nenergy:
I don't know how to sympathize. All I can say is, from research you can live a normal active life. I have an acquaintance who I recently got to know that he has the virus. You should see him full of life.

but this HIV transmission is mysterious. I know a guy who sleeps with random street hawkers without protection and he doesn't even treat infections. Here is someone who uses protection (amidst some condom accidents) and gets it.

Exactly. its a known fact that hiv is a mysterious disease. Some people have immune systems that fight it off while others do not. Read up the story of the Darren James that contacted it in 2005. He and another porn star had sex with an hiv infected female porn star in brazil. Darren was infected while the other guy was not.

Funny thing is op might have even been infected through other means and not sex.

At the end of thr day, abstinence is key. Condoms can break easily.

Scientist hope for a cure by 2030. OP, get on the ARV drugs and you would be good to go. God bless.

PrecisionFx:







Stop disturbing urself Mr man, the HIV virus is not a harmful virus, it's a passenger virus that has been around for over a thousand years n doesn't harm human beings. HIV is a retrovirus and just like the other around 4000 retroviruses, they are harmless n cannot.... I REPEAT cannot be passed on thru sex.


What makes HIV patients sick is fear, panic, depression etc that comes from the shock wen u are told u have a virus(fake virus) that will destroy it immune system n kill u. What destroys the immune system is malnutrition n nothing more.

Go to YouTube, type ''Is HIV a scam?

u will see so many videos including the ones done by the man that invented the HIV testing, he said HIV is a scam n that his testing does not find any virus.


Well maybe ur just here to entertain us, Jisike.

You are not helping matters.

sgtponzihater1:


I need help really. Don't want to be hooked, I don't know how to come out. Did my own test this week and it came out negative, so I've been away from trouble, but for how long can I avoid this thrash.

You can. It's just determination. I was once worse than you bro! Just determination and discipline.

specter:


You can. It's just determination. I was once worse than you bro! Just determination and discipline.

How now? This is a problem(addiction to sex) millions of young men are facing.

There needs to be a support group for sex addicts or something in Nigeria. As for HIV testing, that is a no no for so many.

Stickel:

You are not helping matters.

follow the steps I gave first.
stop following the crowd, follow the truth.

Now

Alcatraz005:


How now? This is a problem(addiction to sex) millions of young men are facing.

There needs to be a support group for sex addicts or something in Nigeria. As for HIV testing, that is a no no for so many.

The truth is make concerted effort. E.g , when I noticed I was always doing it mostly weekend, visiting strips and wasting money when I was buoyant but was able to stay in my house when I had no funds, I broke my atm cards and decided not to apply for new ones.
I only made provision for money I could buy food stuffs with, fuel gen, stock my fridge with beer, grab some good movies ,etc.
By the time I was done, I only had money for church and fuel for Monday morning.
At first I was able to stay at home. Later , a way came for me to go back again because someone will call you to use your car and pay (charter) so you will at least have money for brothel.
So I got me a girlfriend that came to spend weekend most time.
At a point I could trust her. We but got tested and I had all the sex I needed to have at home and stayed in my house.
After the first 45 days, the cravings reduced. After 90days , I could go two weeks without sex.
But once in a while I fell for the temptation. So it occurred to me that I could actually use the 15-20k I spent on strips and clubs for something meaningful.
I started buying household stuffs. So if I had free 15k and I needed an AC , I will go deposit, collect receipt and keep. Each time I had free money, I will rather pay part of the AC money than have fun I will regret on Saturday morning.
Gradually I began visiting friends that weren't in my sex freak club and making enquiries on how they were acquiring some good stuffs .
It was really really difficult . But with determination I could get past.
Then I was advised to face my fear so I would visit brothel, have beer see my regulars and leave because you nor fit Bleep wen money nor dey na. And as a big boy , you nor fit Bleep on credit.
That was how by God's grace I escaped. But I still find my self screwing up at times but it's not as before . Maybe once in a blue moon.
But I always go for testing. That's why I don't judge.
Like you said, someone started AA anonymous.
We could start ours on what's app or telegram and maybe get to hold physical meetings with time. It all requires sacrifice and a little effort.
Thanks.

segunojo866:
sex addict Afa na. Do you know where i can see ashawo girls in warri for 2,000naira

hahaha...

specter:

