outside to do practically nothing, just to feel comfortable
You look tired and so unattractive

When you see these signs
Just know it's a small devil (guy) in there

Where did you get these?

I love my mum.. But as a child don't try that nonsense with her.. She has been stern with us since cradle

Obongawan, abadie

enoqueen:


Where did you get these?

Zeze06:


When you are pregnant, how you know it's a guy

You are sick all morning.
You have pimples and rashes all over your face
You look stressed out 247.
You can't eat, even when you eat you end up vomiting all the food.
You can't spend time inside the church on Sunday's you always go outside to do practically nothing, just to feel comfortable
You look tired and so unattractive

When you see these signs
Just know it's a small devil (guy) in there

Abeg ,is this how u r brought up?

eyinjuege:
She has a choice.

She can get a nanny, and the child doesnt have to sleep in her room. She can switch to formula feeding instead of breast feeding.

She can always push the child in a creche, and after creche hours the nanny takes over.

She can take the child to the grandmother, whether paternal or maternal.

So many options and choices..

StarBukola:
Abeg ,is this how u r brought up?

Why are you so concerned with how I was brought up? What is your business with that ?
You better face your own battles ahead of you, and don't bother with how a complete stranger was brought up. Most people that are nosy don't live long enough to tell the tales of where their nosiness landed them.
I have stated the choices the woman has in raising her child. There are other choices still available that I've not even mentioned btw.

eyinjuege:


Why are you so concerned with how I was brought up? What is your business with that ?
You better face your own battles ahead of you, and don't bother with how a complete stranger was brought up. Most people that are nosy don't live long enough to tell the tales of where their nosiness landed them.
I have stated the choices the woman has in raising her child. There are other choices still available that I've not even mentioned btw.

you sound angry,okay sorry

Juliearth:


Actually,she does, but her motherly instincts won't let her.

No, she doesn't.

crackhaus:

No, she doesn't.

my brother she does o, some mother abandon there baby

eyinjuege:
She has a choice.

She can get a nanny, and the child doesnt have to sleep in her room. She can switch to formula feeding instead of breast feeding.

She can always push the child in a creche, and after creche hours the nanny takes over.

She can take the child to the grandmother, whether paternal or maternal.

So many options and choices..

In other words, for her to have a choice, mother and child must NEVER have physical contact.

Even the Queen of England with all her class, elegance, and countless courtiers ready to clean her shiit, doesn't sound like this.
You're the real MVP.

StarBukola:
my brother she does o, some mother abandon there baby

They were put in the family way by mistake, that must be why.

crackhaus:

No, she doesn't.

Dont base your reasoning based on the bolded only. The other part of my sentence is not for fancy. Be guided!

Zeze06:
Obongawan, abadie

No wonder

Sorry

enoqueen:


No wonder

crackhaus:


In other words, for her to have a choice, mother and child must NEVER have physical contact.

Even the Queen of England with all her class, elegance, and countless courtiers ready to clean her shiit, doesn't sound like this.
You're the real MVP.

Life has always been about choices.
If a woman chooses to breast feed, wonderful. She may also choose not to. The child will still live.
If she decides she and her partner can cope without a nanny, that's still great. If she can't cope without one, there are always options, provided she and her partner can afford it.
When a mother goes all the way out for her child, she should be appreciated, and never forget she had other choices or options.
All the royal household have always been raised by nannies, so nothing new there btw. Despite the fact they don't have serious jobs, except occasional ceremonial visits

Juliearth:


Dont base your reasoning based on the bolded only. The other part of my sentence is not for fancy. Be guided!

eyinjuege:


Life has always been about choices.
If a woman chooses to breast feed, wonderful. She may also choose not to. The child will still live.
If she decides she and her partner can cope without a nanny, that's still great. If she can't cope without one, there are always options, provided she and her partner can afford it.
When a mother goes all the way out for her child, she should be appreciated, and never forget she had other choices or options.
All the royal household have always been raised by nannies, so nothing new there btw. Despite the fact they don't have serious jobs, except occasional ceremonial visits

I do agree with you here. Child upbringing is a major task on it's own and a mother deserves all the help she can get. How a mother chooses to raise her child is up to her as long as the child is not harmed. If she chooses formula feeding and having nannies around to help out, it's okay as long the child is proper taken care of. But for people like me who can worry for Africa and beyond we would prefer to do without the nanny. It's all part of the joy of motherhood.