supersystemsnig:



Well... I have a black tag on my moniker as a traitor on the forum, so on a low key...

Black tag? Traitor Why, you're one of the good ones now. Anyway, it's good to see you on the forum now.

RaggedyAnn:



Black tag? Traitor Why, you're one of the good ones now. Anyway, it's good to see you on the forum now.

Lolz...cause you missed what i did.. good ones ke...I'm not back... will leave finally, just buying time cause some of your sisters mailed me and sent very very ish emails calling me names...soo, not to grant them that emotional satisfaction i decided to stay put a while longer

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supersystemsnig:



Lolz...cause you missed what i did.. good ones ke...I'm not back... will leave finally, just buying time cause some of your sisters mailed me and sent very very ish emails calling me names...soo, not to grant them that emotional satisfaction i decided to stay put a while longer

Hmmmm.......What did you do?

Date. I'll look it up if it hasn't been deleted.

People have different love languages. Don't crucify her.

RaggedyAnn:



Hmmmm.......What did you do?

Date. I'll look it up if it hasn't been deleted.

Long story..The major has been deleted, the shaft is in derailers paradise, on Sunday

Laid down rules and regulations. Oga run from her that's how it begins very Small

DanseMacabre:
Bros even if you call am once for every hour on the clock, when she wan breakup she go find another thing use as excuse.


Just use your head (like Mutiu Adepoju).

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lmao!..U made sense here!

RaggedyAnn:
If you aren't perturbed that she broke up with you then I'm not surprised that you wouldn't call her three times a day. You probably aren't meant for each other. When you meet someone you're crazy about, you'll call her enough times to make her a part of your day. Not just the perfunctory (4) calls per week.

It seems u are jobless cos I can't imagine an adult who's working to come up with such rubbish advise. Or it is d case u don't understand the adverse effect such action will have on d relationship on d long run.

3times daily kwa!
when she aint food.....
Even food nowadays is 1-0-1...



Seems to me your babe doesn't wnt u to think abt something better with your life and what's gonna better the life of you both.

GT07115:
I am a serving Corps members in Ondo state, and my girlfriend is a fashion designer and a student, in terms of financial needs she is self sufficient, but i don't really understand her, I love her that is the fact, i intend settling down with her very soon, most of the issues I have with her is that ; she wants me to call her at least three times a day , and most of the time we do chat on whatsapp, and I feel there is nothing really to say that will warrant me calling her, mind you I call her at least four times in a week, I am not a good caller anyway, but that doesn't reduce my love for her, I don't really know what she wants. I call her this morning and she was complaining I didn't call her, that the sister who came to visit her, the husband calls her almost every hour, and I replied by saying I am not her sisters husband, she should learn to accept me the way I am, and if she can't she can let go, she sent me a text that is over, I am not perturbed anyway, but my worries is, why should this be an issue.

Bro, just don't worry yourself.
Are you the only one meant to call? Does she call you? If a girl loves you, mark my words, she will call more than you do but if she doesn't that means she is calling another guy meaning she's cheating on you. I strongly believe she has not contributed anything in your life but you have into hers, so to her, she can make such stupid utterances of wanting to break up cos you didn't call her 3 times a day.
Bro, just use this as correction,. Relationship is 50/50 not only you spending.

IamLEGEND1:
if she wants to talk to you 3 times a day then she should call you. I don't know what is so hard to understand about that.
Nigerian women and their skewered sense of entitlement are the bane of every man's existence in this country.

Bitch_if you feel like talking, call me..... I'm not gonna waste my time and money calling you just so I can listen to you breathe on the phone.
I dey ration my calls..... a 10min call every 2days and if you exhaust your quota then you're O.Y.O

Bros u are savage as Bleep

One mumu guy is hitting her in ur absence!!

And Kabira use style dey complain 2 times in a week call dey too much...chai! E be like say love no follow my Destiny come

Your girlfriend needs a jobless man because only a man that has nothing to do will have that much time

Yeligray:
3times a day you d work for MTN.

I'd rather use my call card forecast on bet9ja than call a hoe

GT07115:
I am a serving Corps members in Ondo state, and my girlfriend is a fashion designer and a student. In terms of financial needs, she is self sufficient.

But i don't really understand her. I love her that is the fact, i intend settling down with her very soon.