The truth is make concerted effort. E.g , when I noticed I was always doing it mostly weekend, visiting strips and wasting money when I was buoyant but was able to stay in my house when I had no funds, I broke my atm cards and decided not to apply for new ones.
I only made provision for money I could buy food stuffs with, fuel gen, stock my fridge with beer, grab some good movies ,etc.
By the time I was done, I only had money for church and fuel for Monday morning.
At first I was able to stay at home. Later , a way came for me to go back again because someone will call you to use your car and pay (charter) so you will at least have money for brothel.
So I got me a girlfriend that came to spend weekend most time.
At a point I could trust her. We but got tested and I had all the sex I needed to have at home and stayed in my house.
After the first 45 days, the cravings reduced. After 90days , I could go two weeks without sex.
But once in a while I fell for the temptation. So it occurred to me that I could actually use the 15-20k I spent on strips and clubs for something meaningful.
I started buying household stuffs. So if I had free 15k and I needed an AC , I will go deposit, collect receipt and keep. Each time I had free money, I will rather pay part of the AC money than have fun I will regret on Saturday morning.
Gradually I began visiting friends that weren't in my sex freak club and making enquiries on how they were acquiring some good stuffs .
It was really really difficult . But with determination I could get past.
Then I was advised to face my fear so I would visit brothel, have beer see my regulars and leave because you nor fit Bleep wen money nor dey na. And as a big boy , you nor fit Bleep on credit.
That was how by God's grace I escaped. But I still find my self screwing up at times but it's not as before . Maybe once in a blue moon.
But I always go for testing. That's why I don't judge.
Like you said, someone started AA anonymous.
We could start ours on what's app or telegram and maybe get to hold physical meetings with time. It all requires sacrifice and a little effort.
Thanks.

Thank you very much. I would be glad if we can communicate. Email me at bruce4u2017@gmail.com so we can discuss better.

cooltola:
Now you have HIV, the goal is not to have AIDS . You need to be mentally strong , take your anti Hiv med faithfully, avoid sleeping with hookers, get yourself healthy, get yourself closer to God and go for sex addict counselling. May God be your strength. No one is above mistakes. Some have problem with alcohol, some with gambling, some with obesity. If you are a drinker , then you need to stop, eat right and exercise well. Your body need to be in top health shape. I wish you the best.

Where can one get sex addiction counseling?

cooltola:
Now you have HIV, the goal is not to have AIDS . You need to be mentally strong , take your anti Hiv med faithfully, avoid sleeping with hookers, get yourself healthy, get yourself closer to God and go for sex addict counselling. May God be your strength. No one is above mistakes. Some have problem with alcohol, some with gambling, some with obesity. If you are a drinker , then you need to stop, eat right and exercise well. Your body need to be in top health shape. I wish you the best.

He already has HIV. what is he avoiding sleeping with hookers for? Will he have another HIV on the one he has already? Except for some other STDs. Anybody who likes sex won't stop it because they are HIV positive. They are already using their drugs and the doctors have claimed the drugs will make them live normal. The only thing the must not do is intentionally spread the virus. They must use condoms.

Whether you have HIV or not, you should stay healthy and move closer to God. Don't wait until you have problems before remembering God.

E zi oku?

willibounce1:


He already has HIV. what is he avoiding sleeping with hookers for? Will he have another HIV on the one he has already? Except for some other STDs. Anybody who likes sex won't stop it because they are HIV positive. They are already using their drugs and the doctors have claimed the drugs will make them live normal. The only thing the must not do is intentionally spread the virus. They must use condoms.

Whether you have HIV or not, you should stay healthy and move closer to God. Don't wait until you have problems before remembering God.

Syphilis is even deadlier than Hiv. Dey there dey jonsi..

Blizzy9ja:
choooo! See what skin diving can cause?

Read d story well he has never done skin diving. He always play safe but not too safe

willibounce1:


He already has HIV. what is he avoiding sleeping with hookers for? Will he have another HIV on the one he has already? Except for some other STDs. Anybody who likes sex won't stop it because they are HIV positive. They are already using their drugs and the doctors have claimed the drugs will make them live normal. The only thing the must not do is intentionally spread the virus. They must use condoms.

Whether you have HIV or not, you should stay healthy and move closer to God. Don't wait until you have problems before remembering God.

The risk of opportunistic infections, now that the immune system is weak,even common cold can kill easily.

GeneralNass:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.

To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.

When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.

Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh

If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.

All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used .

I read every of your story, I read your first post and this one as well. It hurts me so much that u came out positive. I could feel how tears are rolling on your eyes as u type. The truth is that we have a lot in common... Except that I don't do prostitutes[I have a big big appetite for sxx but I've only had 2 patners]
Sorry I forgot this is about u.
Your story is very touchy cause I saw you wrote from your heart. I'm sorry for u.
Sorry u have to bear this.
I wish u a happy Life ever After. I believe u can survive this.
You can always write to me anytime... I'm a writertive. Sorry about feeling down.
I wish there was something I could do.
All I can say is Sorry...
Sorry Man...

