My Ex girlfriend just called me that she's coming to east for a wedding ceremony (she and her family are based in he north)and that the person she plans on spending the night in her place just disappointed her and she's already on her way down here ....normally I wouldn't have any problems accommodating her but the issue here is that my new girlfriend is in my place and plan on leaving on Saturday...

She will probably get here by nightfall and is complaining she doesn't have money to go lodge in a hotel and unfortunately I'm kind of broke too(my girlfriend have been with me for 10days) if not I would've booked a hotel room for her .
She's has been begging me to allow her spend the night in my place because she doesn't really know anyone in town and promised to continue her journey tomorrow,she's someone that have helped me a lot in my troubled times and I would love to return the favor ...But my new girlfriend have no idea what's going on (A law student) no matter how i try to explain to her she would never understand me and i dont want to harm our relationship,
what do you think I should do??

whatever u want to do ,do it but remember to do d right one

Talk to you new GF...she is the only one who can help in this situation. You gotta help her tho.

Tell her you can't accommodate her to avoid problems.

cruzita:
whatever u want to do ,do it but remember to do d right one

Like what??

mrtomola:
Talk to you new GF...she is the only one who can help in this situation. You gotta help her tho.

She's a very jealous person

If u don't ve money go and borrow from a friend,there re some cheap hotels u can pay for less than 4k. Don't do the mistake of telling ur new gf that u re contemplating on bringing ur ex to ur house to pass the night except u want to break up with her. If u can't do it tell her now so she will start looking for alternative.

JONNYSPUTE:
If u don't ve money go and borrow from a friend,there re some cheap hotels u can pay for less than 4k. Don't do the mistake of telling ur new gf that u re contemplating on bringing ur ex to ur house to pass the night except u want to break up with her. If u can't do it tell her now so she will start looking for alternative.

you have a point thnks

Rorachy:
Tell her you can't accommodate her to avoid problems.

that's too mean

Passy089:



you have a point thnks

. Uwc

If both of you separated based on mutual principle - incompatibility - then, try by all means possible to help her. Just assumed that it's a life or death situation of someone that's so dear to you and do for her what you'd do in such a situation, on principle, without minding whether any third party is hurt or not - of course after letting such a third party to see reason with you on why you have no choice that to allow your ex to pass a night at your place.

LordKO:
If both of you separated based on mutual principle - incompatibility - then, try by all means possible to help her. Just assumed that it's a life or death situation of someone that's so dear to you and do for her what you'd do in such a situation, on principle, without minding whether any third party is hurt or not - of course after letting such a third party to see reason with you on why you have no choice that to allow your ex to pass a night at your place.

Alright bro

Passy089:




that's too mean

Then you don't have respect for your girlfriend.

Passy089:



Alright bro

So how did u solve the situation