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Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by univasal: 4:10pm On Oct 06, 2017
Personally,i don't like watching tragedic movies but two hours ago i unavoidably re-watched the movie TITANIC. Infact,at my age,i left my sister in the living room and went to the bathroom to cry out my eyes.
I cried because i tried to connect the honesty between the Jack and Rose to our real world and all i could visualize was the trend of people prefering to stay unmarried while they just give birth to children,secondly,the rate of divorce increasing and becoming common. Chai!do you know how sweet it would have been,if we hadn't stopped loving. I mean,even the music artist and movie actors show us how life should be but they are too scared of sharing wealth with women because of divorce. Oh God help this generation,that has dropped trust and chosen distrust and infidelity because of lust. Even the married are just married for aesthetics. Chai!Please guys,let us embrace romance. The future generation will definitely not know how the real romance is like,with the style we run because we idolize celebrities. We need our Jacks and Roses,Romeos and Juliets. Well,i can't help it because this romantic virus has already eaten deep into our style of romance but i just want to have one thing clear to me. Why do people prefer the baby mama thing and divorce thing¿

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Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by SoftP(m): 4:26pm On Oct 06, 2017
Endtime things
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by muller101(m): 4:36pm On Oct 06, 2017
Try having a baby mama and u will never regret. Get married and that's the end of your life. To the men gather all u can from a lady .AND never give back. grin

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Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by univasal: 4:37pm On Oct 06, 2017
SoftP:
Endtime things
Too bad
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by univasal: 5:01pm On Oct 06, 2017
muller101:
Try having a baby mama and u will never regret. Get married and that's the end of your life. To the men gather all u can from a lady .AND never give back. grin
easy bro

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Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:58pm On Oct 06, 2017
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
let each do what they please with their own lives, and if you are against babymamas and divorce then dont get any, et voila!!!
the fact that you would want ALL people to live the life YOU desire, as if we were robots, is what is wrong here!

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Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by univasal: 7:07pm On Oct 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
let each do what they please with their own lives, and if you are against babymamas and divorce then dont get any, et voila!!!
the fact that you would want ALL people to live the life YOU desire, as if we were robots, is what is wrong here!
sorry bro. Those that have baby mamas,do they pay bride price¿ Secondly,i never said people shouldn't divorce but while is it becoming a style even when it is not that necessary

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Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:12pm On Oct 06, 2017
univasal:
sorry bro. Those that have baby mamas,do they pay bride price¿ Secondly,i never said people shouldn't divorce but while is it becoming a style even when it is not that necessary

paying bride price is a degrading act, and probably the DIRECT reason for the majority of divorce for these same useless union.... and how dare YOU say that these divorces are not necessary?! if a person decide to divorce then it is INDEED necessary, no matter what anyone says. GET REAL!
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by iamJ(m): 7:17pm On Oct 06, 2017
lol if i use nairaland explain how babymama are accepted dem go say i talk


Well to me sha, if you have opened that hole like that and you're not my wife, u are of no use to me lipsrsealed
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by univasal: 7:25pm On Oct 06, 2017
iamJ:
lol if i use nairaland explain how babymama are accepted dem go say i talk


Well to me sha, if you have opened that hole like that and you're not my wife, u are of no use to me lipsrsealed
you see my point
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by Kobicove(m): 1:29am On Oct 07, 2017
Because times have changed and the world has come to accept that it's almost impossible to stay in love with the same person for the rest of your life undecided
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by univasal: 9:44am On Oct 07, 2017
Kobicove:
Because times have changed and the world has come to accept that it's almost impossible to stay in love with the same person for the rest of your life undecided
We made time to change my dear. Our problem is pride. Our parents removed pride and that's why,inspite of their differences they sticked together to raise me and you. Now it's our time,we now want to make our children grow to see their parents not living together.
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by jorion(m): 10:11am On Oct 07, 2017
It's like asking why we no longer buy vcds when we can download Blu-ray movies online for 50 bucks. It's a Cultural shift, we knew where we were before we made a decision to accept this present system. Most women in Nigeria are liabilities and in my opinion, things you play with when you are trying to relieve stress. Nothing more nothing less. A necessary evil

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Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by Nobody: 11:46am On Oct 07, 2017
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by Nobody: 4:46pm On Oct 07, 2017
A very IMPORTANT topic you have raised, very SENSIBLE OBSERVATION though an obvious observation but soTRAGIC  how some individuals always feel so UNCOMFORTABLE as if being PINCHED in the ASSHOLE whenever topics which concern the DECENCY of our HUMANITY is brought to the surface.

