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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by MasterRahl(m): 8:23am On Sep 09
Oyindidi:
why you mention me? angry
Maybe you're a chronic masturbator and he's interested in your welfare grin
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by freethesheeple(m): 10:07am On Sep 09
ubunja:
Since I became addicted to masturbation I'm no longer desperate for sex and I stopped begging gals for sex. Result I'm happier and less stressed. Even better being single I always have money and can afford to treat myself nice.
The funny thing is when I started to tell gals to f*ck off they started being interested in me. Lol. I can't take poo from a gal when I self-service to gals that are 100 times hotter than her. NO WAYS.
I'm happy and never fear of getting aids.
Women hate it when men love porn coz porn like prostitutes and sluts all make sex lose value and take control from women. For women to rule the world men must always hunger for them.when they stop women know they have a big problem. That's Y even women who will never give u sex will diss and shame u for masturbation. She wants u hungry for sex so she will use that hunger to friendzone u and get stuff from u while denying u sex. Its the reason why women hate it when another woman is too easy to sleep with. She is cheapening the product between her legs.


hahahahahah..well said..I have self control and when i talk about sex and u say no,off i go!!!...
Women are using sex to enslave men!!!

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by paulbets: 2:51pm On Sep 09
ubunja:
Since I became addicted to masturbation I'm no longer desperate for sex and I stopped begging gals for sex. Result I'm happier and less stressed. Even better being single I always have money and can afford to treat myself nice.
The funny thing is when I started to tell gals to f*ck off they started being interested in me. Lol. I can't take poo from a gal when I self-service to gals that are 100 times hotter than her. NO WAYS.
I'm happy and never fear of getting aids.
Women hate it when men love porn coz porn like prostitutes and sluts all make sex lose value and take control from women. For women to rule the world men must always hunger for them.when they stop women know they have a big problem. That's Y even women who will never give u sex will diss and shame u for masturbation. She wants u hungry for sex so she will use that hunger to friendzone u and get stuff from u while denying u sex. Its the reason why women hate it when another woman is too easy to sleep with. She is cheapening the product between her legs.
My Nigga grin cheesy
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by adekhingz(m): 3:37pm On Sep 09
I think one other way to counter masturbation is to get Married. Anytime you are having any sexual urge, you meet your spouse to satisfy the urge. Some married couples masturbate too, but that's rare.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Daviestunech(m): 4:15pm On Sep 09
adekhingz:
I think one other way to counter masturbation is to get Married. Anytime you are having any sexual urge, you meet your spouse to satisfy the urge. Some married couples masturbate too, but that's rare.

Hmm and u think guys below 20 dat masturbate shud just go and marry?
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by emmynice329(m): 7:57pm On Sep 09
ask him for me
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 8:36pm On Sep 09
Evening guys...

I am in 10/14

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by adekhingz(m): 9:31pm On Sep 09
Daviestunech:


Hmm and u think guys below 20 dat masturbate shud just go and marry?
. if a person is old enough to start enjoying sexual pleasure. let him/ her not deny himself that right. age is just a number. instead of wasting energy doing self service. let the girl or the guy assist you
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Geosystem(m): 9:43pm On Sep 09
antiFapping:
Evening guys...
I am in 10/14
mine is 13/14, still holding on despite the intense pressure.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nobody: 2:14am On Sep 10
aibikhay:

cry cry cry
Playing with matches while sitting on a keg of gun powder?? IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK! NEVER! IT WILL ONLY DELAY THE INEVITABLE. YOU DON'T FEED A CAT AND EXPECT IT TO LOOK SKINNY. NO WAY! HE'S GONNA GROW! YOU DON'T FEED YOUR URGE AND EXPECT IT TO DIE. NO, ACTUALLY THE OPPOSITE HAPPENS.
Masturbation is NOT like a spirit, IT IS A SPIRIT. Who can go into a strong man's house and plunder his goods except a man much stronger than he? Jesus Christ is the way out!
dude that theory he gave is working, am in 3/7 now.. Porn is my phone but its hidden, yet I've not Wanked, try it, I know you are wanking right now sef

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nobody: 3:11am On Sep 10
Beetwaise:


You're right @Sterix10. Masturbation & pornography causes brain fog & mental laziness. That's one of the reasons many brilliant guys struggle in their academic works but people don't know even their families.
To stop masturbation, you need a combination of prayers & strong will. Strong will is highly needed cos when the urge comes up, you've got to prove stubborn & suppress it completely at all cost.

