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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 8:27pm On Sep 16, 2017
ceeroh:


And you're net
LMAO, took a while but I literally laughed out loud

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by sekem: 8:29pm On Sep 16, 2017
I'm sure if not because of the anonymity the internet offers sometime, so many people will not be so willing to be freely washing their dirty linens in the public
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by GoldNiagara(m): 8:30pm On Sep 16, 2017
See how they have made you and your mum butts of jokes. Lesson keep private stuff private. Ode!
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Abzaha(m): 8:30pm On Sep 16, 2017
Chai... Too bad

Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by GoldNiagara(m): 8:31pm On Sep 16, 2017
elektra:

LMAO, took a while but I literally laughed out loud


Little wonder since you talked to your self at times and you called it expert advice.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by cstr1000: 8:32pm On Sep 16, 2017
There is nothing dignifying about a MILF sending nudes to young men.
It is one thing for her to be in a matured relationship with a responsible man, but to send nudes? That is a dangerous slope.
I can see why the OP is not pleased. She is his mother after-all.
I can't count the number of times i have come across nudes pictures of old sugar-mummies leaked by a jilted younger partner on facebook and other social media platforms.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by oxiide22(m): 8:34pm On Sep 16, 2017
only in the east this can happen

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by GoldNiagara(m): 8:35pm On Sep 16, 2017
cstr1000:
There is nothing dignifying about a MILF sending nudes to young men.
It is one thing for her to be in a matured relationship with a responsible man, but to send nudes? That is a dangerous slope.
I can see why the OP is not pleased. She is his mother after-all.
I can't count the number of times i have come across nudes pictures of old sugar-mummies leaked by a jilted younger partner on facebook and other social media platforms.


So sharing it on naira land will delete the pictures abi. Mtchew make I no vent on you.
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by handsomebanana(m): 8:36pm On Sep 16, 2017
Hu re d people saying useless trash here.


I guess it's awesome 2 av ur mom send nude pics 2 different men on social media. I wonder what kind of relationship iz dat Xpecially in dis age of revenge porn.


Lots of idiots thinking wit dia anus

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by cstr1000: 8:36pm On Sep 16, 2017
GoldNiagara:



So sharing it on naira land will delete the pictures abi. Mtchew make I no vent on you.
I don't get you. Come again.
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Manobravo09(m): 8:36pm On Sep 16, 2017
taoheedoriloye:
So you mean your mom shouldn't enjoy herself because she married? op are you crazy!
your dad is outdated and is good for her to have a taste on young guys so that she will not age quickly.you mom is smart audacious and quality woman , tell her to put in more effort!


Meaning, your mum can do the same?
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Ten06(m): 8:42pm On Sep 16, 2017
Pls advice her on the implications of sending nude, they can be use to blackmail her, that is if they have not started blackmailing her and getting free sex from her

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Emmafman1(m): 8:45pm On Sep 16, 2017
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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by cybeks(f): 8:45pm On Sep 16, 2017
PaperLace:
1. Your dad is/has been a chronic, irresponsible, unrepentant and insensitive cheat.
2.He has subjected the innocent woman to all sorts of emotional and physical abuse, even from third parties (his side chicks).
2b. All for no fault of hers.
3. He is currently with one of his side chicks.
4. Their sex life is dead.
5. Mummy is beautiful and fit _halleluyah somebody!!!
6. Mummy is independent and strong.
7. Mummy wanted to leave the marriage, you told her not to.
8. Now, mummy is moving on with her life (albeit wrongly) and you're not happy.


What kind of son are you bikonu? You don't want her to leave the marriage, you don't want her to move on. What do you want? Disrespecting her vows is NO-NO, so _ allow her leave. She should have one steady partner and not multiple (safe sex and safe chatting is important), that's the only thing you should be advising her on.

Did it ever occur to you, that just like so many married women, with community horsebands, your mum was waiting for her kids to grow within a complete family system(as society demands) before divorcing? You still decided to stop her.

This is why it's good for women to be independent and remain physically appealing. All that "who will want you after 3kids" threat, na for women wey no know wassup.

Soldier come, soldier go _barracks go remain.
This na open marriage Season1.









I like this piece

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by alcuin(m): 8:45pm On Sep 16, 2017
This one man, one wife European culture has really done more harm than good.
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Cindy08: 8:47pm On Sep 16, 2017
cool shocked kiss
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nov6(m): 8:47pm On Sep 16, 2017
salsera:


You can stand it from your dad but not your mum.
I don't get you.
Your dad has moved out so technically your mum is alone. Your an adult not a child. She doesn't owe you explanations same way your dad didn't ask for your permission to have his numerous affairs.
Quit your double standards..that's the reason she's having secret affairs.
Let your mum go stop guilt tripping her.

Its her marriage. Let her end it if she so wishes. Advice her on the next person to consider to date that he should be worthy of her.
She's your mum

who ever gave birth to you really has a daughter

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Danhumprey: 8:47pm On Sep 16, 2017
Odilafta1:
Mind your business,face your wife and fu..c...k her well.
Hey........?
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Alariwo2: 8:49pm On Sep 16, 2017
Moral of the story.. marriage is overrated

Not everyone you see crying "I'm married" up and down or displaying wedding rings should be taken serious.. Most are just looking for young boys to sleep with.

I don't know what else to say other than sorry.. you'll have to take heart

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by UduMgbo1: 8:51pm On Sep 16, 2017
your mum is simply a milf case closed

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by zulex880: 8:55pm On Sep 16, 2017
Are you a yoruba?
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Alariwo2: 8:55pm On Sep 16, 2017
alcuin:
This one man, one wife European culture has really done more harm than good.

is the polygamous lifestlye any better?

