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We all got secrets who are we deceiving...

As long as he's fine with me telling him why I'm attracted to another man, we can swap secrets all day

askseunoladele:
SECRETS MEN KEEP FROM THEIR WIVES

A woman almost ran mad during her husband's burial when another woman showed up with his son she never knew from Adam. They had a blissful marriage and she never suspected her husband was having an affair.

No marriage can survive on secrets.

You just stated a marriage that survived despite the hubby's secrets...

roqrules04:
Women are better at keeping secrets

Girlfriends keep secrets better than wives.

Wives find it harder to keep secrets than husbands. Especially when the man is inquisitive, or snoops

babyfaceafrica:
Secrets destroy relationships.. Say everything that your spouse deserves to know because only the truth can set you free...even if it will end your relationship say it!!!!....if you have a child, have dated hiabdeienss or family before...if you cheat..let him or her know..because or he finds out himself.....you are a gooner!!!

From the bolded, it's clear that there are secrets already.

Something's must remain unsaid for your sanity and that of your wife. Besides a man's mouth should not be slippery like the road after a rainfall.

Odianose13:


From the bolded, it's clear that there are secrets already.

there shouldn't be any secret between husband and wife

Phi001:

You just stated a marriage that survived despite the hubby's secrets...

what ifbahe had found out before the man died?...would she be happy?.. Secrets are bad and should be discouraged

Be warned dont share your bank account balance at the same time dont tell her how much you are giving out
Be warned never allow her to check your phone
Quit the fucccccking relationship if she insists on check your phone

babyfaceafrica:
what if she had found out before the man died?...would she be happy?.. Secrets are bad and should be discouraged

That's not the point...

The point is the marriage survived despite the man's secrets...

My parents have been married for several years. They tell themselves a lot of things but not everything...

The truth is nobody can be secretless...The earlier that is accepted, the better.

cococandy:
As long as he's fine with me telling him why I'm attracted to another man, we can swap secrets all day

Remember ure not spoiled, ur husband loves you. Don't hurt him.. telling a man ure attracted to another man is a big deal.

OK.. We have heard you. Next

"No marriage can survive on secrets".

Sure

" However, a wife's attitude determines how much of himself her husband will reveal to her"

The truth.

"If you want your husband to open all his heart to you, you must be mature, faithful, loyal, dependable and trustworthy".

That's the point

Phi001:

That's not the point...

The point is the marriage survived despite the man's secrets...

My parents have been married for several years. They tell themselves a lot of things but not everything...

The truth is nobody can be secretless...The earlier that is accepted, the better.

as long as the secret does not affect the relationship?.....if my fiancee has slept with my friends or brother before ,I need to know!!...if she has a child before..I need to know.......and please not everyone is secretive.. Some do not have to mind to keep,even if they want to

askseunoladele:
SECRETS MEN KEEP FROM THEIR WIVES

Men have secrets and they keep them very tightly to their chest. A woman almost ran mad during her husband's burial when another woman showed up with his son she never knew from Adam. They had a blissful marriage and she never suspected her husband was having an affair.

I'm not just talking about affairs. I'm also talking giving out money without your consent or extending secret hands to his family members. He can also have secret bank accounts, businesses and projects.

No marriage can survive on secrets. However, a wife's attitude determines how much of himself her husband will reveal to her. If you want your husband to open all his heart to you, you must be mature, faithful, loyal, dependable and trustworthy.

There are some women who have no secrets. Their friends know everything about their husbands including how many times they have sex per week. Learn to keep your husband's secrets secret.

Avoid jealousy like plague. Your husband will never tell you he's getting attracted to a lady if you are manic jealous and insecure. You may ask, why should he be attracted to her in the first place? Because you no longer do the things that attracted him to you so he's plain bored! He complained several times about it but you keep giving excuses so he gave up and fell in love with someone else. This may sound hard, but it's the truth. You can't keep a man glued to you by being boring, unromantic and frigid. So, if you are the secured woman who is loving and understanding, you can ask him why he is being attracted, he will tell you and when you make the necessary the adjustments, he will forget the other woman exists. It's as simple as that.

Give him free hand. Let him give whenever he wants to, after all it's his money. Never tell your husband not to give, you can rather wisely explain the pressing need at home and advise him to cut down on the amount he wanted to give to people.

Don’ t waste his money, if you do, he will not tell you how much he has in his accounts lest you make unnecessary demand on him.

Encourage his business ideas though you do not agree with them. If you object, he might go ahead with it in secret not minding whether he fails or not. Men love to take risks. Go on your knees and ask God to touch his heart instead of standing in his way.

Do not judge, criticize, abuse, make fun of and threaten him anytime he shares a secret, weakness, failure or temptation with you. Men love correction but not condemnation. If you attack him and make him feel like a criminal, he will never ever open up to you again, never.

May the good Lord grant us the wisdom to run our marriages in Jesus' name. Feel free to share. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele 2015, revised, edited and re posted.
www.askseunoladele..com

My husband is naturally secretive . He has been like that right from the beginning of our courtship.
Now am married to him for about 10 years ago
But his being too secretive is affecting me seriously. Don't know wether to let him be or push thing out of him

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.......... Keep no secrets.