IT ONLY SHOWS THE DEPTH OF DEGENERATION AND INTELLECTUAL VACUITY, A RESIDUE OF A DECAYED GENERATION. A CONDITIONING AS REGARDS SUCH MENTALITIES BECAUSE THEY CAN NO LONGER LEAP UPWARD BUT A CONTINOUS GROPING DOWNWARDS INTO THE MIRE OF DECADENCE AS THEY HAVE BEING SO PROGRAMMED TO KEEP DROWNING.

Univasal, what we are experiencing today can be traced back to the end of the First world war. The end of the first world war was an openner to a NEW WORLD ORDER. The MORALITIES upon which the western societies was been run prior had been dealt a MORTAL blow giving way for the ILLUSION called 'FREEDOM' being celebrated a.k.a DEMOCRACY.  FREEDOM WITHOUT RESPONSIBILITY!!!

The United States of America was at that time gainning grounds and making all necessary calculations and efforts towards becoming WORLD'S MOST POWERFUL NATION via ideals and military armament.The British empire was World's number one until after the second world war, they were  dethrowned by the U.S.A for the seat of HEGEMONY and their ideology of AMERICAN DEMOCRACY became a system to encroach the world changing the mentalities and cultures of where ever it touches to one of DEBASEMENT in moralities.

*A new world order of Lust and NOT Love.
*Of high Divorces, Infidelity and NOT Connubial bliss.
*Of glorified Baby Mama's (trying to restrict the list within your mentions but the debasement is far more and are only products a system that has made them so)
* Of redefination of marriage to mean union of man and man, woman and woman. Were as a result of the illlusion called FREEDOM without RESPONSIBILITY.

The Foundations of SANE FAMILY STRUCTURE, THE HOME came crumbling during the SEXUAL REVOLUTION in the 60s U.S.A. "FREEDOM TO USE THEIR BODIES WITHOUT HAVING TO WORRY ABOUT THE BURDEN OF UNWANTED PREGNANCY" (M.J Heale, The Sixties, History, politics and protest). Moral Traditional values were kicked against and considered ARCHAIC. The contraceptives PILL was invented and considered as science's TRIUMPH over nature. It got approval by legislatives hence a life of PROMISCUITY which by product is today OUT OF MARITAL PREGNANCY being funckified as BABY MAMAS. At most, its no more than the ANIMAL SIDE of people who choose not to grow that is at play really as regards your observations (other factor(s) is ECONOMIC) .

The 60s gave birth to organized pornography, to playboy magazines, contraceptives, abortion e.t.c...........all kinds of agencies destroying the SANITY of our HUMANITY inclining the multitude towards behaving less than ANIMALS.

NOW THIS IS MY OWN EMPHASY!!!

The lack of BONDING through LOVE, RESPECT, COMPASSION and UNDERSTANDING  acting as a CENTRIPETAL FORCE pulling us together towards the center of UNITY and TRANQUILITY is no where to be found today, and those who advocate such virtues are DESPISED by they the majority who are BLIND FOOLS living in the BONDAGE pestilence nonsense so insensitive to their STUP!DITY as they constantly celebrate, PREJUDICE, HATRED, GREED, ARROGANCE AND IGNORANCE. A pulling apart, a.k.a centrifugal force away from the center and towards DISASTER. Humanity imperil!!!

Except as adviced by Martin Luther King Jnrs: "We must live together as brothers, or perish together as fools".

