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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Santos07: 2:17pm On Aug 29
masturbation was like my food in secondary school,when does fine teachers with big butt come to teach,i would be restless until i go ease my self :' i was a boarder and our school compound was large,i could go anywere for the art.with time i started to dislike my self, i was even asking god why i had a joystick angry i tryed stoping but it was not easy,but now i am seeing signs of improvement.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by heendrix(m): 2:20pm On Aug 29
antiFapping:

mehn... this story is typical of any chronic masturbator which I once was, I could remember when I fapped immediately after reading the Bible, yes I was addicted to that extent, but believe me there is hope, he can overcome his addiction, you really need to educate him on the implications of porn and masturbation

Bro i'd tried i'd even gave him books to read that was shared at our campus fellowships on how to overcome pornography n worldly lost but all to no avail. his kinda addiction is really strong. nd do u know the worst of it after masturbate he'd be like wtf how do I do this, he would delete all the porn after two days he's under wifi tree downloading another

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by aibikhay(m): 2:37pm On Aug 29
I think @ this juncture I'd have to recommend a book, "chastity for men". If you can't get a hold of it, feel free to reach me on WhatsApp 08065610840. @op I was just thinking, if probably we can create a special group for this on WhatsApp and if a dose could come up every morning it would be of help to a handful,perhaps even more. Something like
#AntiMasturbationChallenge
#JustMyOpinion smiley

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by emmyang(m): 2:54pm On Aug 29
The truth is that like it or not, it has spiritual roots, and the only solution to dealing with the spiritual is fighting in the spiritual. Not to scare anyone here, i knw wat it feels lyk. One mistake u'l make is trying to deal wit it b4 going to God, no! You go to God 1st, then u rely on his Spirit and power to overcome,, bcus the bible says 'who hs d incorruptible seed of God cannot sin'. So rest in His love and ability to deliver. Don't mk statements lyk 'God kill me d nxt tym i do dis'.. i knw u'r dedicated to stopping, bt dt infers that its by ur power, instead be humble to God nd admit u hv no power of ur own. I dont want to write lengthily, so i'l stop here. I pray God will help us all.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 2:55pm On Aug 29
SamzackD:
Op

Did you just say masturbation kills


please would you mind explaining that part,


I'm curious sad
Well, the easiest way to feed your curiosity is to recommend two articles for you,
1) A French movie titled the 'The day earth stopped masturbating' in response to the death of a Chinese student, Zheng, who died while masturbating, well, he died after donating to a sperm bank.
2)A book titled 'The Book with No Title' (Le livre sans titre) and it showed how masturbation can have fatal consequences. Yes, that's right, FATAL!

or you can google up people who died through masturbation

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by SamzackD(m): 3:00pm On Aug 29
antiFapping:

Well, the easiest way to feed your curiosity is to recommend two articles for you,
1) A French movie titled the 'The day earth stopped masturbating' in response to the death of a Chinese student, Zheng, who died while masturbating, well, he died after donating to a sperm bank.
2)A book titled 'The Book with No Title' (Le livre sans titre) and it showed how masturbation can have fatal consequences. Yes, that's right, FATAL!

or you can google up people who died through masturbation

You still talking about a fictional movie and book, with no fact or evidence,

as for those people that died masturbating theirs is a clear case of coincidence not because of the masturbation in it self, that's like saying someone got struck by lightening while walking, so we all should stop walking cause it kills
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by saintuu(m): 3:02pm On Aug 29
First of all you just have to believe you have a destiny you must fulfil...
secondly, you must believe only Christ can lead you to the path of fulfilment...
then, thirdly always fear Christ Jesus, and remember he is always watching wat you are doing....

i was addicted to pornography and masturbation that i cannot wait a day without doing so...
but with the help of God now, i can boastfully say for the past 1 and some months now i have completely abstain from it....

like the op said, it drains you creativeness, steals you memory...
reduces you performance academically....
it also make you see the opposite sex as a mere sex tool and nothing more
it is sure something everybody needs to abstain from

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by alert01: 3:03pm On Aug 29
heendrix:


