Ok, Heard You All.

@Poster, this is too general and not fair on ladies that have been faithful and supportive, reponsible, caring etc (that is not to say there are no lots of naija chicks who are out just to chop a guy!)

Socrates once said , if u find a wife , by every means marry  but if u marry a bad woman , u will end up a philosopher. A woman offers both good and bad but to maintain harmanoy , take the good and over look the bad .

they dont offer anything but heart breaks and all time demands eg nigerian girls and recahrge cards (mtn 150) are partners, recharge card before love, i pity them all.

children

PUHSSY

caring at all time and se* for we the males.
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me myself and me only

Tis these girsl of nowadays who think it is 21st century to be emulating some of the undesirable liberal culture of the west concerning the role of women in a marriage or relationship. The sexes are meant to compliment each other in every way possible way but I think these ladies have lost their way.

I thank God my mama teach me how to cook, clean and take care of myself. Apart from intimacy ,ther is nothing these women of nowadays  can offer me right now.

even the intimacy i fit get am without general commitment.

I will be single for a while o!

OBLONG:

PUHSSY

lol

@snthesis

did she force the money out of your pocket?

i don't see why u can't tell her that she is very demanding or are u scared of her?

i found this thread kind of funny cos i really don't believe some guys think that girls have nuthing to bring to the table.(you may have to change the kind of company u keep then!)

well, from savvy financial advice to prudent tips on money management to good cooking, u name it. i def bring to my r/ship.

am independent minded so i believe i should bring more than just looking and smelling good to a lasting r/ship, and i most def do. even to my same-sex relationships.

its just the way i are,

obo/toto and children I dont even need my wife to be all touchy and lovey - just be there to have kids and take care of them and not sleep with others guys Ill igve her all the money she wants.

another dumbv post!!!!!!!

lets play the jams,

I am waiting to get a good answer from the ladies on similar question. My story; I asked an ex-date, when we met again n she wanted us to reconnect "I know what I will do for u but what u can do for me is what I am trying to figure out, ". pple the answer I got was," I will help with ur domestics". well i told her to forget it.
the truth pple was that I always find way to improve the lives of my dates. I try to leave them better than I met them. try to make them know that money is not everything, that the future runs only to pple that runs to it. Now I have realized that i too do have moments I need some one to uphold me n i want to surround myself with a date that can support me when I am weak.

@alicianna, what part of Canada are you from?

Very funny but real. To evry rule there's an exception;
    RULE- d typical naija babe beleives a guy must spend and spend to show his luv/b4 she'll give it to him (as if they're selling it). U'll hear some say 'afterall if d relatnshp end what will i have to show as my gain?' And funny enough, after depending on men 4 practically everything they will want to claim equality/women right like oyinbo pple.
   D EXCEPTION: there's a very small % however dat give more than sex in a relationship, they give moral, emotional and sometimes financial support. But there's also an exceptn here too, u'll hardly find a pretty, young, enlightened, not-desperate-4-marriage naija babe support a guy financially!!! Those that do are mostly sugar mummies or dem don dey comot market and on d condition dat d guy must sabi work well-well!

@chocomillo, i agree that most men c women as just sex objects but the annoying part is that most women now see themselves as sex object, most of them now belieeve the only thing they have is sex. Rather unfortunate,

No women No cryyyyy,

kemisuga:

Unfornately for me, the topic is the reverse on my own side.

I offer everything I have in my relationships. But the so called naija guys I met Offer nothing BUT LIES!!!

sorry o! you probably have met the kinda of guys that would offer so much but u were not quick to notice.

U may want to give it a try >08136570250< SMS ONLY, that number is only available online on saturdays (work/life balance).

kemisuga:

Unfornately for me, the topic is the reverse on my own side.

I offer everything I have in my relationships. But the so called naija guys I met Offer nothing BUT LIES!!!

co-sign i am just like u,  in every relationship i offer alot,  i've dumped all the guys i've dated but i know all of em learned something from me and they will be better off in the future. ,meanwhile all i get from them are lies.,,  they lie about how many girlfriends they've had, how many girls they've4 slept with, y their ex left em, how much money they have and lie about where they go 2,   

If by chance you get the supportive one, your life will have a meaning!

I was asking a friend this very same question days back. Thinking about it now, women in general don't have anything to offer guys except sex, nagging, stress, headaches and the overbearing ones who always want to lay claim to you like you were their personal play thing.

There is an exception though for the independent ladies. Who can pay their bills, give a guy a good treat and make him feel real special. I am yet to meet such a lady though.

Naija girls, its time to get your hustle on and stop being pests. You need to earn your own money and also pay for dinner when we go out, pay for fuel, buy the movie tickets and do stuff guys do all the time. I believe guys will respect and treat you better when you return the favor.

I thank God my mama teach me how to cook, clean and take care of myself. Apart from intimacy ,ther is nothing these women of nowadays can offer me right now.

anyone regardless of gender should know how to cook, clean and take care of themselves.

it seems you are trying to say that's the role of a women in marriage? what about companionship? or are you marrying an housegirl?

bawomolo:

anyone regardless of gender should know how to cook, clean and take care of themselves.

it seems you are trying to say that's the role of a women in marriage? what about companionship? or are you marrying an housegirl?

You seriously make me speechless sometimes

^^^ abi oooooo

sjeezy8:

^^^ abi oooooo

my friend, gbe enu e soun

Pweety4me:

_{^Calm down. . .}

Because I agree with him?
Oya take your own kisses

how did this dumb post find itself to the front page in the first place?

sagluva:

co-sign i am just like u,  in every relationship i offer alot,   i've dumped all the guys i've dated but i know all of em learned something from me and they will be better off in the future. ,meanwhile all i get from them are lies.,,  they lie about how many girlfriends they've had, how many girls they've4 slept with, y their ex left em, how much money they have and lie about where they go 2,  

The story is thesame with me too. Mind you, I've only ever dated two naija guys but ohhhh did they ever teach me lessons!

bawomolo:

anyone regardless of gender should know how to cook, clean and take care of themselves.

it seems you are trying to say that's the role of a women in marriage? what about companionship? or are you marrying an housegirl?

Both parties offer companionship to one another so this does not count.

If I can perform all the prescribed duties assigned to a woman then what can any woman offer me that should make me exclusive to her