Which is a TRUTH to be embraced by all yet its by choice else WE ALL GONNA PERISH TOGETHER AS BIG FOOLS if we decide to keep fooling ourselves a.k.a SELF DECEPTION. Its not an out cry to Nigerians alone to LOVE ONE ANOTHER, to make FAMILY WORK, HOME SWEET HOME, CONNUBIAL BLISS but an out cry to the WHOLE WIDE WORLD which is so much in CHAOS and over what please?!!!...........................MATERIALISM and EGOCENTRICITY?!!!.

At least we know or should know that the latest improvement of Russia's NUCLEAR WAR HEAD of massive destruction of which is still constantly being improved everyday, called 'SATAN2' is so powerful enough to WIPE OUT nearly the whole of France, United Kingdom by just one strike.

It is claimed to be "2000 times more powerful than the atomic bombs dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki (during the second world war). While this NUCLEAR WAR HEAD called 'SATAN2' is designed to be IMPOSSIBLE to intercept because it does not move on a set of trajectory". If you care to know more about SIGNIFICANCE and not TRIVIALITIES which is what the majority gullible people have been programmed to be so busy about amusing themselves over trivialities. You can kindly read and even do more research yourself at least you ain't ignorant even if at the moment you ain't privilege to do anything about it. WHO KNOWS WHAT PRIVILEGES SHALL UNFOLD TO US IN THE FUTURE. "Doing nothing is harmless but busy doing nothing is not". www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/10/25/russia-unveils-satan-2-missile-powerful-enough-to-wipe-out-uk-fr/

The question of course is, what about the United States of America? Well Noam Chomsky who is an American, and a WORLD RENOUNED INTELLECTUAL already answered that question in an interview on TRUTHOUT, title: US is the "most Dangerous country in the world".

He said,

"The Obama modernization program that is now being escalated by Trump, and its EXTREMELY DANGEROUS. What they claim base on disclosed information is that the US MISSILE SYSTEM has been improved by such a huge factor that they are now capable of wiping out the Russian detterent. That is massive over kill and nuclear stability is gone and of course the Russians know this. What it implies is that if they ever feel a threat, THEY ARE JUST GOING TO BE COMPELLED TO LAUNCH A PREEMPTIVE STRIKE BECAUSE.  OTHERWISE THEY ARE DEAD YOU KNOW?" (Noam Chomsky) Read more to your disappointment about the human race here. www.truth-out.org/opinion/item/40319-noam-chomsky-us-is-the-most-dangerous-country-in-the-world#15065035703251&action=collapse_widget&id=0&data=

Guess what? Such a strike has got a strike back effect that will take on planet Earth called the 'WINTER EFFECT'. To cut long story short, WE ARE ALL AS GOOD AS DEAD BY A STRIKE. SO WHAT SENSE IS IT WITH SUCH AN INVENTION, WHERE DID THE INSPIRATION COME FROM?!!!

How did we get here if not by HATING one another and not LOVING one another. THAT TRUE LOVE BETWEEN THE SEXES IS INFACT GONE. ALL THAT WE SEE TODAY IS FIGHT AND FIGHT. MALE VERSU FEMALES. LETS MAKE LOVE AND NOT WAR. When people don't even care about the LIFE that they might be PROCREATING during sexual intercourse so IRRESPONSIBLE they choose to play with the life of that INNOCENT child. So SELFISH and CARELESS. Broken homes everywhere what else if not a BROKEN WORLD bleeding at our feet.


"One wonders whether BOUNDLESS, ALL-EMBRACING COMPASSION for our fellow creatures might not enable us to tackle the apparently insoluble problems of a time of drastic, rapid change. UP TO NOW, WHENEVER A SOCIETY TURNED A NEW LEAF IT HAD THE DEVIL AT ITS ELBOW". (Eric Hoffer, Reflection on the Human Condition)


Hence, the greater our privileges the greater responsibilities and unless our responsibilities are discharged with SINCERITY, we fall short of being bonafide HOMOSAPEINS but DROOLING IMBEC!LES.

