grossintel:
ANU MPAMA, EWU AWUSA, I DON'T BLAME YOU, I BLAME MTN FOR 100naira DATA. GIVE ME YOUR HOUSE ADDRESS, I WILL COME THERE TOMORROW AND BEAT YOU THE HELL UP!!! WASTED FAGG!

Arccangel:
[s]Its stories like this that scare the freaking crap outta me when it comes to guys. The fear that crept into me when I read this fõol's story eh? I can't explain it. Bros, I don't know you o. But if you don't marry that girl, be ready to not have children.; girls especially. Even if you later do, they would forever be heartbroken. Haba. 10years!!!!! Even the devil is afraid of you right now[/s]..

otitokoroleti:

bro, I pray that you will marry that girl. your parent & hers need to sort their differences out to make the union work. 10yrs out of a woman life is not a joke & looking at your story, you are the first & only man in her life. Don't let her run mad or lose her life bro.

lelvin:
You should have said that in English maybe it will give me some clue as to the type of eee-diot am dealing with. Bunch of sperm-fuckups.

I don't need to type it for you to understand, because if I did you still won't understand. How would a durlard like you understand? When it's obvious your dad ejaculated a brainless mutated sperm into your mom , Niga watch your lane o, no just near my matter you better face front mofo!!

livinbygrace:



He no go better for everybody accusing this guy for his decision.If it were to be the girl that dumped the boy,most of you will be supporting her ,saying all sort of nonsense.Most ladies dump guys these days for better offer and heaven did not fall,so if the guy feels she is not good for him he has the right to move on.Moreover most ladies would do worse if they had been in same position.I am talking from experience .So guy move on .

grossintel:
I don't need to type it for you to understand, because if I did you still won't understand. How would a durlard like you understand? When it's obvious your dad ejaculated a brainless mutated sperm into your mom , Niga watch your lane o, no just near my matter you better face front mofo!!

Donjazzy12:

Na Boko haram go bomb your own head wicked woman!
Your own heart is worse than wicked.
So you want to force him into a loveless marriage abi?

isaacsegun:


thanks for your candid contribution

Ilajeboy:
wey this guy go jst dey jeje keep matter to himself.. He come go carry matter come nairaland where half are semi gaga crazy... Jst see curses changing places like simultaneous equation

YtivitissuP:
In as much as I'd have loved to tell the OP to marry the girl, I think he's not telling the full story. There should be other reasons he's not interested in marrying the girl.

As per everyone talking about the 10 years shit, drilling and abortion stuffs, comparing the male and female lives, everyone makes sacrifices in a relationship. No one knows the condition men are when they sacrifice money...So it's not about money can be replaced or not. It's about the situation or condition the men were while making the sacrifice. When I was younger, I'd have said money can be replaced but time can't.... Now I'd not even attempt saying that because those conditions are priceless.

I've seen a lady break up with a guy after 8 years because she found a richer guy. He simply moved on, got married in less than 18 months afterward and he's better than he ever thought. No one killed her. She's fine too and enjoying her life.

So I can't advise you to marry her because you've been together for 10 years or for abortion reasons. IF YOU FEEL IT'S RIGHT WITHIN YOU TO MARRY HER, DO SO. IF YOU FEEL IT'S NOT RIGHT, DON'T DO SO. LET YOUR CONSCIENCE JUDGE YOU. I'M NOT IN YOUR SHOES.

lelvin:
What is all these rubbish people are writing? He didn't rape her, so let him live his life. Everyday, we see guys being used and dumped by ladies and the guy does not go about cursing them. But once it's a guy, he's compared to a demon or even something worse. Op if you marry her out of pity, you will regret it. But talk to her and if she's not ready to wait, let her go.

lelvin:
You running already? From the way you write, I understand your plight. It's not easy being on the receiving end, it's only brain you yet to receive. I don't know what you believe in, I guess u one of those small touts that can be seen around. Do yourself and your family a favour, and get some sense. Sperm-fuckups

CzarChris:
Guy I feel your pain, not to even imagine the curse wey only you don collect from NLers This why I avoid Virgins like a plague, a woman never ever forgets her 1st love. My personal advice to you is to try your very best to marry that girl, because you will not find a more loyal partner in life, plus 10 years no bi moimoi.
I'm no stranger to parents saying no to partners, I experienced it 1st hand with my mum cos she didn't like my last girlfriend. I sat down and observed her opinions, and truly after a while, the girl started acting up. That what an elder sees while sitting down adage is true. From what I see, you are tried and want to test more waters, because you didn't say why the parents from both sides disagree to the union, and you marrying her now is out of sentiments, so either way, the girl is seriously fuccked.

Dude, just marry the poor punnay and get it over with.




Girls and 1st love sha.



My prayer : Lord please let the 1st and only girl I would ever deflower in this life be my wife.


AMEEEEEN!!!

grossintel:
what are you saying? Why compare a guy and a girls life span. The annoying thing here everyone keeps hating about is the 10 years. This is simply because a womans body is like a car, the more you drive it the higher the millage and the lower the value. After damaging her womb, slacking her breast and pvssy for 10 years, you want to dump her for who? So another man will come and inherit your used property while he goes for a fresh blood with a standing breast and no abortions. This guy is just wicked. His 6 years older than this girl, don't tell me his not experienced and didn't know he would take this action in future. I bet his abusing that girl physically so she would leave but she didn't so he's thinking of other options.

grossintel:
what are you saying? Why compare a guy and a girls life span. The annoying thing here everyone keeps hating about is the 10 years. This is simply because a womans body is like a car, the more you drive it the higher the millage and the lower the value. After damaging her womb, slacking her breast and pvssy for 10 years, you want to dump her for who? So another man will come and inherit your used property while he goes for a fresh blood with a standing breast and no abortions. This guy is just wicked. His 6 years older than this girl, don't tell me his not experienced and didn't know he would take this action in future. I bet his abusing that girl physically so she would leave but she didn't so he's thinking of other options.

grossintel:
look at this jobless dropout... Check my username, trace my posts and comments, I will employ you, feed you and the rest of your family for 100 years and I won't shake. Your lucky this is over a phone screen else what I will do to you. I don't need to invite dss to handle you, I will break you like toot pick with my own hands. Enough of the mentions go make money so you will be like me when you grow up.

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

Safiaaa:
Nobody is forcing the man.

If he had a
legitimate reason to leave her, would any
body complain? He wants to leave because
of a petty excuse and on top of that he's
wasted 10 years? Its pure wickedness and
that's where the complaints are coming
from.

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

isaacsegun:
so many people that were bashing me up and
down here cannot really understand the
opposition that I'm facing from her parents