From how the guy explained to me he said it's just like a spirit when he'd feel like doing it he just cant control himself. he could go as far as using #500 out of the 1000 he has to buy data to watch porn. one day like that we agreed to wake up in the Night and read so he told m he would like to go to the toilet first. and in our school. Mellanby's kitchen net is just beside the toilet so after 10 minutes, 15 I nor see this boy (for my mind I be like even if na you dey supply urine to people on ur block u for don finish since) so i'd decide to check him only to find my nigga balance on a chair watching porn, I was just quiet watching him, he then masturbated I guess coz it was dark in there so he'd was rushing to to come back to the room but ws shocked seeing me by the door like I was ready to pound on him like a zombie so I'd just put it up like a brother to brother talk from all I could gather he said he'd would just be restless until he watch n masturbate n when he's done he'd be like omg not again as he would come back to his normal senses when he's done.
I can infer that you and your friend were uite (From university of Ibadan) ,cos mellanby is male hall of residence in UI. I'm a mellanbite
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 3:12pm On Aug 29
aibikhay:
I think @ this juncture I'd have to recommend a book, "chastity for men". If you can't get a hold of it, feel free to reach me on WhatsApp 08065610840. @op I was just thinking, if probably we can create a special group for this on WhatsApp and if a dose could come up every morning it would be of help to a handful,perhaps even more. Something like
#AntiMasturbationChallenge
#JustMyOpinion smiley
That's a nice suggestion, however I don't think everyone has access to a smartphone, and as such I think for the sake of those who don't have a smartphone, let's keep our activities here on this thread, I could be wrong though.

Speaking of an Antimasturbation challenge, there is one I would suggest.

The one week no Fapping challenge

As the name suggests it's going to last for a week(that is, it will end next week Tuesday).
For those who would want to embark on this porn and masturbation recovery journey with me, you would comment on this thread with this phrase " I am in 0/7"
0- indicates the number of days I have successfully managed to stay off porn and masturbation
7- The seven days that make up a week.

so technically, everyone that is joining would have to visit this thread everyday to update his/her comment with the appropriate numbers

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 3:15pm On Aug 29
So I will kick off the no Fapping challenge, I haven't fapped today, and I don't intend doing so today, so...

I am in 1/7

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by REB3L(m): 3:18pm On Aug 29
Here's my own solution to this problem.
You have an addiction. U download a porn video,self-service off to it. And delete it because of the guilt that follows after wards.
A few days later,you have the urge to do it and once again. You download a new one and self-service again.
Here's what I suggest.
Have a porn video on yourphone,one of maybe 5-7 minutes.
Now the first time you would be tempted to self-service. Try to hold your resolve. You woukd definately not last. And would self-service off to this.
Now after youve done that and were not successful,dont delete this video. Keep it.
Now anytime you get the urge. Check the video. Even when you dont have the urge,check the video.
After sometime you would see that the video holds no interest to you.
You woukdnt even get erect.
.
Keep doing this till like 2 weeks and youll notice the urge isnt there no more. After like a month delete the video.
The key is not to download videos.
And how do you not download videos is by having a steady video .
This i feel is the best solution.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by ammyluv2002(f): 3:24pm On Aug 29
I'm enjoying this thread! I'm happy for you guys, those who are really trying to stop. God will help you guys.


I just wanna add something....I think, it has to do with the mind! What do you conceive as a thought? If, you can keep your mind busy with other better stuffs, it goes a long way!

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 3:26pm On Aug 29
SamzackD:


You still talking about a fictional movie and book, with no fact or evidence,

as for those people that died masturbating theirs is a clear case of coincidence not because of the masturbation in it self, that's like saying someone got struck by lightening while walking, so we all should stop walking cause it kills

Search up 'autoerotic asphyxiation'
autoerotic asphyxiation is by far the most common cause of death by masturbation, fapping also causes Peyronie’s disease, a buildup of plaque when the joystick is injured causing it to bend. There have been reported cases of stroke, Cardiac arrest, etc due to excessive masturbation

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 3:34pm On Aug 29
REB3L:
Here's my own solution to this problem.
You have an addiction. U download a porn video,self-service off to it. And delete it because of the guilt that follows after wards.
A few days later,you have the urge to do it and once again. You download a new one and self-service again.
Here's what I suggest.
Have a porn video on yourphone,one of maybe 5-7 minutes.
Now the first time you would be tempted to self-service. Try to hold your resolve. You woukd definately not last. And would self-service off to this.
Now after youve done that and were not successful,dont delete this video. Keep it.
Now anytime you get the urge. Check the video. Even when you dont have the urge,check the video.
After sometime you would see that the video holds no interest to you.
You woukdnt even get erect.
.
Keep doing this till like 2 weeks and youll notice the urge isnt there no more. After like a month delete the video.
The key is not to download videos.
And how do you not download videos is by having a steady video .
This i feel is the best solution.


