Good day All, I sincerely need a genuine advise,
I frequently catch my hubby flirting with girls, He apologises though, and I let go, I don't cheat on him and he knows that, but recently he has started accusing me of flirting around, He lives abroad and does not have a job over there, I send him money for upkeep and visit him often, he now threatens to divorce me after all my sacrifices based on this his false accusation, we are from different tribes, I love him so much and he professed same to me and showed it that was why I married him, One fault he has is he is Mummy's puppet and just recently his mother was denied a visa to go and see him, and she has called me names on that and threatens to deal with me, what do I do, we don't have a child yet, I'm deeply in love, Pls help with your advise.

Are you stupidly in love??Let the loser go screw himself. . . . Have you given up on yourself and cant find someone better??

You are lying.
Imagine the level of your lies ?
He lives abroad and you Frequently catch him cheating on you all the time. .
Then you capped that by telling us that you dont cheat and he knows, and you know that he knows that you dont cheat.
What does his mother not getting a visa has to do with you anyway ?
Could his divorce threat be based on not having a child for him yet ?
I cant seem to pinpoint what your problem is, so i can easily assume you are a liar.
Apparently you condemned this guy and need our approval.
You are not gonna get mine until i hear his own side of the story.

Invite him here and lets hear from him. Otherwise reveal your true ID here on nairaland cos i believe you are not new here.

_{[s]I am also a little curious as to how this topic made it to the frontpage without a single reply to it. Maybe a mod started it[/s]}

ONYENMA:

Good day All, I sincerely need a genuine advise,
I frequently catch my hubby flirting with girls, He apologises though, and I let go, I don't cheat on him and he knows that, but recently he has started accusing me of flirting around, He lives abroad and does not have a job over there, I send him money for upkeep and visit him often, he now threatens to divorce me after all my sacrifices based on this his false accusation, we are from different tribes, I love him so much and he professed same to me and showed it that was why I married him, One fault he has is he is Mummy's puppet and just recently his mother was denied a visa to go and see him, and she has called me names on that and threatens to deal with me, what do I do, we don't have a child yet, I'm deeply in love, Pls help with your advise.

We human beings are just a confused lot. We find ourselves in situations and we pray to God for an out yet when he gives it to us. . .we don't take it. Instead we wallow in self pity and misey. All the signs are pointing at the exit door, what more the you want. . .Angel Gabriel coming down from heaven to pack your bags or is it until you are dead before you know have loved?

ONYENMA:

Good day All, I sincerely need a genuine advise,I frequently catch my hubby flirting with girls, He apologises though, and I let go, I don't cheat on him and he knows that, but recently he has started accusing me of flirting around, He lives abroad and does not have a job over there, I send him money for upkeep and visit him often, he now threatens to divorce me after all my sacrifices based on this his false accusation, we are from different tribes, I love him so much and he professed same to me and showed it that was why I married him, One fault he has is he is Mummy's puppet and just recently his mother was denied a visa to go and see him, and she has called me names on that and threatens to deal with me, what do I do, we don't have a child yet, I'm deeply in love, Pls help with your advise.

Is this a joke or what? He lives abroad and u send him money for his up keeps? I mean, there must be more to this. Well u really need to wake up, thank God there is no child involved cos this is a joke

Sisi_Kill has rightly highloghted several parts of your post that simply dont add up.

Am sorry if i offend you but my frank opinion from your story is that you are either a very poor liar or a very dumb housewife.

I don't understand the advice ou want from us.Even a teenager will know what to do.You don't need advice,you need your head checked.Marriage is not by hook or by crook.Wake up!

adetoru:

I don't understand the advice ou want from us.Even a teenager will know what to do.You don't need advice,you need your head checked.Marriage is not by hook or by crook.Wake up!

True.

Her story doesn't add up, I'm confused

If this is not another Hollandis/Woye77/Wale Adenuga Production I'll advice u to leave him and get a life, it's just a pity he's stolen your heart. But if u r just attention-starved, well. . .We r nothing but pencil in the hands of the creator.

You and your husband need to be together in one place, either both here or both abroad. If you cannot have  that, then what is the point of your union? If it is not possible for you to stay with him where he is now, then he must return to stay with you.

STOP sending him money. If he can't find a job, and he insists on staying abroad then you can start him in business ( not necessarily because he is your husband ) like a taxi business. Then he can earn a living if he really wants to!

So you are in love? Are you sure it is not this thing St. Janet of St. Bottles Cathedral, Sinners Chapel Campus, sang:

oko mi l'ale oko mi l'oru
oko o ko, oko ku ise
iyanu n'kon t'ose l'abe mi lo jo mi l'oju
Mo dupe ishan osan, mo tun dupe ishan oru
Ishan re ti ki i'ro ni igbekele mi
iyin oko ye o,
bi ose wo mi l'ana yen ni ko ma se
b'ose wo mi l'oru na ni kn ma wo mi

Profound.

I believe the whole post is just a big fat lie, poorly fabricated without no sense in it! U said he stays abroad n u still catch him flirting with girls! How? Where? U also said he accuse u of doin same! Don't think all d peepz here r fools that eats up every nonsense given to them, Just give us a comprehensive gist n u will av good n candid opinion but until then, keep enjoyin deceiving d people here, 4 me this is just another super story,

the foolish trhings some women do!