Time they say heals everything. So be patient & keep fighting, you will be victorious.
In general, Here are the mind blowing benefits of quitting masturbation & pornography:

- More energy
- Less depressed
- More confidence
- Happier
- Less anxiety
- Increased social skills
- Highly motivated to succeed
- Highly motivated to do more
- Highly motivated to approach real women
- Increased fat loss
- Increased muscle growth
- Improved workouts
- Improved sporting performance
- Deeper voice
- Improved skin
- Thicker hair
- Increased hair growth (Facial, body and hair)
- Less sleep required
- Brighter eyes
- Clearer skin
- Improved body language
- More alpha male behaviours
- Increased attention from women
- More respect from men
- Improved memory
- Removal of brain fog
- Smarter
- A cure to hair loss
- Better sex
- Thicker/longer joystick
- Stronger
- Aloof attitude
- High sex drive
- Controlled aggression
- Feelings of power
- Improved relationships
- Improved immunity
- Increased stamina

The goal is to maintain focus, Prayer & Strong-Will to quit is all that is needed.
all those listing demerits of Masturbation, what is the difference between Masturbation and having sex? Apart from the fact that you are the one servicing yourself
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 6:37am On Sep 10
Geosystem:
mine is 13/14, still holding on despite the intense pressure.
I'm happy for you, hold on tight brother, don't give in to the pressure

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by shotizzy: 12:54pm On Sep 10
10/14
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Daviestunech(m): 6:02pm On Sep 10
adekhingz:
. if a person is old enough to start enjoying sexual pleasure. let him/ her not deny himself that right. age is just a number. instead of wasting energy doing self service. let the girl or the guy assist you
Sure that what the Bible says.


But I doubt if truly it can happen

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by LilSfc(m): 8:09pm On Sep 10
QuietHammer:
So what happens after the seventh day? Ya'll gonna congregate online on a cold night from your individual fap-hideoutsand fap your souls out? Hehehe. Sounds like a plan to me.

But seriously, kudos to you guys for even attempting to stop, even though it's certain most won't make it to the seven-day mark.
The first time I did a seven-day steak I had so much confidence that I was able to finger-bang a shawty on the eight day. Keep on keeping on brothers!

Have once stayed strong for 6 month, only to go back
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 6:59am On Sep 11
11/14
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Prinsola(m): 7:04am On Sep 11
10/14
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by santiagoz(m): 11:55am On Sep 11
Tochyodikwa:
all those listing demerits of Masturbation, what is the difference between Masturbation and having sex? Apart from the fact that you are the one servicing yourself
I need answers to this question please..
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by shotizzy: 1:54pm On Sep 11
11/14
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Johniyke2flex(m): 2:37pm On Sep 11
I used to masturbate, but mine wasn't chronic. I remember it used to be like once a week, or sometimes once in two weeks. I could go as low as once in a month too. Sometimes it could go higher depending on my state of mind. I've always had a natural dislike for pornography, so getting triggered by it was out of it. In fact I get irritated instead. The triggers used to come through my conversations with my female friends. Whenever we engaged in dirty talks or chats, I would immediately get triggered and I become restless until I ease off.

Becos I knew my trigger and I had perfected it's effect on me, I tried as much as my strength could to stay away from dirty talks. Unfortunately, this helped only but a little. I remember I hated myself so much and I would vow never to go back to the act again, only to find myself doing it days later.

During those years I tried so many things, and I can confidently tell whoever wants to stop the act that prayer alone won't help. Although I understand that masturbation has a spiritual root, praying alone as is being adviced here won't solve the problem.

First you have to own up to the fact that you have a problem that needs a solution. Stop seeing the act as a normal thing, it is abnormal. As with fornication and adultery, masturbation is a work of the flesh and it has bad consequences.

Two, you need to understand that masturbation only thrives in secrecy. The urge tries to first separate you from others before pouncing on you. So when next you feel the urge to masturbate, go out and mingle with friends. This would cause a necessary distraction that would take your mind off the act.

You have to be very conscious of what triggers you. This is very important. Do not wait until you are neck deep into the lustful act before you take action. Try as much as you can to locate your trigger point. With this, you will know when to take a necessary step that would curb the urge.

Be accountable to someone. Masturbation is both a psychological and a spiritual problem. Try to confide in someone of higher knowledge than you. In my case, I confided in a brother in church. I chose him because he had shown a certain level of maturity and experience in dealing with the act. He was also a former masturbator and he wasn't shy about talking about his experience. He would call me every morning to remind me about the issue I was dealing with and how I was determined to overcome it. With that, I was able to navigate each day with a conscious knowledge of what I was battling with. In fact, it was the turning point for me.