Thanks for your suggestion, but believe me it's a time bomb, especially for chronic masturbators.
I have tried something similar some time ago, you will definitely get bored of watching the same video and the crave for other videos would set in, you will end up feeding this crave. For instance, I remember when I had collections of bbw videos and they would arouse me any time I watched any of them, overtime, I got used to them and eventually fed up with them, I then diverted into POV, teen just like that, I was switching genres just to get one that will trigger me

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by REB3L(m): 3:37pm On Aug 29
antiFapping:


Thanks for your suggestion, but believe me it's a time bomb, especially for chronic masturbators.
I have tried something similar some time ago, you will definitely get bored of watching the same video and the crave for other videos would set in, you will end up feeding this crave. For instance, I remember when I had collections of bbw videos and they would arouse me any time I watched any of them, overtime, I got used to them and eventually fed up with them, I then diverted into POV, teen just like that, I was switching genres just to get one that will trigger me
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by REB3L(m): 3:41pm On Aug 29
antiFapping:


Thanks for your suggestion, but believe me it's a time bomb, especially for chronic masturbators.
I have tried something similar some time ago, you will definitely get bored of watching the same video and the crave for other videos would set in, you will end up feeding this crave. For instance, I remember when I had collections of bbw videos and they would arouse me any time I watched any of them, overtime, I got used to them and eventually fed up with them, I then diverted into POV, teen just like that, I was switching genres just to get one that will trigger me
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 3:50pm On Aug 29
REB3L:


Maybe it will work,maybe it won't.
From your experience, you said you had a collection of videos. I'm saying just one video.
And I believe not having any video at all would make you masturbate to anything faintly erotic.
A lady twerking. A lady with a skimpy cloth. A semi nude photo. Anything faintly nude and Bam! The spirit is set in.
If you have JUST 1 video.
No excuses to look online for any faintly nude or porn scenes.
Your mind wouldn't see anything with regards porn. You wouldn't be erect or even if you're erect it'll take way longer for you to cu.m.

i hope it helps sha

Well, it might work for someone out there, but as for me and my joystickgrin, this won't work for us(based on experience),
one of the reasons why my own recovery is taking longer as I have discovered, is complacency and over confidence.
I would normally say 'lemme check if I can stand watching a porn video without fapping' only to succumb, or maybe after I have managed to stay away from it for a while, complacency sets in, I start feeling invincible only to be humbled when the time comes, so based on my personal experience, avoiding it all together is much safer than what you proffered.

do you mind me asking if your suggestion is based on experience? Cos, ain't nothing like experience, it is indeed the best tutor

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by REB3L(m): 4:02pm On Aug 29
antiFapping:


Well, it might work for someone out there, but as for me and my joystickgrin, this won't work for us(based on experience),
one of the reasons why my own recovery is taking longer as I have discovered, is complacency and over confidence.
I would normally say 'lemme check if I can stand watching a porn video without fapping' only to succumb, or maybe after I have managed to stay away from it for a while, complacency sets in, I start feeling invincible only to be humbled when the time comes, so based on my personal experience, avoiding it all together is much safer than what you proffered.

do you mind me asking if your suggestion is based on experience? Cos, ain't nothing like experience, it is indeed the best tutor

Personal experience
That period you said you should check if you can stand without fapping. If you had a video like I said .You wouldn't have fallen.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 4:09pm On Aug 29
REB3L:


Personal experience
That period you said you should check if you can stand without fapping. If you had a video like I said .You wouldn't have fallen.
Okay sha... I do hope that this approach helps someone out there
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 4:10pm On Aug 29
ammyluv2002:
I'm enjoying this thread! I'm happy for you guys, those who are really trying to stop. God will help you guys.


I just wanna add something....I think, it has to do with the mind! What do you conceive as a thought? If, you can keep your mind busy with other better stuffs, it goes a long way!

Thanks for stopping by
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 4:12pm On Aug 29
antiFapping:
So I will kick off the no Fapping challenge, I haven't fapped today, and I don't intend doing so today, so...

I am in 1/7

Anyone wanna walk this walk with me??

