Gracesofar:


Which corp are u sir....... I just got posted to infantry passed out exactly a week ago in the prestigious academy. And whatz the rank


I was even anticipating intelligence or ordinance corp.

DeBlunt:


I'm with the royal army medical corp as a lieutenant bro. Intelligence corp would be so cool, they might even send you to Sandhurst for some courses.

Gracesofar:


Medical corp. See laluxing....... Na u guys dey enjoy army job now. OK u had a degree in something medical before joining their academy. Coz dz how it goes here in Nigeria. Medicals is only for colitos as we call them. I mean short service officers who had a degree before joining.



I was rili anticipating intelligence, ordinance or signal.





Probably God knows best

DeBlunt:


It's not too bad tbh. Yea I had a degree in biomedical science before I joined but I'm currently retraining to become a nurse don't ask me why lol.

Don't know much about ordinance but intelligence wins it for me anytime.

Gracesofar:


How is the army like over there. Like there chain of command etc...... And hope no racial discrimination I mean blacks and whites etc. And how does the promotion goes. Am

Gracesofar:


My posting came out Na infantry I dey. Am 80 percent sure Borno will soon call.

Its just an impasse situation I can't dodge for. And just like mayowa said. Death will soon come knocking. I just pray I won't open the door for it anytime soon ....


Pray for me o. Borno z around d corner

DeBlunt:


The Army over here is prestigious and well respected no bulls**t also we don't bully civilians . As for racial discrimination, well there's zero tolerance for it in the army and its rare cos I haven't experienced any. Promotion comes when you earn it within an interval of every two years at least, it could be longer.

greatbrian:


Sir morning sir

Congrats on ur pop sir

Sir am a godfada mogese. And

Congrats on ur posting sir

odapey:
pls I wanna go NDA but I have no connections tho I guarantee better UTME grade. may you help me out sir!

FvckShiT:
One fúçking sentence to reply your fúçking epistle...



Move the fûçk on! Man up!



Her fúçking family don't like yo tribe.....WELL GUESS WHAT?........FÚCK THEM!



The fúçking sad part of this blöödyfûçkiñg tale is.....you didn't fúçk their daughter's pússy and to me.....That's so blöödyfûçkiñg terrible

Raydan:
but why can't Igbo's marry outside their tribe

Gracesofar:



Bro. I rili wanna help u in fact my bones ache just to be of assistance to u. But dear, Am not rili cut out too. And its painful.


Buh I know someone who can.

He won't collect much from u. His name is Jesus. He helped pple like myself who r condemned sinners. Y won't he reciprocate it for u



All u HV to do. Talk to me from ur hrt, get nda compendium. Read it like ur life depends on it, pray and put ur trust in him. And u will be amazed at how magical it will seem. Dnt forget to be loyal with ur tithe dz d key to success


Be good. Hopeful to hear the godnews from u soonest.

MicNz:
It's true. I was evicted alongside NNAMDIII

Mine was just height oh... Chingili height... Mine was just remaining 0.04m to reach the minimum.

My cousin just entered last Thursday 22 Sept. He passed. Now I'm still wondering whether or not to apply. I no get godfather I went with God... Now I can't tell if God disappointed me or...

NNAMDIII:
oga sir please i have a question, i was eliminated in 69rc medicals for having a small navel and i couldn't see the some letters well with my right eye. I'm thinking of removing the navel through surgery but I'm scared, I would like to know if I'll be eliminated for scars if I remove the navel. Thanks.

MicNz:
It's true. I was evicted alongside NNAMDIII

Mine was just height oh... Chingili height... Mine was just remaining 0.04m to reach the minimum.

My cousin just entered last Thursday 22 Sept. He passed. Now I'm still wondering whether or not to apply. I no get godfather I went with God... Now I can't tell if God disappointed me or...

Gracesofar:


Oh brother, protruding navel z a major issue coz dz work entails u to be on ur belt most of the time. And we ain't civilians who put belt on their hips or so.

Majorly its always on ur navel. So ur health issue is a major tin.

Still I won't advise u to go do a surgery who knows what it might bring and about the scar, yes scars are not allowed depending on the size and age though. Buh the risk involved z my concern pls don't arm itself. There are better things u can do with ur life than joining the armed forces. Make ur military counterparts jealous with the height of success u can achieve.


Don't harm itself coz military doesn't care about how many surgery u do. Once they can't use u, u become a liability extra luggage and extra luggage are meant to be abandoned.


Be good

Gracesofar:
Abeg nairalanders gimme sweet likes for my coursemate who just tied d knot

NNAMDIII:
One of your coursemates is getting married soon, A can we eater,64rc, mech engineering

Gracesofar:
Abeg nairalanders gimme sweet likes for my coursemate who just tied d knot

Gracesofar:


Oh brother, protruding navel z a major issue coz dz work entails u to be on ur belt most of the time. And we ain't civilians who put belt on their hips or so.