Prayer! Prayer! Prayer! The place of prayer and renewing your mind cannot be overemphasized. There is no getting out of masturbation without the invitation of the Holy Spirit to be your help. Whatever you do without prayer is futile. Take it from me. You just need to augment it with other physical exercises for it to be effective and futile.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Oluwaesko(m): 2:45pm On Sep 11
Thank so much op for creating this,it has been a blessing for me in the fight against porn ND masturbation, though I slipped this morning.. I know my freedom is at hand.. God bless you very much
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Vivy25(f): 3:00pm On Sep 11
The terrible part is the regret that comes afterwards.its not easy quitting, sometimes u find ursf going back even after trying so hard not to,but with prayers,trying not to stay alone,staying away from what triggers it,quitting is possible. gradually getting there...
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by PiperBoy(m): 3:03pm On Sep 11
antiFapping:
Another step to recovery is avoiding Pornographic materials be it videos, magazines, songs(you read that right), and sensual and sensitive pictures like all those rubbish we have on Romance section e.g 'instagram model with the largest hips, oranges' topics, or posts like '12 year old with the biggest ukwu on earth' trash, avoid sexual videos of pastors caught digging a member or 'two secondary school students caught pants down'

The point here is, avoiding anything that will 'trigger' you, cos that's the main problem, once you get triggered, all those 'self control' talks may not save you at this point, so avoid anything that will arouse you.

The last time I fapped, it started with me 'harmlessly' googling the name of one instagram model like that, then her pictures came up, from checking out her pictures, I landed on a complete porn site, the rest became history
I tink the best way to stop masturbation is downloading apps dah block porn sites...wen dis is done den u discipline urself from dare...porn is d fuel of masturbation
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 5:12pm On Sep 11
Oluwaesko:
Thank so much op for creating this,it has been a blessing for me in the fight against porn ND masturbation, though I slipped this morning.. I know my freedom is at hand.. God bless you very much
You're welcome.
your freedom is truly in sight, believe me.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by edoboy33(m): 11:02pm On Sep 11
1/14
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 2:31pm On Sep 12
edoboy33:
1/14
Welcome to the fold brother, together we win
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by edoboy33(m): 3:20pm On Sep 12
antiFapping:

Welcome to the fold brother, together we win
not a fapper thou but I want to quit pre marital sex
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Prectega(m): 8:13pm On Sep 12
antiFapping:
Welcome to the community bro, let's kick this poo out together
BRO I wanna join you guys
help a nigga about to commit suicide
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Geosystem(m): 8:51pm On Sep 12
officially two weeks and a day without fappping. to God be the glory.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 10:41pm On Sep 12
Prectega:


BRO I wanna join you guys

help a nigga about to commit suicide
Suicide is never an option and you are never alone, there are a whole lot of us out there.
welcome to the community bro, you're loved, together we walk this path of recovery, together we conquer this stupidity called fapping.
Please take your time to go through all the comments in this thread, believe me, you will find so much solace in them
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by babyfaceafrica: 11:15pm On Sep 12
What is the difference with someone that have sex daily and someone that masturbates daily?.....why do people hammar more on stopping masturbation,than on stopping any form of daily sex!!!!..
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by bukas15(m): 11:29pm On Sep 12
Beetwaise:


I'm glad you turned out to be a good lady @Ginaz. And just as you said, everything starts with the mind.
I don't know if Masturbation has any devastating effects on ladies (@Ginaz, pls if you know of any, do well to share them here). In a brief summary, here are the damaging effects of masturbation on the body/mind of a guy which are not observable in having healthy sexual life with a partner
Here they are:

1. Masturbation deteriorates the testosterone level of a guy. And just as nature would have it, once the testosterone level in the male body is low, several things will start going wrong in his body like poor concentration/brain fog, poor body metabolism, hormonal imbalance, loss of energy/strength/muscles and lots more.

2. The end point of masturbation in guys is the release of sperm. Sperm is life & contains lots of antibodies, nutrients & other constituents that make man unique. Most folks masturbate more than five times in a day (imagine what will happen in days, weeks or months if this continues) thereby releasing lots of sperm cells without giving the body time to recover, create & transmutate sperm. This gradually turns the guy into a "vegetable" & results to premature ejaculation, poor development of the joystick or erectile dysfunction.

3. A reward hormone called Dopamine is excessively released in the brain when guys masturbate continuously. This reduces his interest or zeal to embark on "rewarding activities" like motivation to study/pursue a career/set life goals; also his zeal to meet or get a woman in the real world will be crushed too by the excessive release of the reward hormone.

>>>> The human body is indeed complex & one shouldn't deviate from the way nature has placed things. Above all, moderation & self control should also be applied if you have a partner to achieve a healthy lifestyle.
could this be the reason why i'm looking way younger than my age.i am 29 but i look 19 nd very much slim.i hav been a victim for more than 14 years nw.pls i need help

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