I HAD a one-night stand with my cousin at my farewell party before going to work abroad, now she tells me she is pregnant and keeping the baby. I am 26. I got the chance to spend two years abroad with the engineering company I work for and I really enjoy living and working in Dubai.’ Every three months I come home to the UK for a week and this was my first time back. I had a great time. On the last night my family threw a party. We all had a lot to drink and the party went on until the early hours. Some of my mates crashed out in the lounge and some in the spare bedroom. My cousin was staying over and I had given her my room but I decided to get some kip on my bed too (it’s a double) as I wanted a good night’s sleep before my flight the next day. She went to the bathroom to UnCloth and came back completely naked and climbed in next to me. I felt really awkward but she soon changed the mood and started asking me if I was OK. She said she was going to miss me very much, then leaned over and kissed me on the lips. One thing led to another and we had sex. It was good even though we were both drunk. I left early in the morning before she woke up because I felt awkward about what happened. I did think about her in the following days but now I have received this email I am totally shocked. She says she has just done a pregnancy test and it is positive and she is happy about it. She is only 19, doesn’t have a proper job yet and still lives at home. How on earth I am going to explain this to family and friends? I feel like such an idiot.

Dude!!! This is huge...
You gotta find a way to say shii to your folks and hers.
Damn! The nerve you two had..

Mehnnn. This one is deep ooo.

Anyways the deed has been done. You have no other choice than to face ur family.


Consequences of too much alcohol.

na waoh..this is the pure definition of messed up. and she is even happy.

Damn Bro your shiiit is bigger than my soakaway


Council of elders food don done

What kind of mistake is this?

I'd rather get drunk and get down with a fellow girl than with a guy who's family!

Lawd ve mercy. u nack ur cousin sotae u giv am belle. attrocities is the order the day what is happening.

PrimadonnaO:
What kind of mistake is this?

I'd rather get drunk and get down with a fellow girl than with a guy who's family!

I support you sis. How do people get turned on sef? Sleeping with a blood relative...It's a very awkward situation. WTF!

Whichever way it goes. Your immediate family and her family will unanimously agree on an abortion. Especially if in the family, it's a taboo to have sexx within una selves?
And be ready to receive lots of insults from your family.

Our insults sef cannot be compared to what your ears will ear in the family meeting.
And your mumu cousin, she sef go hear am.
Next time, she sees you, she go dey run.
In fact Una two go dey run from each other. She should be ready to have it aborted. Cos that's a product of incest.

Carry ur cross bros. In every action, there must be reaction. The pregnancy here is the reaction.

u shud hv asked 4 advice even b4 u slept wt her, it wud hv bin easier 4 us bt at dis point, d deed is done, she shud keep d child so dat in future, anytime u luk at hm, both of u wl remember ur stupidity

how do people find their cousins attractive

how can people find their cousins attractive, especially if he or she is way younger than you.

Let her have the baby but do a DNA test and be very sure but your cousin, it is some kind of different, discuss with your father who would understand, then watch his reaction

Evaberry:
how do people find their cousins attractive

Don't judge him, he is already crucified, advise is all he wants. Your statements are lethal.

alexanderkings:
I HAD a one-night stand with my cousin at
my farewell party before going to work
abroad, now she tells me she is pregnant
and keeping the baby. I am 26. I got the
chance to spend two years abroad with the
engineering company I work for and I
really enjoy living and working in Dubai.’
Every three months I come home to the UK
for a week and this was my first time back.
I had a great time.
On the last night my family threw a party.
We all had a lot to drink and the party went
on until the early hours. Some of my mates
crashed out in the lounge and some in the
spare bedroom.
My cousin was staying over and I had given
her my room but I decided to get some kip
on my bed too (it’s a double) as I wanted a
good night’s sleep before my flight the next
day.
She went to the bathroom to UnCloth and
came back completely naked and climbed in
next to me. I felt really awkward but she
soon changed the mood and started asking
me if I was OK.
She said she was going to miss me very
much, then leaned over and kissed me on
the lips. One thing led to another and we
had sex. It was good even though we were
both drunk.
I left early in the morning before she woke
up because I felt awkward about what
happened. I did think about her in the
following days but now I have received this
email I am totally shocked.
She says she has just done a pregnancy test
and it is positive and she is happy about it.
She is only 19, doesn’t have a proper job
yet and still lives at home.
How on earth I am going to explain this to
family and friends?
I feel like such an idiot.

Discuss with your father, watch him react.

I am short of words. *would she ever introduce you as the father of the child *you can't marry her *what would your family and friends say?
truly speaking i don't know what to tell you

So na you give Olaide Belle?

Let her understand the gravity of this. ..persuade her to abort it... Speak to her friend who ll understand.... Make her know it's a shameful thing on d family part.... Abortion is the real thing.... It's just funny how people ll attack me here cuz I suggest abortion..... Many ll do same if they are in your shoes buh they won't give it as an advice in public space..... They are self righteous hypocrite.....they are fake n concious on how people see then on social media.... Yes I call it social media righteousness bro abortion ll save you the shame n regret you ll continue to live with

Poster above me, You are right though but will the mumu girl agree? Didn't you read where the op wrote she is happy about it? Mehn this one weak me sha

Mehn this is sad, and she has the nerve to say she is "Happy"
Una really need JESUS

worworgirl:
Poster above me, You are right though but will the mumu girl agree? Didn't you read where the op wrote she is happy about it? Mehn this one weak me sha

That's one thing.... She cud be made to change her.... Methods shd be deployed

You're 26 nd she's 19.. Your younger sis.. WTF

The way people Bleep these days is amazing . Everything is fucking fuckable not even minding the high spread of HIV. Pls examine it status also to know the full gravity of your deed. Meanwhile seek for the nearest exit from your action, either by consulting someone to know the consequences in your community and the way forward. Each community has their own approach to such act.

Ginaz:


I support you sis. How do people get turned on sef? Sleeping with a blood relative...It's a very awkward situation. WTF!

I feel sorry for them.

If you would listen, you might have been drunk which I doubt and your cousin she wasn't drunk at all cos she was happy in the email she sent to you. That baby she is carrying is a product of incest which must be terminated and you both must go for repentance.

IAMSASHY:
u shud hv asked 4 advice even b4 u slept wt her, it wud hv bin easier 4 us bt at dis point, d deed is done, she shud keep d child so dat in future, anytime u luk at hm, both of u wl remember ur stupidity

How can someone who's D-i-c-k is Hard in the moment be asking for advice? Once your dick starts working, the Brain is usually silent. Both don't usually work at same time.

Evaberry:
how can people find their cousins attractive, especially if he or she is way younger than you.

Sexy is sexy my sis. Your cousin is obviously not sexy enough thats why. When you have a Denzel as a cousin. You go know how far !

To sleep with your cousin is bad but to get her pregnant is foolishness of the highest order.. I just hope is a joke Cus am yet to understand this stupidity of yours.

Guys need to learn how to tame their Junior Cus that guy knows how to disgrace someone for no reason.

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch.

hmm his one the gal is happy, something is not right. most likely the child is for another man, and she wants to just hook u and keep collecting money knowing u wont be able to speak out because of shame

Mehn, your problem is bigger than the advice I may give you. However, everybody has a favourite uncle, talk to yours first.