Majorly its always on ur navel. So ur health issue is a major tin.

Still I won't advise u to go do a surgery who knows what it might bring and about the scar, yes scars are not allowed depending on the size and age though. Buh the risk involved z my concern pls don't arm itself. There are better things u can do with ur life than joining the armed forces. Make ur military counterparts jealous with the height of success u can achieve.


Don't harm itself coz military doesn't care about how many surgery u do. Once they can't use u, u become a liability extra luggage and extra luggage are meant to be abandoned.


Be good

NNAMDIII:
This my village man you must reapply izza clia?? bulama biu must see us in that drill shed with our camo izza clia? By this last month we dey parade ground dey talk about mynd44 and biafranbushboy. I really miss Nigerian defence academy..




Brother you dey mad oo, so you think say dem dey use God father enter academy? I'll continue saying this "NDA is 90% merit " you don't need to know anybody before entering. Oya you no see AB31 wey score 317 in jamb and him papa na Air Commodore still fail medicals upon say him papa coursemate (that brig.gen wey dey use green beret) dey among board even BN10 papa sev na AVM yet she still fail medicals. Oboy nda is based on merit

Gracesofar:


Brother, God never dissapoints. His time not yours. He have a plan for everyone and we shud just HV our lives to him as a living sacrifice so he can direct our steps to success.


Military might not be your way and if u force ursef dia who knows wah will happen. Chances are u might not pass out or u pass out and meet the untimely death. Wh won't be ur portion



Moreso, most cadets u see in nda didn't just try it once and enter I HV coursemates who tried it 4-5 times. Our destinies are diff

If u fail to acheieve ur dream change ur way of approach and not ur God. Remember a tree that doesn't yield fruit changes its leaves and not its stem.


And lemme add a bonus even we that we passed out now HV greater and bigger problem.

I pray it won't be buh don't be surprised if u wake someday and find out am not chatting u on nairaland again. Am an infantry soldier. And am 80 percent sure am going to borno if not dz year. Chances are death. So tell me if I die there won't it HV been better if I didn't gain admission to the academy at all?


Brother I will email u personal and talk to u even though time might lay a kibosh.


Remember God never fails he knows d best. And by d way how old r u and how many time HV u tried

Sabrina18:
To be sincere, the man wants the best for his daughter, an Ada for that matter, you don't know how serious they take Adas.


Don't push it any further, if you end up marrying her, they will forever dislike you and you won't like a marriage where your in-laws hate you.

If I bring a Yoruba guy into my house for marriage, they won't let him marry me, same goes with other tribes.

I personally cannot marry from another tribe, it is very challenging.

IamLEGEND1:
Just walk away. Under no circumstance should you try to force things like these.

I recently dated an igbo chick as well.... Well, actually I've only dated igbo girls my whole life. Why that is? I have no idea, but the point here is: before I ghosted her, she'd been stylishly trying to bring marriage talks into our conversations on the regular.
I normally avoid meeting family members of anyone I'm involved with unless it is absolutely necessary...... So, I just decided to scope out this girl's parents, Guage and see the type material they're made of. She only introduced me as her friend to her parents but still, The mum nearly spat out her food when I mentioned that I was fulani.


Fula-wetin? I mean, I'm a Christian and all and I barely even look or sound like any fulani person you know but it didn't matter. Bit by bit the conversation started turning hostile and I had to check out of there fast else I'd have said something nasty. The babe was so embarrassed she went into her room and locked herself.

There are open-minded folks everywhere you turn and there are those that just can't see beyond their noses when it comes to tribal/religious matters.....sadly, you ran into one of them.
My point: MOVE ON! I'm a bit of a rolling stone so it wasn't hard for me to do in my case but move on you must.
You're young and there is a whole world out there to explore....time is on your side, make use of it. You don't know when you're going to get your legs blown off by a landmine in Chibok/Konduga/Baga/Sambisa.

TheRealestGuy:


This adds to many confirmations I've had that Igbo girls remain the hottest cake in Nigerian marital circles.

The only person that can convince her dad is your babe. You not contacting her is foolish cos she'll even start doubting if you're man enough to do the needful.

Also, wanting to start life at 24 is a bit too early to me and the babe is still in school, why not let her graduate?

Never be in too much hurry in life and don't think you can't meet someone as lovely as your current babe.

Get to work, give her family some space but keep the relationship going. It's your persistence with her when the family is ready to give her out that'll make her insist on having you as her husband no matter what.




PS: truth is even three of my close friends are Yoruba and all of their homes are broken. It seems many yorubas do not attach so much value to family as much as Igbos so don't blame that man okay? If not that I've developed myself mentally and emotionally to see beyond tribe, it'll be hard to convince me that Yorubas actually take marriage and family values seriously.


My two cents bro.

Menzy86:
Fulani and Christian? U r most likely from Michika or somwhere in Adamawa? Beautiful people!

I've never been to adamawa.
I'm from Bauchi state.