YomaA:


The risk of opportunistic infections, now that the immune system is weak,even common cold can kill easily.

common cold kor, popular cold ni.

irepnaija4eva:
Super story..
@op if truly your HIV positive,you won't be hear typing all this long epistle you'll just,

1. Crying your arse out and disturbing God with prayers.
2. Contemplating suicide.
3. Probably phoning your best hommie for advise.
4. Or locating the nearest church for night vigil.

And to all viewers,Runs girls,Homos etc.

Use Condom o.

ABSTINENCE IS THE KEY...

Everyone is not d same and d dude use a condom everytime

handsomebanana:
So u fûcked a total of 180+ oloshos witout a condom ND u xpect 2 catch wetin b4, Jesus ?



U get luck say ur dìck nor fall komot.
Na wa 4 some people self

I don't know why I kept defending him lol!
The dude uses a condom

chiefolododo:
you talked like a fool

didn't ur bible teaches u that calling ur neighbour a fool is a sin? Anyways, i won't call u a fool but i wish u same thing u wished me

four4:
may be he was one of ur customer

customer daa daa ni

tyup:

it's in ur blood gullible follower of kanu

warreffa

willibounce1:


He already has HIV. what is he avoiding sleeping with hookers for? Will he have another HIV on the one he has already? Except for some other STDs. Anybody who likes sex won't stop it because they are HIV positive. They are already using their drugs and the doctors have claimed the drugs will make them live normal. The only thing the must not do is intentionally spread the virus. They must use condoms.

Whether you have HIV or not, you should stay healthy and move closer to God. Don't wait until you have problems before remembering God.

Because he is at more risk in getting other STDs. Sleeping with hookers increase one's chance of having STD. HIV with STD can be a deadly combination. It is like adding petrol to a burning house.

BrotherJesu:




you are very stupid for asking his pic so u can go the story and pic on ur blog stupid ugly bitch na u holy pass abi

u are as stupid as i am.. U brotherjesu or brotheresu,oni ranu omo kekere.. Ugly bobo

Call me let me pray for you on phone. Jesus will change it to negative immediately. 09068082747

Why portray yourself as ignorant and foolish, it is repulsive

eberetos:
Call me let me pray for you on phone. Jesus will change it to negative immediately. 09068082747

If I wey to be u I will still make 5 different test from diff lab and with diff instrument to confirm cos sometimes Malaria can be detected as virus bro ....dont give up after this month end try get tested again before you can atest to weda u are - or +

AIDS it self is elusive, because nobody can die from AIDS as a single disease. Trying to get definition of AIDS is so vague because use AIDS as an umbrella term to capture any ailment any person diagnosed with HIV/AIDS dies from.

So if Iam diagnosed of AIDS and in the interim I catch and die of malaria , because of the hoax diagnosis, my death is attributed to AIDS and not the malaria that killed me. Can you see how the fraud works?

Yes a real life- threatening condition exist where your immune system is impaired but it is cureable unlike what the AIDS as the tell us about. So in that sense AIDS is as much a hoax as HIV.

KingSango:


That's most accurate HIV is a hoax but AIDS is real. AIDS comes from the continous practice of sodomy, brought into Africa from Arab and European​ rape squads, they colonized Africa by raping women and children. Then setting up their perverted churches ran by pedophile priests and nuns. Mostly all the NGOs funded by Christian groups so called charity. They have been pitying Nigeria, the queen mother, every since they destroyed her own self independence. The European needs the charity of Nigeria but Nigeria does not need him if Nigeria restructured under craft technological and agricultural central system.

Sabrina18:
If you tell them to have a girlfriend, dem no go gree, they don't like spending money on girlfriend, they prefer spending it on ashawo, see wetin ashawo don do you.

Its a pity.

Who tell u say gf no fit carry hiv gi'pesin... Abeg shift jare
It's like u were not in d country when it was reported dat d
highest number of infected pple are the married ones in Akwa Ibom State

GeneralNass:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.

To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.

When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.

Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh

If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.

All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.


When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing.
What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.

I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes

Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now.
Goodnight and God's speed be with you all.

Brother just confess Jesus as your Lord and personal saviour, believe he died for your sins. And serve him in truth and inspirit all the days of your life. May God help you

You need to think before you comment .it is a open forum

phintohlar:
make he no go toast me ni

biolaowo:
You need to think before you comment .it is a open forum

alright sir... Thanks