Nairalanders please I need your Advice and Opinion on this issue concerning friend...

She Loves her fiancee very well and he loves her too and they re looking forward to do their wedding soon,she's only 19 and very beautiful while her guy is in his late 20's ...the Issue here is that her guy always get angry anytime he see her on make up saying he doesn't like it, that she should always be her natural self in public even on pictures she put on social media .

That if she doesn't stop making up ,he may not continue with the marriage plans...but make up has always been part of her right from when was little and she said she can't stop it just like that.

Please Advice her....she will be reading your opinions and comments.

Dis isn't supposed to be an ish, it's her husband 2 b 4 crying out loud , since d man is k wt her natural, y d noise, who is she making up 4?. Now, she is battling to choose between d man and her make up. If truly she luv dat man, make up shud b trashed

TINALETC3:
Dis isn't supposed to be an ish, it's her husband 2 b 4 crying out loud , since d man is k wt her natural, y d noise, who is she making up 4?. Now, she is battling to choose between d man and her make up. If truly she luv dat man, make up shud b trashed

Can you do it for your Patner? won't it make the young girl look older than her age?

TINALETC3:
Dis isn't supposed to be an ish, it's her husband 2 b 4 crying out loud , since d man is k wt her natural, y d noise, who is she making up 4?. Now, she is battling to choose between d man and her make up. If truly she luv dat man, make up shud b trashed

E Don happen. To me, it is a red flag. What next will he ban after their marriage?

delishpot:



E Don happen. To me, it is a red flag. What next will he ban after their marriage?

hmmmmmm.

Y nt, unless I dnt luv hm, am even planning to quit mine willingly, it's even make ups and weavons dat makes ladies luk older Dan dia ages, she is even free 2 choose d make up and lose d man, it her choice. After all, we stl hv Nollywood celebrities dat slays in makeup at 40, stl waiting for a man

Passy089:




Can you do it for your Patner? won't it make the young girl look older than her age?

nope such person can even ask you to buy another sim card and chase away your friends..nonsense

This one weak me.

No. I can't.

You can't start giving me commandments to follow all in the name of marriage.

delishpot:



E Don happen. To me, it is a red flag. What next will he ban after their marriage?

My thought exactly

Dillusionist:
nope such person can even ask you to buy another sim card and chase away your friends..nonsense

So long you are a Nigerian, live and grew up in Nigeria when the time comes and your husband ask you to lose your sim you'd lose it whether you like it or not except you are married to a mumu.

babe, marriage is entirely new world, many changes must occur after u ar married, d man wl definitely make his rules and its either u use ur power as a woman 2 make hm change his mind or u start hvin problems which may crash d marriage, d funny tin is u may nt no at d beginning until u enta, dis one self even started on time. Atleast she is nt yet married to hm, she cn quit, it's her choice

Dillusionist:
nope such person can even ask you to buy another sim card and chase away your friends..nonsense

Rukkydelta:

My thought exactly

E tire me. That is how women entangle themselves with men who are not compatible with them. He saw her wearing make up and toasted her. After she got deep into him, he asks her to dump make up or forget the marriage. To me that is the mark of a control freak. Good thing is that many women would rather bear the Mrs tag no matter the price. Some ladies here are even mocking their fellow women simply because they aren't married. Marriage has become the yardstick of a successful woman.

sure i can....am not a make up freak

Most Nigerian women after making-up.

mofeoluwadassah:
sure i can....am not a make up freak

mofeoluwadassah:
sure i can....am not a make up freak

I think we may be compatible

TINALETC3:
babe, marriage is entirely new world, many changes must occur after u ar married, d man wl definitely make his rules and its either u use ur power as a woman 2 make hm change his mind or u start hvin problems which may crash d marriage, d funny tin is u may nt no at d beginning until u enta, dis one self even started on time. Atleast she is nt yet married to hm, she cn quit, it's her choice

honestly,,the marriage of a thing just weak me.

what is it with make ups tho, it's been over rated.. for God sake his ur man he loves u being natural. this not suppose to be an issue.

TINALETC3:
Dis isn't supposed to be an ish, it's her husband 2 b 4 crying out loud , since d man is k wt her natural, y d noise, who is she making up 4?. Now, she is battling to choose between d man and her make up. If truly she luv dat man, make up shud b trashed

Nope, she shouldn't loose her self-worth 'cause of a man she's about marring. If she finds solace in making-up, should she give that up just to please her husband?. This is a red flag that indicates the guy is domineering, tomorrow she'll say he tells her what to wear and what hairstyle to make without any consideration of what she wants, which would make her loose her identity on the long-run.

frankkydee:









I think we may be compatible

no we're not

Lol... I don't wear makeup, I just can't imagine wasting money on such infact so definitely I can marry such man.

Lol... I don't wear makeup, I just can't imagine wasting money on such infact so definitely I can marry such man.

mofeoluwadassah:
no we're not

how do you know we are not?

If any man tells me that, I'll just go to my room and apply more makeup. Fvck you gon do? 19 and you're already disturbing yourself for marriage. Misplaced piorities.

Nope. Not because I can't do without make-up but sweeri, you cannor be issuing orders to me like I'm one overpriced doll especially if you met me using make-up. Kolewerk

makydebbie:
If any man tells me that, I'll just go to my room and apply more makeup. Fvck you gon do? 19 and you're already disturbing yourself for marriage. Misplaced piorities.

See why I love ya

Sure i can, besides i don't apply make up.. I prefer to leave it natural

why is a 19 year old girl getting married?

AyPearl:
Lol... I don't wear makeup, I just can't imagine wasting money on such infact so definitely I can marry such man.

princ007:
Sure i can, besides i don't apply make up.. I prefer to leave it natural

Use to think all gels love this make up of a thing.