the good thing is he's just your boyfriend not your husband. i know that you only forgive someone who's contrite. is he sorry for what he did or just sorry he got caught? cheating is a deal breaker. marriage is hard enough before adding infidelity to it. my dear my advice to u? run for ur life!!!!!! let them marry each other. there's a good guy out there who will appreciate you better.it may seem like the hardest thing you've ever had to do but in the long run you'll be glad you did.dont let nobody make you settle for second best because honey , you do have a choice, goodluck

Be careful o, i wish u all the best

Any single man dat dates a married woman, wil 4ver live an insecured life. He wil luk @ his wife later in life 2b doin same tin he did wit anoda man's wife. Ur marriage wit dis man wud certainly b a disaster! Trust me & leave him 4gud!

This thing dey call luv sef!Have you ever considered that maybe he wasnt really in love with you?Have you also considered that the woman in question is not happy in her marriage?She is just a year older than he is,for crying out loud!You v done the right thing by excusing yourself from the relationship-some other lady would av remained in it,living a miserable life.Dont crucify him pls.It could be true love or lust;if he is meant for you,he will definitely return to you.Shalom!

crazyp:
My fiance is suddenly in luv with a married lady who is just a year younger than him, I've never had any cause to suspect him until now.

She used to be a mutual friend to us, i confronted him at first & he denied it only for me to investigate & find out the painful truth. He apologised profusely but just yesterday, i read a mail he sent to her promising her of undying luv & her reply is something else, it goes to show they are deeply in luv & from her reply, she cares less if her husband finds out, what do i do? i'm so confused,

Do nothing...learn to mind your business.

crazyp:
@Uche

Yes, i'm in PH

@everyone
Thanks for ur advice, i've already eased myself out of the whole thing, i'm so very lucky we are not fully married yet. Yes, i'm heartbroken but things ought to be done rightly, to even imagine that i luvd him enough to want to spend d rest of my life with him, gosh!!

i called his mum & told her what happened, she was almost in tears when i finished, well i just hope i'll b able to move on soon, its so very sad & i'm not finding it funny after 2 whole years

good for you...if u cant move on,you can go back to your ex

Radiant:
You finace is in 'love' with a married lady? So what? You never heard this before? I can see you've dealt with the matter, anyway. Grow stronger 'cause life is worse than this!

you don fuccck married men tire...B!TCH

FactorChic:
@Creamish
u're right, I feel u, he's not worth it, he's dating someone and he's looking at a married woman, if it was me, I won't hesitate to dump his ass with pleasure!

see your mouth

crazyp:
Hi guys, thanks so much.

The cat is finally out of the bag, his friend told me that d lady in question was his girlfriend way back in schl & because he wasnt financially ok then, she opted to marry someone else & that they lost contact for several years & she had to pretend to b my friend also so as not to get me suspicious, they've bn dating ever since, can u beat that?

I'm kind of relieved knowing it wasn't really my fault that things went bad, infact i'm very happy it happened now. Meanwhile, he's still pleading not knowing that i've gotten my facts, i'll let him continue playing d fool till ,

just what I expected...pls dont leave your guy,just stay with him,the devil you know ....

Babe you know the saying now ..."the grass always seem greener on the other side". that's why i believe in the school of thought which states that"most men do not want a total good girl" cos it gets boring. When all is too perfect..they start looking for trouble. A real man knows what he wants,go for it,ready to fix the relationship when things get shaky...not all this boys wey dey claim man!!. my dear move on jor

@op..fall inluv wit her hubby too..

Do me-i do u; god no go vex :-

#na play oooo#

but op report d woman to her hubby wit ur evience den quit dat guy ni

#last-bullet# dat guy deserve to recieve last slap of 2014

Well... Ask urself certain questions like...
Has he loved me any less 4 a while now?
Does he still give me dat proper care and respect?
Has anything in him changed? Does he still give me d same attention, affection, etc etc...
Make sure u are truthful to urself...
If d guy still dey perform for dese tins.. Den it mite (mite oo) jst be dat he is doing wat he does for attention purposes.. or d idiom only "egusi soup everday sey sour belle" is at work ..
Bt anyways am not tryn to justify his actions.. Am jst saying dat marriage is hard work and u need to be strong and constantly disciplined to handle some stupid shiit...