I just like to raise this topic to see what the Guys in the House will say about it. As for me I will never do that because I know the most stupid things in the world is woman.

I beg your pardon?
Pay her what? Na so guys don mugu reach?

Sure i'll do! But 'll just see it as a humane gesture,especially if she got prospects; rather than thinking am doing it for me cus we might break-up, and i wouldn't want to feel like av invested in nothing.

Why would you do that? Hasn't she got parents? Can't she work? What the hell is this mentality? Who does that?

I think this poster is living in the 260 BC
Someone please wake him up or better still
Snap him out of his dream. . .

Seriously ?

This doesn't even make sense to me yet.

it was a question guyz why are yall acting like he said something strange? now would anyone prepare a special dinner for his goat?? i need to know plz

Thanks for the back-up guy;sure u can do better!

Too bad some guyz do it for their gf. But i could do it for someone i intend to marry. But just support and not paying the school fees totally.

Poor investment bro poor invesment

modsrmoron:

Poor investment bro poor investment

Don't know why bro. I'm just too nice.

i can do this on humanitarian grounds, but not for love or any such lame sentiments.

Exactly! I guess the length of the relationship also matters. If u do it outta kindness aint nothing wrong with that. I paid off my daughter's mom's student loans. We aint have no child then. I guess love, sense of responsibility and me just tryn to help her ease her burden played a part in my decision. I'd do it again if time reversed!

What is going to be your next username? bk/babe92?

OneNaija:

I just like to raise this topic to see what the Guys in the House will say about it. As for me I will never do that because I know the most silly things in the world is woman.

I'm glad you were born of a woman. . .

nofin wrong in dat, if she is n need and u got the means, why not. and u dnt have to do cos u expect something in return. all this preaching of love thy neighbour as thy self, seems to be falling on deaf ears.

You ask the question like there is something really wrong with doing that.
Why not especially if no one else will.

chipmunkey:

Too bad some guyz do it for their gf. But i could do it for someone i intend to marry. But just support and not paying the school fees totally.

something like dis

by the way good ans

If you are opportuned to do it, why shouldn't you?
Why are you in a relationship if you can't help the other?
It's not by force to be in a relationship.

@Michelin: the bk99 and two others still exist (thanx for asking). I tried to pay ur "student" loans as u told me everytime u left home at 11pm (in ur skimpy clothes )that u was going to "classes". I tried to make out a check on ur behalf to " Universidad De Prostituta de Milan" but I was told such a school don't exist. Could me please call me and give me the info again so that I can pay ur student loans? Talk to u lata!

stillwater:

If you are opportuned to do it, why shouldn't you?
Why are you in a relationship if you can't help the other?
It's not by force to be in a relationship.

. . . and being in the relationship does not necessitate paying her school fees. unless you can prove otherwise

If the found is there why can't i pay it

My ex paid for his girlfriend school fees, I guess he did it for love.

@op,

Why not, i will if we are inlove, even if we broke up later, i wouldn't regret it cos i did it for love then.

I will do that if her parents are dead or less privilege, but i'll expect some %age pay back as soon as she starts working, and if we happen to be future spouse then it's not a topic.

190:

Omo then im in soup ooh already

cos i de pay her sch fees steady~

nice guy.

H2O2:

. . . and being in the relationship does not necessitate paying her school fees. unless you can prove otherwise

I said if he's opportuned to do so. Won't you do it for a friend?

why not if you are priviledged to do so, if eventually you get married at least you would be reaping the benefits of an educated woman. Even if you dont eventually get married she will forever be indebted to you for that whether she acknowledges it or not.

I remember back in my days in Nigeria, one of my ex had issues with paying for her own private accomodation in Uni. I was financially capable of paying her house rent for the whole year. Aside my regular spending on her monthly, I decided to pay half of her housing accomodation for a flat and told her to source out the remainder. Two weeks after that, she ended our relationship. It sure did hurt me, but I never thought of the financial involvement to the relationship.

Till tomorrow, she respects the fact that I never ever fail to give when I have to give. A relationship should never be defined by how much you contribute to your partner financially. If true love prevails, money would never be an issue to bother about, more especially, if you are blessed with resources to make the money. Nevertheless, one should know how to be prudent even in a relationship. It all boils down to balancing IMO.

Wotz da biggie?