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by heendrix(m): 4:22pm On Aug 29
alert01:

I can infer that you and your friend were uite (From university of Ibadan) ,cos mellanby is male hall of residence in UI. I'm a mellanbite

wow what block re you at?
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Zane2point4(m): 4:24pm On Aug 29
Mnewton:
Masturbation is simply a habit that can be curbed only when you decide deep within you DAT you ain't gonna do it no more. It begins by avoiding certain website and videos. Believe me as soon as you stop masturbating you will start noticing some changes in your live generally. using myself as an example, I noticed d following;

1) I started thinking straight; before now, I discovered I easily forget things but as soon as I stopped masturbating, I felt a significant improvement in my mental agility and coordination.
2) I started feeling strong and energised.
3) my spiritual life was strengthened.
4) my social life and self esteem was boosted.
5) ! I discovered masturbation killed my love for women and sex but after i stopped masturbating,I started caring more for my girlfriend and started thinking more about a future with her!
6) I discovered a significant increase in d size of my joystick.
I became a normal human being after I stopped masturbating !

100 percent correct, what major websites this days cant tell you is the ills of that act.
Masturbation causes many problems in male, your erection wont be strong again it will be doing off and on.
Due to the excess release of dopamine in the brain, you are now actually conditioning your mind to be only stimulaed by porn and masturbation hence your erection suffers.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nobody: 5:15pm On Aug 29
to me, the only way out is marriage

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Johnspears: 5:19pm On Aug 29
lolz
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 29
Where are the ladies?


This thread isn't for guys alone..lets stop pretending . We ladies also go through stuffs like these..Some of our ladies are chronic masturbators so please let's come in and if u've been through this, just share ur experience and how u curbed masturbation.....personally I think we should all work towards self discipline....lets deny our flesh...The truth is after masturbating, u start to feel like ure crazy or cursed..I think it's all because we give in to things of the flesh... SAY no to it and be serious about it....Don't say no nd keep viewing Erotic stuffs..Find something Good to do and if the urge is much...please carry urself and stroll out or visit a friend(of the same sex o). I know guys who actually Fought this stuff...if u believe u can actually do anything

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 5:34pm On Aug 29
redbeans:
to me, the only way out is marriage

What about those not 'ripe' for marriage
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by ubunja(m): 5:40pm On Aug 29
Since I became addicted to masturbation I'm no longer desperate for sex and I stopped begging gals for sex. Result I'm happier and less stressed. Even better being single I always have money and can afford to treat myself nice.
The funny thing is when I started to tell gals to f*ck off they started being interested in me. Lol. I can't take poo from a gal when I self-service to gals that are 100 times hotter than her. NO WAYS.
I'm happy and never fear of getting aids.
Women hate it when men love porn coz porn like prostitutes and sluts all make sex lose value and take control from women. For women to rule the world men must always hunger for them.when they stop women know they have a big problem. That's Y even women who will never give u sex will diss and shame u for masturbation. She wants u hungry for sex so she will use that hunger to friendzone u and get stuff from u while denying u sex. Its the reason why women hate it when another woman is too easy to sleep with. She is cheapening the product between her legs.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by jaksmillioniar: 6:43pm On Aug 29
mhizesther:
Where are the ladies?


This thread isn't for guys alone..lets stop pretending . We ladies also go through stuffs like these..Some of our ladies are chronic masturbators so please let's come in and if u've been through this, just share ur experience and how u curbed masturbation.....personally I think we should all work towards self discipline....lets deny our flesh...The truth is after masturbating, u start to feel like ure crazy or cursed..I think it's all because we give in to things of the flesh... SAY no to it and be serious about it....Don't say no nd keep viewing Erotic stuffs..Find something Good to do and if the urge is much...please carry urself and stroll out or visit a friend(of the same sex o). I know guys who actually Fought this stuff...if u believe u can actually do anything
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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by jaksmillioniar: 6:45pm On Aug 29
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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Santos07: 6:52pm On Aug 29
antiFapping:

Anyone wanna walk this walk with me??
yes 1/7 kiss

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 6:53pm On Aug 29
ubunja:
Since I became addicted to masturbation I'm no longer desperate for sex and I stopped begging gals for sex. Result I'm happier and less stressed. Even better being single I always have money and can afford to treat myself nice.
The funny thing is when I started to tell gals to f*ck off they started being interested in me. Lol. I can't take poo from a gal when I self-service to gals that are 100 times hotter than her. NO WAYS.
I'm happy and never fear of getting aids.
Women hate it when men love porn coz porn like prostitutes and sluts all make sex lose value and take control from women. For women to rule the world men must always hunger for them.when they stop women know they have a big problem. That's Y even women who will never give u sex will diss and shame u for masturbation. She wants u hungry for sex so she will use that hunger to friendzone u and get stuff from u while denying u sex. Its the reason why women hate it when another woman is too easy to sleep with. She is cheapening the product between her legs.

This thread is meant for those who wants to quit masturbation and as such, meant to preach against masturbation and not vouch for it.

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