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Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by univasal: 5:17pm On Oct 07, 2017
WORDWORLD:
A very IMPORTANT topic you have raised, very SENSIBLE OBSERVATION though an obvious observation but soTRAGIC  how some individuals always feel so UNCOMFORTABLE as if being PINCHED in the ASSHOLE whenever topics which concern the DECENCY of our HUMANITY is brought to the surface.

IT ONLY SHOWS THE DEPTH OF DEGENERATION AND INTELLECTUAL VACUITY, A RESIDUE OF A DECAYED GENERATION. A CONDITIONING AS REGARDS SUCH MENTALITIES BECAUSE THEY CAN NO LONGER LEAP UPWARD BUT A CONTINOUS GROPING DOWNWARDS INTO THE MIRE OF DECADENCE AS THEY HAVE BEING SO PROGRAMMED TO KEEP DROWNING.

Univasal, what we are experiencing today can be traced back to the end of the First world war. The end of the first world war was an openner to a NEW WORLD ORDER. The MORALITIES upon which the western societies was been run prior had been dealt a MORTAL blow giving way for the ILLUSION called 'FREEDOM' being celebrated a.k.a DEMOCRACY.  FREEDOM WITHOUT RESPONSIBILITY!!!

The United States of America was at that time gainning grounds and making all necessary calculations and efforts towards becoming WORLD'S MOST POWERFUL NATION via ideals and military armament.The British empire was World's number one until after the second world war, they were  dethrowned by the U.S.A for the seat of HEGEMONY and their ideology of AMERICAN DEMOCRACY became a system to encroach the world changing the mentalities and cultures of where ever it touches to one of DEBASEMENT in moralities.

*A new world order of Lust and NOT Love.
*Of high Divorces, Infidelity and NOT Connubial bliss.
*Of glorified Baby Mama's (trying to restrict the list within your mentions but the debasement is far more and are only products a system that has made them so)
* Of redefination of marriage to mean union of man and man, woman and woman. Were as a result of the illlusion called FREEDOM without RESPONSIBILITY.

The Foundations of SANE FAMILY STRUCTURE, THE HOME came crumbling during the SEXUAL REVOLUTION in the 60s U.S.A. "FREEDOM TO USE THEIR BODIES WITHOUT HAVING TO WORRY ABOUT THE BURDEN OF UNWANTED PREGNANCY" (M.J Heale, The Sixties, History, politics and protest). Moral Traditional values were kicked against and considered ARCHAIC. The contraceptives PILL was invented and considered as science's TRIUMPH over nature. It got approval by legislatives hence a life of PROMISCUITY which by product is today OUT OF MARITAL PREGNANCY being funckified as BABY MAMAS. At most, its no more than the ANIMAL SIDE of people who choose not to grow that is at play really as regards your observations (other factor(s) is ECONOMIC) .

The 60s gave birth to organized pornography, to playboy magazines, contraceptives, abortion e.t.c...........all kinds of agencies destroying the SANITY of our HUMANITY inclining the multitude towards behaving less than ANIMALS.

NOW THIS IS MY OWN EMPHASY!!!

The lack of BONDING through LOVE, RESPECT, COMPASSION and UNDERSTANDING  acting as a CENTRIPETAL FORCE pulling us together towards the center of UNITY and TRANQUILITY is no where to be found today, and those who advocate such virtues are DESPISED by they the majority who are BLIND FOOLS living in the BONDAGE pestilence nonsense so insensitive to their STUP!DITY as they constantly celebrate, PREJUDICE, HATRED, GREED, ARROGANCE AND IGNORANCE. A pulling apart, a.k.a centrifugal force away from the center and towards DISASTER. Humanity imperil!!!

Except as adviced by Martin Luther King Jnrs: "We must live together as brothers, or perish together as fools".

