baralatie:
how would you describe what i s financially compatible!

It means the spouses have an idea of their financial goals and have a common understanding on treatment of issues. Education, projects, vacation etc


What's your point

carefreewannabe:

Are you saying that it will have a negative impact on the wife to know how much her husband makes?

I am saying financial matters in marriage should be handled with care wether husband or wife!
for some women financial information of the husband exact status worked negatively!
for example Mr famous of Ghana!

baralatie:
I am saying financial matters in marriage should be handled with care wether husband or wife!
for some women financial information of the husband exact status worked negatively!
for example Mr famous of Ghana!

Then these husband married useless women.

I still see no reason why my husband should keep his income a secret.

carefreewannabe:

Are you saying that it will have a negative impact on the wife to know how much her husband makes?

sorry to butt in but I think it does for some women. It has a negative impact for some ladies who lack control when it comes to money and in the case where such income is high,all they probably think of what and what to buy whether or not it is beneficial, as long as another pay cheque comes in at the end of the month or whatever time frame the income comes in. Another is those who make up stupid/irrelevant expenses just so they can get as much money as they can from the husband. ######Apart from men that have issues when it comes to their money,I don't see any reason why a guy should hide how much he makes from his spouse,except such lady is a heavy spender or lacks discipline when it comes to money.

beau49: sorry to butt in but I think it does for some women. It has a negative impact for some ladies who lack control when it comes to money and in the case where such income is high,all they probably think of what and what to buy whether or not it is beneficial, as long as another pay cheque comes in at the end of the month or whatever time frame the income comes in. Another is those who make up stupid/irrelevant expenses just so they can get as much money as they can from the husband. ######Apart from men that have issues when it comes to their money,I don't see any reason why a guy should hide how much he makes from his spouse,except such lady is a heavy spender or lacks discipline when it comes to money.

Then the husband married a du. mb woman. Very simple. I am not one of them so I want to know m husband's income nd where the money goes.

pickabeau1:

It means the spouses have an idea of their financial goals and have a common understanding on treatment of issues. Education, projects, vacation etc

What's your point

1.financial goals.I.e expectations
2.education,projects, vacation. I.e
all these I have no problem with.

they are within the confines of financial discretion.

pickabeau1:

It means the spouses have an idea of their financial goals and have a common understanding on treatment of issues. Education, projects, vacation etc

What's your point

1.financial goals.I.e expectations
2.education,projects, vacation. I.e marital needs
all these I have no problem with.

they are within the confines of financial discretion.

carefreewannabe:

Then these husband married useless women.

I still see no reason why my husband should keep his income a secret.

really!strong words you used up there!

if you have a choice will like a two week holiday at obudu or a one week stay at Lanka hotel ajegunle!
will prefer a 1960 beettle or 2014 Toyota. Camry model.
would you like a Samsung galaxy 6 or Nokia torch 108

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Our prayer is " Lord lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil"

baralatie:
really!strong words you used up there!

if you have a choice will like a two week holiday at obudu or a one week stay at Lanka hotel ajegunle!
will prefer a 1960 beettle or 2014 Toyota. Camry model.
would you like a Samsung galaxy 6 or Nokia torch 108

P
Our prayer is " Lord lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil"

The question is not what I prefer but what I can afford.

carefreewannabe:

The question is not what I prefer but what I can afford.

ehh now!that is the temptation! what you can afford!
it will come from a target list of what is available on the market and if a wife knows the account .............
bommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
spending spree.....
women never carry last for that one!
all the husband income for fantansies that the woman considers affordable!
Lol!

baralatie:
ehh now!that is the temptation! what you can afford!
it will come from a target list of what is available on the market and if a wife knows the account .............
bommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
spending spree.....
women never carry last for that one!
all the husband income for fantansies that the woman considers affordable!
Lol!

So you believe that women do not know how to handle money but men do, right?

baralatie:
1.financial goals.I.e expectations
2.education,projects, vacation. I.e
all these I have no problem with.

they are within the confines of financial discretion.

Ok

carefreewannabe:

So you believe that women do not know how to handle money but men do, right?

not many can handle the distraction of financial records of some husbands.
the financial strength of many women is the home front and "organised financial management"
but financial information of husband status it turns them around if not managed by the husband.

carefreewannabe:

Then the husband married a du. mb woman. Very simple. I am not one of them so I want to know m husband's income nd where the money goes.

Lol,I guess....am of the same opinion too. Infact,once we are sure the relationship is heading to marriage and all we ought to have trashed out the issue of income and all. Would feel offended if he does not tell except ofcourse I exhibit the character of the women I mentioned above which is not likely to happen.

baralatie:
not many can handle the distraction of financial records of some husbands.
the financial strength of many women is the home front and "organised financial management"
but financial information of husband status it turns them around if not managed by the husband.

I am wondering what kind of women you are surrounded with

carefreewannabe:

I am wondering what kind of women you are surrounded with

let me help your imagination.............
dark skin,big bottom with cup breast interesting personality personal business orientation with 5 employee staff and I have the keys to her spots!
but I have met women who have fought battles.some from crooked husbands,some from no good guys,some high flyers making money,some building power families.just name it!
a woman world is totally different ball game,without God,some women won't make it!