Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

chloride6:
You haven't provided enough information on this issue.

See forget that guy and all the I will take care of the baby. The guy no get money. If the guy get money e no suppose dey fu.cck small pickin. Na your family go take care of the baby last last.

If your family dey okay financially, keep the baby. If not , you know what to do. No carry person come suffer abeg.

Besides once your sister don born, husband go scarce like mad. Factor that one too. 99% probability dey say the guy no go marry your sister.

Skipuru:
. I left them since 2014 now I'm going crazy. I want to poison her self.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Benignasweety:
U want to poison her cuz of pregnancy? don't be angry but you are a failure yourself and u never did love your sister...

Ogbeni d guy responsible didn't deny d pregnancy o.. I had my 1st child at #15.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Flaghouse1:


Wow !,Wow!,Wow!

I Believe you already have a PhD in the field of Abortion to give such advise ?, why not consider the implications to the 2 lives involve-mother and feotus .

Lules:

since the guy is ready to marry her,fine let her give birth to the baby and he can support her and the child while she continue schooling
I support you mother, but it doesn't always work like DAT
and for you abortion is evil, she can lose her life or damage her womb in the process, is it not better to have a child out of wedlock than to have none at all

OLAADEGBU:


Who said she's too small to bear a child? A lot of girls her age or younger are giving birth and as long as she is willing to go ahead with the pregnancy why should she be forced to abort it? Find out if it is true that she agrees with the guy who impregnated her to take responsibility of the child who knows whether that will be her only child.

Another option is to give the child up for adoption because there are many couples who are ready to adopt a child in a loving environment. And last, give the unborn child a chance, who knows what they may become in future?

I suggest you watch this film on abortion, I believe it will put it all in the right perspective.

Watch it here: www.180movie.com

edeXede:


Why dont people mind their business?
Is it your husband dick that impregnated her?
Is it your tummy thats carrying the pregnancy?
Abi is it your breast that the baby will suck?
Or na your vagina go dey feel heavy and Hot?
Or are you the one they will call baby mama?
or na your name the pikin wan bear?
Or na you them wan do CS for?
Abeg warn yourself, we Nigerians are not complaining

If I talk now, some people will be quoting me up and down

FrankGiel:

Some call it murder yet it Doesn't make it murder.. If u choose to define ur experiences based on peoples label then it will be a pity..
If the child of the mother is at risk, doctors are bound to take out the foetus.. Is that also murde??.. Pls leave judgement for God.. People are full of hypocrisy ..
So birthing a child you are unprepared for, or u dont even have financial capabilities or more Importantly u were not psychologically ready to train that child, which is worse??

chineduemmao:
oya kip telling de whole world u had 15 abortions in 12 months. Query wey nobody ask u... Biko puorom na uzo, onukwube...

EmpressT:
Op, this is my true experience. I did two abortions but the second one was hell cos through that process I have a miscarriage before terminating my pregnancy. The second one was much more painful than the first. Well, I have lots of lessons to teach my unborn kids how I spent my life and the tragedy in it when the time is right. I find it hard now to trust men. So....this is it.

nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.

jujunaty:
unatalk dem sef dey taya me. If u dey vex for am, then what of the mum and others that have been in PH with the girl? people that shes directly under their noses.. The ones that knw when she goes out and comes in. Please give thr guy a break. Oga if you wanted to abort the baby, u guys shldnt have called the boy. U wld have made the act look terrible before her eyes nd not evn pay any attention as to who the boy is or might be. Una don spoil the shw go call the boy nd him family. Wht if when una abort, the boy and him family carry dia two left legs come? Calling the boy means u people were ready to give her out? Why call someone to take responsibility of a baby ur planning to kill? Since una dn call am, let the girl give birth. The only thing is for mumsy to take good care of that baby, dnt ever let her move in with that boy, force her nd encourage her studies. When shes of age, lets say after her studies, una go come knw if she truly like the boy, then you can now hand her and the baby to the boy and his family ETHICALLY

missyadorable:


Saint! I am being professional

In the civilised world,abortion is legal and realistic
And maternal mortality is low compared to your religious country...you act all righteous but can't stay away from premarital sex,extra marital sex, even going unprotected.

My 16 year old sister/daughter will have a SAFE abortion sponsored by ME.
You can allow yours go ahead and have a baby at that age and live with the shame forever,if she is lucky to survive pregnancy and labour
Your choice!

cruchenutii:
selflessmaya I agree with you 100%. No one wants to marry a Single mother, Including me.

16 years old doesn't know Nada ! She needs guidance. Please abort the baby & Move on.

Abeg, ignore anything that cococandy says, she is Drama queen of Texas lol

Lastly, that 27 years old guy should be arrested and Detained. 16 years is a minor. These are the kind of reasons why America is a better place. He would have been charged to court by now .

Melahou:


whats is this one saying sef...

your statement just proved that you are under aged.

Skipuru:


This my 3 years without seeing them only communicating on phone.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Skipuru:



Thanks I won't do that any more . I will give her my full support.