Which is a TRUTH to be embraced by all yet its by choice else WE ALL GONNA PERISH TOGETHER AS BIG FOOLS if we decide to keep fooling ourselves a.k.a SELF DECEPTION. Its not an out cry to Nigerians alone to LOVE ONE ANOTHER, to make FAMILY WORK, HOME SWEET HOME, CONNUBIAL BLISS but an out cry to the WHOLE WIDE WORLD which is so much in CHAOS and over what please?!!!...........................MATERIALISM and EGOCENTRICITY?!!!.

At least we know or should know that the latest improvement of Russia's NUCLEAR WAR HEAD of massive destruction of which is still constantly being improved everyday, called 'SATAN2' is so powerful enough to WIPE OUT nearly the whole of France, United Kingdom by just one strike.

It is claimed to be "2000 times more powerful than the atomic bombs dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki (during the second world war). While this NUCLEAR WAR HEAD called 'SATAN2' is designed to be IMPOSSIBLE to intercept because it does not move on a set of trajectory". If you care to know more about SIGNIFICANCE and not TRIVIALITIES which is what the majority gullible people have been programmed to be so busy about amusing themselves over trivialities. You can kindly read and even do more research yourself at least you ain't ignorant even if at the moment you ain't privilege to do anything about it. WHO KNOWS WHAT PRIVILEGES SHALL UNFOLD TO US IN THE FUTURE. "Doing nothing is harmless but busy doing nothing is not". www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/10/25/russia-unveils-satan-2-missile-powerful-enough-to-wipe-out-uk-fr/

The question of course is, what about the United States of America? Well Noam Chomsky who is an American, and a WORLD RENOUNED INTELLECTUAL already answered that question in an interview on TRUTHOUT, title: US is the "most Dangerous country in the world".

He said,

"The Obama modernization program that is now being escalated by Trump, and its EXTREMELY DANGEROUS. What they claim base on disclosed information is that the US MISSILE SYSTEM has been improved by such a huge factor that they are now capable of wiping out the Russian detterent. That is massive over kill and nuclear stability is gone and of course the Russians know this. What it implies is that if they ever feel a threat, THEY ARE JUST GOING TO BE COMPELLED TO LAUNCH A PREEMPTIVE STRIKE BECAUSE.  OTHERWISE THEY ARE DEAD YOU KNOW?" (Noam Chomsky) Read more to your disappointment about the human race here. www.truth-out.org/opinion/item/40319-noam-chomsky-us-is-the-most-dangerous-country-in-the-world#15065035703251&action=collapse_widget&id=0&data=

Guess what? Such a strike has got a strike back effect that will take on planet Earth called the 'WINTER EFFECT'. To cut long story short, WE ARE ALL AS GOOD AS DEAD BY A STRIKE. SO WHAT SENSE IS IT WITH SUCH AN INVENTION, WHERE DID THE INSPIRATION COME FROM?!!!

How did we get here if not by HATING one another and not LOVING one another. THAT TRUE LOVE BETWEEN THE SEXES IS INFACT GONE. ALL THAT WE SEE TODAY IS FIGHT AND FIGHT. MALE VERSU FEMALES. LETS MAKE LOVE AND NOT WAR. When people don't even care about the LIFE that they might be PROCREATING during sexual intercourse so IRRESPONSIBLE they choose to play with the life of that INNOCENT child. So SELFISH and CARELESS. Broken homes everywhere what else if not a BROKEN WORLD bleeding at our feet.


"One wonders whether BOUNDLESS, ALL-EMBRACING COMPASSION for our fellow creatures might not enable us to tackle the apparently insoluble problems of a time of drastic, rapid change. UP TO NOW, WHENEVER A SOCIETY TURNED A NEW LEAF IT HAD THE DEVIL AT ITS ELBOW". (Eric Hoffer, Reflection on the Human Condition)


Hence, the greater our privileges the greater responsibilities and unless our responsibilities are discharged with SINCERITY, we fall short of being bonafide HOMOSAPEINS but DROOLING IMBEC!LES.

















 

Thanks bro
Re: Why Is The World Gradually Accepting The Baby Mama And Consistent Divorce Trend by jorion(m): 5:51pm On Oct 07, 2017
Should everything be connected with Illuminati and end time.

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