The more secrets we keep, the less opportunity we have for more intimacy. If you don't want your partner to find out, don't do it.

I have been married for 25 years now. I have a very wonderful and loving family. ( Beautiful wife + respectful children)
My greatest regret and mistake is those tiny inconsequential secrets I kept away from my wife at the early part of our marriage. If I can switch the hand of clock I would have open up to her and believe me her advice and contributions would have been wonderful.

I have been married for 25 years now. I have a very wonderful and loving family. ( Beautiful wife + respectful children)

My greatest regret and mistake is those tiny inconsequential secrets I kept away from my wife at the early part of our marriage. If I can switch the hand of clock I would have open up to her and believe me her advice and contributions would have been wonderful.

Odianose13:


Remember ure not spoiled, ur husband loves you. Don't hurt him.. telling a man ure attracted to another man is a big deal.

I see. He's feelings are important but mine aren't.

cococandy:

I see. He's feelings are important but mine aren't.

Hahahahahahaha. Read my comment above. Yours are far as important dear. There is no challenge on that..... I come in peace.

Men are generally , secretive. There isn't any query about this, this make them real men[/color][color=#000099]

If tell her some very personal tins, dont be suprised to hear it from a relative one day or worst case from ur neighbor.

Flashh:
Samson told a woman his secret, she used it against him.

Not everything you tell your wife.

if u read the book of judges 14 and 15 u will discover that that woman wasn't meant to be his wife..but he went after her not because he loved her per say but because he lusted after her...and she didn't love him either, probably because he was famous and strong etc


this soon led to his undoing

You r valid, ur head dey there

yembet:
Men are generally , secretive. There isn't any query about this, this make them real men[/color][color=#000099]

You see, as a man, there certain things you shouldn't tell your wife. For example your weaknesses, don't ever, I repeat don't ever let a woman know your weakness.

Women talks alot, my gf tells her parents everything, and her besties knows the size of my dick and how spread those shiit . These are stuffs she should keep to herself at least . After some good banging, she start to reveal all her friends secrets to me and also tell me how she told them about us, I be like damn

kissniyi:
HAHAHA. AT LAST. IM FIRST TO COMMENT, CNT STILL BLIV THIS. I DEDICATE THIS SPOT TO ALL ASUU STUDENTS ON STRIKE.

Are you high on rat poison?

Flashh:
Samson told a woman his secret, she used it against him.

Not everything you tell your wife.

May you live long.....trust no man.


Always keep your secrets to yourself because the walls also have ears.

askseunoladele:
SECRETS MEN KEEP FROM THEIR WIVES

Men have secrets and they keep them very tightly to their chest. A woman almost ran mad during her husband's burial when another woman showed up with his son she never knew from Adam. They had a blissful marriage and she never suspected her husband was having an affair.

I'm not just talking about affairs. I'm also talking giving out money without your consent or extending secret hands to his family members. He can also have secret bank accounts, businesses and projects.

No marriage can survive on secrets. However, a wife's attitude determines how much of himself her husband will reveal to her. If you want your husband to open all his heart to you, you must be mature, faithful, loyal, dependable and trustworthy.

There are some women who have no secrets. Their friends know everything about their husbands including how many times they have sex per week. Learn to keep your husband's secrets secret.

Avoid jealousy like plague. Your husband will never tell you he's getting attracted to a lady if you are manic jealous and insecure. You may ask, why should he be attracted to her in the first place? Because you no longer do the things that attracted him to you so he's plain bored! He complained several times about it but you keep giving excuses so he gave up and fell in love with someone else. This may sound hard, but it's the truth. You can't keep a man glued to you by being boring, unromantic and frigid. So, if you are the secured woman who is loving and understanding, you can ask him why he is being attracted, he will tell you and when you make the necessary the adjustments, he will forget the other woman exists. It's as simple as that.

Give him free hand. Let him give whenever he wants to, after all it's his money. Never tell your husband not to give, you can rather wisely explain the pressing need at home and advise him to cut down on the amount he wanted to give to people.

Don’ t waste his money, if you do, he will not tell you how much he has in his accounts lest you make unnecessary demand on him.

Encourage his business ideas though you do not agree with them. If you object, he might go ahead with it in secret not minding whether he fails or not. Men love to take risks. Go on your knees and ask God to touch his heart instead of standing in his way.

Do not judge, criticize, abuse, make fun of and threaten him anytime he shares a secret, weakness, failure or temptation with you. Men love correction but not condemnation. If you attack him and make him feel like a criminal, he will never ever open up to you again, never.

May the good Lord grant us the wisdom to run our marriages in Jesus' name. Feel free to share. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele 2015, revised, edited and re posted.
www.askseunoladele..com

You are absolutely correct on this. Men can keep things in their chest when they understand their environment expecially when the environment is hostile.
Only a woman who is not wise jokes with a man's mind. It is specially designed differently

"Women run on emotions: Men run on logic"

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