ONYENMA:

Good day All, I sincerely need a genuine advise,
I frequently catch my hubby flirting with girls, He apologises though, and I let go, I don't cheat on him and he knows that, but recently he has started accusing me of flirting around, He lives abroad and does not have a job over there, I send him money for upkeep and visit him often, he now threatens to divorce me after all my sacrifices based on this his false accusation, we are from different tribes, I love him so much and he professed same to me and showed it that was why I married him, One fault he has is he is Mummy's puppet and just recently his mother was denied a visa to go and see him, and she has called me names on that and threatens to deal with me, what do I do, we don't have a child yet, I'm deeply in love, Pls help with your advise.

am all yours.am too fresh and single.07066740083

ONYENMA:

Good day All, I sincerely need a genuine advise,
I frequently catch my hubby flirting with girls, He apologises though, and I let go, I don't cheat on him and he knows that, but recently he has started accusing me of flirting around, He lives abroad and does not have a job over there, I send him money for upkeep and visit him often, he now threatens to divorce me after all my sacrifices based on this his false accusation, we are from different tribes, I love him so much and he professed same to me and showed it that was why I married him, One fault he has is he is Mummy's puppet and just recently his mother was denied a visa to go and see him, and she has called me names on that and threatens to deal with me, what do I do, we don't have a child yet, I'm deeply in love, Pls help with your advise.

am all yours.am too fresh and single.07066740083

Either this is some fake story or you better thank your stars and kick the loser out of your life.

@poster, come out straight

Say bye bye to the loser, thats if your story is true

What kind of crazy love is this? u better put yourself together and thank God that satan is gone finally. There are better guys out there.

Cheers

REALKINGSON:

am all yours.am too fresh and single.07066740083

beware of opportunists!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ admin

The Thread topic should be edited to read;

Her Husband Is Filing For Divorce,not filing a divorce

Thanks

rasputinn:

@ admin

The Thread topic should be edited to read;

Her Husband Is Filing For Divorce,not filing a divorce

Thanks

Williams Shakespare

omuaran:

So you are in love? Are you sure it is not this thing St. Janet of St. Bottles Cathedral, Sinners Chapel Campus, sang:

oko mi l'ale oko mi l'oru
oko o ko, oko ku ise
iyanu n'kon t'ose l'abe mi lo jo mi l'oju
Mo dupe ishan osan, mo tun dupe ishan oru
Ishan re ti ki i'ro ni igbekele mi
iyin oko ye o,
bi ose wo mi l'ana yen ni ko ma se
b'ose wo mi l'oru na ni kn ma wo mi

Profound.

Una no go kill person for here. After your husband had taken those pills (Viagra and Cialis), make hin no carry ishan ki shan kill u oooo

@Poster , if this is a true story , I dont tink there is anything to add. like someone said even a teenager knows wat to do, unless na love portion the guy give U drink

but truly shit don't add up in your story, so
If na Super Story , nothing do you, U sha got us here to comment , welldone

anyhow ! let him go. You both are not compatible.

ifedy:

Williams Shakespare  

William not William(s)

WHERE DO YOU GET THE MONEY YOU SENT TO HIM FROM?
ARE U SURE ,U ARE WRONGLY ACCUSED?
HAS HE GOT FIRST CLASS INFO ABOUT YOU?
WHAT NAMES DID HE CALL U ASEWO
SEARCH YOUR CONSCIENCE VERY WELL
IF YOU HAVE SECRETS LOVERS
I BELIEVE HE HAS GOT THE INFO
GO AND MEET HIM AND SETTLE ISSUES
IF HE IS TIRED ,FIND YOUR WAY
BEST OF LUCK
@OMUARAN oko mi l'ale oko mi l'oru
oko o ko, oko ku ise
iyanu n'kon t'ose l'abe mi lo jo mi l'oju
Mo dupe ishan osan, mo tun dupe ishan oru
Ishan re ti ki i'ro ni igbekele mi
iyin oko ye o,
bi ose wo mi l'ana yen ni ko ma se
b'ose wo mi l'oru na ni kn ma wo mi

you ain't got to lie @ poster.

sam milla what are you doing here? Go back to Joke section now b4 i open my eyez. hey baby just the she goat go and move on.

Why are you wasting your time typing this lies

They will always create another USERNAME anytime they want to post something serious about themself,are you sure you have always send him money or just another lie? tell me now pls

@crown22 i forgot to tell you that you are e-goat,how could you ask her where she got the money from dont you know that thousands of people in Liberia lives larger than some usa senators?

ONYENMA:

Good day All, I sincerely need a genuine advise,
I frequently catch my hubby flirting with girls, He apologises though, and I let go, I don't cheat on him and he knows that, but recently he has started accusing me of flirting around, He lives abroad and does not have a job over there, I send him money for upkeep and visit him often, he now threatens to divorce me after all my sacrifices based on this his false accusation, we are from different tribes, I love him so much and he professed same to me and showed it that was why I married him, One fault he has is he is Mummy's puppet and just recently his mother was denied a visa to go and see him, and she has called me names on that and threatens to deal with me, what do I do, we don't have a child yet, I'm deeply in love, Pls help with your advise.

Akuko ifo, much like Tales by moonlight

another subliminal thread by a devilish nairalander.

I wish you people could find Jesus and good jobs for real.

and plz stop thinking warming the church benches (aka benchwarmer) means you have Jesus.