Once you have been hurt so many times in relationships by people who swore and promised never to hurt you and to leave you at any one moment, your heart gets scared to get attached to anyone again. It becomes so hard for you to trust and love again, it can take you ages to believe in anyone who tells you how they love you and how they wanna spend the rest of their life with you, you can become so vulnerable, you can hate love and a certain category of people, you can even say and think love does not exist in this world and you can wish to stay single for the rest for your life because of that trauma in you. But putting aside all those bad past experiences, emotional pain, torture, stress, worries, fear, and thoughts, the fact remains true love exists in this world. God gave it to us as a free natural gift. It’s within us and the societies we live in but it’s just very hard to find.
Sometimes we ignore and we friend zone the people who are supposed to be the love of our lives because of the fear of getting hurt again. And it’s so absurd that there no special or new words those people can use to convince us that they are different from the ones that hurt us. They use the same words. If we still need love in our lives we have to be very keen and so observant. We have to learn to risk our hearts again because if we don’t we won’t get the happiness and love we want in our lives. Everything is all about trying and in that trying it’s were we can find a right thing or person for us.
So, keep believing and hoping to love again, keep thinking of getting married and having a happy family and home. It’s possible for everyone. God has a plan for each one of us. But sometimes things don’t happen at the moment we want them because it’s never the right time. And that doesn’t mean they won’t happen, they will and we shall all be happy, we shall feel loved and cared for again. Just keep believing and stay in faith. Do things that make you happy, associate with friends that encourage and motivate you, eat well, be healthy, do developmental things that take you to another level and trust me your time will come soon. No need to rush. Let God lead you into the right path.