TINALETC3:
If u really wnt 2 d attitude of ur partner, 4get abt d way he or she treats u in particular, focus on hw he or she relates wt her family , frnds and neighbors, mind u, she has bin wt dose pple even b4 she met u so, Wateva attitude she dishes out 2 dem is d "real her", no pretence.
2.once in awhile, pay her family home a visit and wen u do, secretly focus on d mother, watch how she treats her husband, ladies most times, treats dia hubby exactly d same way dia mom treated dia dad. Al D same, u cn neva no her 100% bt jst try

wristbangle:
When you ask some people facing turbulent period in their marriage today if they fail to do their homework when dating their life partner, the answer would be, Yes I did ... I never knew sh/he was pretending.

Some ladies can be slay queen or minaj type but due to societal pressure in order to get her choice of man, she would pretend even to the extent of becoming Mary magdalene hence attract her dream husband who is God fearing/rich/handsome/tall as they would even end up becoming a huge liability to him. Same goes to promiscuous, drunk and ill mannered guys who camouflage to become angel Michael to marry a pretty virgin lady.

This is exactly what is invoke in the society and I would agree with the part where the OP mentioned that we all want "the perfect picture" of our life partner which is where the problem starts.

Dating period is no child's play but unfortunately many people put the cart before the horse and neglect the danger signs of their gf/bf thinking they would manage it.

I am not married and I may not be in that position to advise married couples but for the singles, we need to set our priority right in order to avoid a regrettable marriage in the future.

TINALETC3:
If u really wnt 2 d attitude of ur partner, 4get abt d way he or she treats u in particular, focus on hw he or she relates wt her family , frnds and neighbors, mind u, she has bin wt dose pple even b4 she met u so, Wateva attitude she dishes out 2 dem is d "real her", no pretence.
2.once in awhile, pay her family home a visit and wen u do, secretly focus on d mother, watch how she treats her husband, ladies most times, treats dia hubby exactly d same way dia mom treated dia dad. Al D same, u cn neva no her 100% bt jst try

chatinent:

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TINALETC3:
If u really wnt 2 d attitude of ur partner, 4get abt d way he or she treats u in particular, focus on hw he or she relates wt her family , frnds and neighbors, mind u, she has bin wt dose pple even b4 she met u so, Wateva attitude she dishes out 2 dem is d "real her", no pretence.
2.once in awhile, pay her family home a visit and wen u do, secretly focus on d mother, watch how she treats her husband, ladies most times, treats dia hubby exactly d same way dia mom treated dia dad. Al D same, u cn neva no her 100% bt jst try

TINALETC3:
If u really wnt 2 d attitude of ur partner, 4get abt d way he or she treats u in particular, focus on hw he or she relates wt her family , frnds and neighbors, mind u, she has bin wt dose pple even b4 she met u so, Wateva attitude she dishes out 2 dem is d "real her", no pretence.
2.once in awhile, pay her family home a visit and wen u do, secretly focus on d mother, watch how she treats her husband, ladies most times, treats dia hubby exactly d same way dia mom treated dia dad. Al D same, u cn neva no her 100% bt jst try

menxer:
You would never know you made a mistake until the the result is out.

I object, that saying, "he who finds a wife has found a good thing..." is not an Igbo proverb but Bible verse.

TopGunFighter:
I am dating this girl and I think I want to marry her but after she told me her elder sister wasn't her blood sister and her father didn't know... she got pregnant and made the man father a child that isn't his for more than 18 yrs.. and dis young lady is a very sexual person some times we have sex for hours and my kinda of job I might be moving up nd down and won't be available for sometimes months and weeks so now I am even scared marrying her and all I should just save myself

Chiscomax:


u ve marriage experience bro. how many times ve u been married?

goingape1:
I keep my stand with number 3

any woman who is not a virgin is a useless woman and deserve a useless Man!


a woman will open her shiit hole for someone preek to enter sometime in her life and you want me to go that same shiit hole?


I rather have my package new than to use an second hand product.



as for the question you ask "who then will marry the one you deflower" of cause some stvpid idiot will marry your waste product!

Evaberry:
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Many women pretend during courtship and that's part of the reason why marriages are breaking up.


Nobody is perfect but pick someone you know will never hide anything from you.


when looks and a sexy body fade what will make her attractive to you?


Think about that.

patola080:
u re as useless as ur points do u have sisterask dem maybe dey re b deflower or not

TINALETC3:
If u really wnt 2 d attitude of ur partner, 4get abt d way he or she treats u in particular, focus on hw he or she relates wt her family , frnds and neighbors, mind u, she has bin wt dose pple even b4 she met u so, Wateva attitude she dishes out 2 dem is d "real her", no pretence.
2.once in awhile, pay her family home a visit and wen u do, secretly focus on d mother, watch how she treats her husband, ladies most times, treats dia hubby exactly d same way dia mom treated dia dad. Al D same, u cn neva no her 100% bt jst try

tejiri4:


He is right maybe u re one of dem

menxer:
You would never know you made a mistake until the the result is out.

I object, that saying, "he who finds a wife has found a good thing..." is not an Igbo proverb but Bible verse.

TopGunFighter:
I am dating this girl and I think I want to marry her but after she told me her elder sister wasn't her blood sister and her father didn't know... she got pregnant and made the man father a child that isn't his for more than 18 yrs.. and dis young lady is a very sexual person some times we have sex for hours and my kinda of job I might be moving up nd down and won't be available for sometimes months and weeks so now I am even scared marrying her and all I should just save myself

goingape1:
I keep my stand with number 3

any woman who is not a virgin is a useless woman and deserve a useless Man!


a woman will open her shiit hole for someone preek to enter sometime in her life and you want me to go that same shiit hole?


I rather have my package new than to use an second hand product.



as for the question you ask "who then will marry the one you deflower" of cause some stvpid idiot will marry your waste product!

guru90:


U sounded too hash on men.

You are a man and u ar cursing your follow man.....

Don't u see some men get married to Harlot and changed that girl to a perfect woman.

You don't know anything about marriage.
Kindly sealed your mouth.
and don't call men #stupid again.

goingape1:
your brain need formatting!
I see you don't know how to read and comprehend

guru90:


comprehend your useless write up...abi
#Change your ideology.
#biko

goingape1:
is it your ideology?
go get a sense #biko

guru90:

kids everywhere!

chatinent:
Do direct your question to our forum (Chatinent) so our professionals may assist you.

goingape1:
I keep my stand with number 3

any woman who is not a virgin is a useless woman and deserve a useless Man!


a woman will open her shiit hole for someone preek to enter sometime in her life and you want me to go that same shiit hole?


I rather have my package new than to use an second hand product.



as for the question you ask "who then will marry the one you deflower" of cause some stvpid idiot will marry your waste product!

simplyhonest:
hmnnn.....sometimes, it's the lady that made the mistake of choosing the various types of fake husbands available nowadays

Mindfulness:



A sicko spotted.

chatinent:

I know. Thanks for reading.

chatinent:

I know. Thanks for reading.