Most of the issues I have with her is that ; she wants me to call her at least three times a day , and most of the time we do chat on whatsapp, and I feel there is nothing really to say that will warrant me calling her, mind you I call her at least four times in a week, I am not a good caller anyway, but that doesn't reduce my love for her, I don't really know what she wants. I call her this morning and she was complaining I didn't call her, that the sister who came to visit her, the husband calls her almost every hour, and I replied by saying I am not her sisters husband, she should learn to accept me the way I am, and if she can't she can let go.

She sent me a text that is over, I am not perturbed anyway, but my worries is, why should this be an issue?

you better go and make money and she would be the one calling you

you are still a copper wire with no shi shi

go and hustle boy

Lol.... Trust me She had already called a Quit in her head all these while.


Just let her walk.

GT07115:
I am a serving Corps members in Ondo state, and my girlfriend is a fashion designer and a student. In terms of financial needs, she is self sufficient.

But i don't really understand her. I love her that is the fact, i intend settling down with her very soon.

Most of the issues I have with her is that ; she wants me to call her at least three times a day , and most of the time we do chat on whatsapp, and I feel there is nothing really to say that will warrant me calling her, mind you I call her at least four times in a week, I am not a good caller anyway, but that doesn't reduce my love for her, I don't really know what she wants. I call her this morning and she was complaining I didn't call her, that the sister who came to visit her, the husband calls her almost every hour, and I replied by saying I am not her sisters husband, she should learn to accept me the way I am, and if she can't she can let go.

She sent me a text that is over, I am not perturbed anyway, but my worries is, why should this be an issue?

sorry bro, women are attention and care seeking creatures, the moment u stop giving it to them, they become vulnerable and open to some guy they feel will spend their whole life giving it to them, sorry for ur loss bro

Hope u bang her wella?, if so den move on with ur heads up high. If not, then hold on a bit.

Me that I don't even call my parents up to 3 times a week, it's one girl that I'll be calling 3 times a day. She's not ready yet.

When she's ready to tell you the real reason why she ended the relationship, she'll call you by herself...

MhizzAJ:
People don't understand that communication is key in any relationship

That's not an issue
If that's what she wants..then listen to her..maybe that's what she likes

Well I would have though you might say something like, if she so much miss him, mayB she should try and cal him once each day to ask hows he is doing.The vast majority of young girls these days think the whole onus is on teh man, NO man has enough time to play girls dont.When they get to 38 it would seem as if the work in MTN,that age girls call like no 2morrow, them go call your fone lose battery

agbonkamen:
Ordinary call 3x in a day is causing this breakup......if she does not pick your calls now you starting complaining now she want your calls Wahala.....Nigerian guys are bad lovers only knows open and close......(3mins)

Ehyah.....u have been dealing with 3mins dude, Pele, but stop generalising, thanks

Well, next tym go get CUG lines, one for you and d other for her. Thank me later
But dis girl no serious sha, its a minor excuse for a breakup. she she really loves u, she will kip calling u for a pperiod b4 she will complain and ask u to improve in ur communication skill. wish u d best in ur next relationship sha

stupidity:
I and my bae talk 5 to 10 times daily. That's what has kept us together all the years. She on WhatsApp but we don't chat. If I send "hey babes", next thing she'll send is "call me"

really?

cristianisraeli:



you better go and make money and she would be the one calling you

you are still a copper wire with no shi shi

go and hustle boy

Best advice, OP chey you hear am, Hustle hard earn Money, nah dem go dey ring you morning afternoon Evening and night
Thank us later!

Na small pikin dey worry her.

stupidity:
I and my bae talk 5 to 10 times daily. That's what has kept us together all the years. She on WhatsApp but we don't chat. If I send "hey babes", next thing she'll send is "call me"

Una nor get daily JOB?

It's not rocket science. She wants you to call three times in a day...if you're not too busy to have a meal 3 times a day, bloody call her 3 times. It's a relationship, making the other person happy isn't always going to be convenient.

You think we all don't make the effort to indulge in certain interests of our partners that we really do not care about? Compared to the most of us, you've got it easy. You don't want to know the things I do for mine.

3times a day? that's way too much. i once broke up with a guy because he calls too much. that's stalking.
my current bf doesn't call like that.. like 2 days no call but we do chat... If he trys kinda stalking me... i will ignore his calls... He know me wella.

rosy1992:
Although she has a point, she is taking it too far . But I think once a day is preferable, it shows that you care about her and always have her in your heart.

Gbam...

why are you not calling her three time a day.