You'll see wicked step mothers slicing toddlers dic.ks, pouring hot water on one another and other evils like that.

Blame men and women without principles not culture

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Mrnairalandd: 8:55pm On Sep 16, 2017
carammel:
Well,I understand if you dont want your mom to leave,that may give room for open affair since she would be living alone and since we are in Africa,she will turn to outcast by mere doing that and you lot would call her all sort of names.
Allow the woman be sir and face your own family, just try as much as possible not to go the way of your dad. He is a very bad example but a good example of most African men.

Shut up there... You were making senseless sense until you said he is a good example to African men. Ode oshi! O Jami Lara je!
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by sukkot: 8:58pm On Sep 16, 2017
taoheedoriloye:
So you mean your mom shouldn't enjoy herself because she married? op are you crazy!
your dad is outdated and is good for her to have a taste on young guys so that she will not age quickly.you mom is smart audacious and quality woman , tell her to put in more effort!
give the same advice to your own mother


OK I just read the full story lmao. I dont even know what to say.
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by maclatunji: 8:58pm On Sep 16, 2017
Advice the woman to divorce honourably and remarry. This kind of life she is living is likely to end badly. Sadly, the same is true for your dad. Your family needs prayers.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by tete7000(m): 9:00pm On Sep 16, 2017
She is hurt and it is by sending nude picture she won't get more hurt?It is by exposing herself to possibility of disgrace and ridicule she will find happiness? People and their reasoning self. Anyway someone has said we have many kids on nairaland. Op better find a way to help your MAma before another irresponsible throw her nude picture to the public. Which responsible man ask for nude picture of another person? The woman is moving from fry pan to fire.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by KevinDein: 9:01pm On Sep 16, 2017
A woman in her fifties sending nude pic to not just one but three men. Disgusting to say the least.

Ewwwww

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Andersoncopper(m): 9:01pm On Sep 16, 2017
Don't confront her but technically talk to her. And if she must have any affair (though its wrong) let her have affair with mature responsible men & not young boys; this is to avoid blackmail & fraud.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Deicide: 9:02pm On Sep 16, 2017
Daddybright1986:
You no even shame to bring your family issues here......your mum on that matter
Chill there is a reason its called a faceless Forum

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by blacq2009(m): 9:04pm On Sep 16, 2017
Yelabechi:
I am a guy of 34 and I'm married with 2kids.
I have been going through my mom's phone for a while now and things I see on it are too bad. She has been having sexchats with 3 different men, I am most certain she has met and had sex with one of them.

Background to the story....

My dad has never been the very responsible type, a chronic womanizer and he was always hurting her because she loved him to the extreme. There had been cases where she was even arrested by the police from one of his side chicks who he sponsored through school till she graduated, also a time he brought another one home who engaged in fight with my mom and nothing was done by my dad. There are so many cases like that whom i may not be able to say much on to avoid long story.

As I write this now, he has been out of the house for the past one month living with a girl of about 24. I called him severally man to man to know his motive and he said he can't just explain it but mom has not wrong him in a way because she is a good wife who knows how to take care of her man.

My mom is very beautiful and looks younger than a woman in her fifties so it is not unexpected that other men would hit on her.

I took time to imagine walking in her shoes and I understand she is really hurt, she has asked to leave his house several, I've been the one calming her down and advising her not to leave at her age. She is independent and has a good job, and according to her there is no sexual relationship between them again.

Now I know she is flirting with these men due to loniless and several heartbreak but then, it is disgusting to me that my mom is involved in that even to the point of sending nudes, I saw all these and I am just confused on how to handle this matter.

Should I confront her or just keep mute.
Op, shame on you for bringing your parents here for some senseless nairalanders to bash. But I'm just confused why you chose to market your parents' flaws here. What solutions can even the wisest people herein profer? You weak me paa.
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by sugarwiz(f): 9:05pm On Sep 16, 2017
Yelabechi:

wow,you grab everything even up to what I didn't put there.

I really dont like the idea of her living alone,it could give room for many men visiting her and I can't stand such from my mom.
But you can stand your dad continuously disrespect her?

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by TapTapTap(m): 9:11pm On Sep 16, 2017
Yelabechi:
I am a guy of 34 and I'm married with 2kids.
I have been going through my mom's phone for a while now and things I see on it are too bad. She has been having sexchats with 3 different men, I am most certain she has met and had sex with one of them.

Background to the story....

My dad has never been the very responsible type, a chronic womanizer and he was always hurting her because she loved him to the extreme. There had been cases where she was even arrested by the police from one of his side chicks who he sponsored through school till she graduated, also a time he brought another one home who engaged in fight with my mom and nothing was done by my dad. There are so many cases like that whom i may not be able to say much on to avoid long story.

As I write this now, he has been out of the house for the past one month living with a girl of about 24. I called him severally man to man to know his motive and he said he can't just explain it but mom has not wrong him in a way because she is a good wife who knows how to take care of her man.

My mom is very beautiful and looks younger than a woman in her fifties so it is not unexpected that other men would hit on her.

I took time to imagine walking in her shoes and I understand she is really hurt, she has asked to leave his house several, I've been the one calming her down and advising her not to leave at her age. She is independent and has a good job, and according to her there is no sexual relationship between them again.

Now I know she is flirting with these men due to loniless and several heartbreak but then, it is disgusting to me that my mom is involved in that even to the point of sending nudes, I saw all these and I am just confused on how to handle this matter.

Should I confront her or just keep mute.
I would keep mute about it. A woman in her 50s is not a kid n i would even advice against going thru her phone.

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