i feel fr d man
women are naturally cheats.

Guys,
Remain single
Marriage is fraud

Never make a ho a housewife.

bettyLad:
the way nairaland men comments on this trend ehhh, welcome to African ,a woman cheated and the whole world is talking but when men cheats it's a normal thing .if this complains was made by the wife ,people ll tell her to forgive and make the marriage work for the sake of their kids but now all I'm seeing is divorce the bitch bla bla, if the wife was remorseful and apologized after being caught , why didn't the husband forgive her for the sake of their child. I feel sorry for women in Africa but this Madam no try oh at all, I thought women cheats when their husband cannot satisfy them or is not giving them sex but this one is even denying her husband sex .. I wish I can beg the husband on her behalf to forgive her.

this comment reeks of contradictions. make your bloody mind up! it's her behaviour wrong or not? is it right that a woman is playing games with her husband and marriage in this way? if forgiven will she do it again? if she enjoys the other guy better than her husband why not just divorce her husband and marry the other guy? for how long will she carry on cheating? what if she infects her innocent husband with deseases? are you in support of women cheating? will you forgive if your husband cheats and denies you sex too? and how many times are you prepared to forgive?

And men are still scum?

Sterope:
No, I don't. BDSM can be very safe just like evryday activities. If participants choose to be extremely extreme, good for them.

By the way, they are not demon possessed. Pain has always been synonymous to pleasure for some people. We can't all the be the same.

Actually i can concur with this, certain pain i can endure, for instance in my office i constantly punch the wall in the office and bathroom, colleagues find it weird, but i find it soothing and relaxing not sure why, i do this for years. though suffered cuts from ceramics though as they cut my hand.

Lawlahdey:
The wife is into BDSM buh hubby doesn't have dominant bone in him so she had to get it outside.
Can't blame her.

hmmm I pity your future husband's cos.....DNA will be needed on every child u gave birth to

mrnuur:
And men are still scum?

Yes nau, if the men was maltreating her maybe she wouldn't have left him for the other guy, clearly the guy is a scum here.

ikbnice:
BDSM means Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission. A term used to generally classify a form of activity especially sexually involving consenting partners. A Dominant is the person who is in control of the activity (also called top) while submissive is recipient of the action (also called bottom). Whipping, handcuffs,tying, spanking etc can be applied as agreed by the partners. It is never termed punishment.
You can read more online

Make l go buy chain and horse whip now now. See waiting this world dey turn to

hopilo:

Make l go buy chain and horse whip now now. See waiting this world dey turn to

you can even buy a BDSM set sef. Just find a willing partner.

Sterope:
They are actually very normal. if not more normal than your average peeps.

Absolute genius. People who derive pleasure by inflicting pains on others (saddists) and those who enjoy these pains (masochists) during sexual activities are more normal than those who enjoy sex the right way.

Money well spent in your education.

hopilo:

Make l go buy chain and horse whip now now. See waiting this world dey turn to

Lol bro Na koboko sure pass horse whip oo she no go ever leave u I swear

Na wah o! all these things making someone to reason marriage 10 times�

ikbnice:
BDSM means Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission. A term used to generally classify a form of activity especially sexually involving consenting partners. A Dominant is the person who is in control of the activity (also called top) while submissive is recipient of the action (also called bottom). Whipping, handcuffs,tying, spanking etc can be applied as agreed by the partners. It is never termed punishment.
You can read more online

Okh thanks, so she is submissive to another man instead of her husband?

IamLEGEND1:
The kind news wey we just dey see these days.

It's quite obvious that Just like ASUU, the hoe association has recently convened in secret and agreed to activate all their sleeper agents that were planted in married homes.....
So now they're all following the mandate from above and reverting back to their original state..

This is epic!

YelloweWest:

Maybe her husband gained weight and she no longer desires him.

Maybe he is dirty.

Maybe he does not know how to satisfy his wife.

Maybe he nags too much. Which is a turn off.

Just a few of the excuses of men!

So Why should we condemn a sister?
Do u guys condemn ur fellow men for cheating?
Don't forget the man admitted in his chat that he pushed her away!
So who's to say he has not been cheating too?

In as much as I don't subscribe to infidelity as an answer to marital problems, I don't judge or condemn those that fall into temptation.

will it be OK if I say you too might fall into such temptation?

chronique:
See ehn, I think I'm tired of all these bullshit. If there's any single lady out there who is pretty and got good genes, works and won't mind us just having kids for convenience sake and we'd both go our separate ways, hit me up. Can't waste my life looking for love and waiting to get married the right way, when ladies are turning into hoes on per second billing... What the Bleep? Wife way I pay money on top wey I nor beat, na him person go dey chop for free outside, still dey beat am on top? How can a man's life be that useless? Furck it!!!

.

ibietela2:


Okh thanks, so she is submissive to another man instead of her husband?

Her husband didn't make her submissive and that's the problem she had. She may love the husband but her sexual fantasy is far different from the conventional one being shown by her husband.

KevinDein:

Absolute genius. People who derive pleasure by inflicting pains on others (saddists) and those who enjoy these pains (masochists) during sexual activities are more normal than those who enjoy sex the right way.

Money well spent in your education.

see finishing

Lawlahdey:
Why do you want me to blame her tho? Men cheat too.

what shall it profit a woman to show the world she hs no dignity tru social media? if u re a woman of no virtue, don't include others. hv some shame at least in public.

With all these I read everyday. Marriage is not even in my head. Let me keep chasing money.

Justeenaleo:

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abdulsemiu02:
Such a wife can bring untimely death to her husband sef, from the chat, the kind of guy she's moving with is a dangerous one, the guy can just decide to waste her husband. A Yoruba adage says "Obinrin ton yan ale, bi o ba pa ara e, Yio pa oko e"

This is so true.

freshvine:
It's difficult to contain uncircumcised women

u hv a point here cox most of dem only thinks abt sex all d time.

Its always interesting to see how pained men r when their women cheats. And they cheat daily n calls it a man' s world!

@least, d pain is mutual now

I sure say i go marry so?

Lawlahdey:
The wife is into BDSM buh hubby doesn't have dominant bone in him so she had to get it outside.
Can't blame her.

Why did she marry him when she knows he doesn't be dominate bone.. There is no excuse here. She messed up.

I don't get, how do people derive pleasure from pain?, this life self ,that's the only shocker for me here, as for the cheating, I have learned not to criticize women that cheat, cos I have seen more men cheat on their wives in the years I have spent on earth, so let's say they learned the art from the masters

gypsey:
this comment reeks of contradictions. make your bloody mind up! it's her behaviour wrong or not? is it right that a woman is playing games with her husband and marriage in this way? if forgiven will she do it again? if she enjoys the other guy better than her husband why not just divorce her husband and marry the other guy? for how long will she carry on cheating? what if she infects her innocent husband with deseases? are you in support of women cheating? will you forgive if your husband cheats and denies you sex too? and how many times are you prepared to forgive?

Would u ve asked all these questions if d opposite was d case here?

People don't think of pain whenever there are pleasure

This is pathetic! Waooh

That is what happens when you marry because of beauty,educational status,class,parents wealth and influence,neglecting the real values in knowing a human being..beacause many just look human but they have long mutated into animals...