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Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by makydebbie(f): 5:23pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:I've closed dear, but if i start to talk the thing wey dey my mind for this thread. Lol, my dear like I said it depends on what the individual's "shutting" is. If it's a lady now, and she starts giving numbers and doesn't define their friendship from the beginning, there'll be issues. And if she starts doing male besties.... |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Laveda(f): 5:25pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Papiikush: So you see women as weaklings who can't be in control of their emotions? Now tell me, why do you think a woman will be easily swayed, guys are even more prone to cheat than women. Since you want it that way, your woman should do what you do too. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 5:25pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Because I am dating one Nigerian guy, I shouldn't have any other male friend? I will give my number if I think the guy is responsible, but I will spell it out to you that I won't or can't date you. If it's a guy I see as a potential, I won't even give the number at all. I wouldn't want that "proximity". 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Papiikush: 5:29pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda: I don't see women as weakings, women are emotionally disastrous. Lol... Don't generalize, gentlemen don't cheat |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by makydebbie(f): 5:30pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:Aunty lavvy, the truth is they always have no intention, but shii happens. Especially when you friendzoned the guy against his wish. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Sammy07: 5:34pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Well as for me.. I don't see it as a big deal in ladies giving out numbers.. Who knows where help might come from.. But if both parties are too close, then it might leads to ........ Stories that touch the heart.. As for guys, hmmmmmm, it's common for guys to have easy emotions when you see a babe, who fine... It's not necessary for guys to shut down their relationship every other person in relationships.. But I'll say, don't let your emotions control you, control your emotions 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Laveda(f): 5:38pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
makydebbie: Some define the whole thing, tell the guy she's dating, but he'll keep hitting on her. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Laveda(f): 5:39pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Papiikush:Double standard! Lol. Gentlemen? The word is 'good guys' |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Laveda(f): 5:42pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Mutuwa: Lol. Okay I get it now, and for most women its the fear of the guy leaving her for another woman. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:is Shuttin Out Difficult For You To Comprehend? Which Other Kind Of Shutin Out |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:since I Wouldnt Like My Girl To Still Be Open to Other Guys while With Me, i Would Say Shut Them Out |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Blackhawk01: 5:49pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Shuttle nii There's no way I'm trying that with this fluctuating Naija guys except I'm your "Mrs". |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Mutuwa(m): 5:50pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda: Ah ha that's just part of the reality. but generally like I mentioned,humanity had lost value in friendship ,relationship,companionship and every SHIP that is supposed to take intending couples to the shores of firm togetherness and commitment There may have been trust back then , but now... even a mouse keeps more than one hole. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Shutters nih. Being in a relationship doesn't mean my social life has to suffer. I think it's only insecurity that would make your partner ask you to shut others out because you are dating. If it's marriage,it's another thing though. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Papiikush: 5:53pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda: Yes, gentlemen And off the records, any lady practicing this shìt have got tendencies of being a Hoe. 1 Like |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Laveda(f): 5:53pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
DeadRat: And make sure you stick to your words of loving her too. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Laveda(f): 5:54pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Papiikush: And the guys? What do we call them? Dogs? _Mansluts? |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:Wolves. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Laveda(f): 5:59pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: Lol. Will you also be comfortable with him not shutting his social life? And also running after new girls? |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by yomi007k(m): 6:00pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda: Yes.... |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Laveda(f): 6:00pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: You see ba? Men with double standard, he's comfortable with him doing it, but the girls who does same? They are tagged 'hoes' |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:Yes, but to a limit. And vice-versa. Okay, on second thought...partial shutting is allowed. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:I know right? The society is always against the female child. Papiikush, wehdone sir. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:i Wouldnt Be In The Relationship If I Didnt Love Her |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by lonikit: 6:10pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
darkmarky: dude u funny die. attention giving starts from the day u gav out number. don't forget that the new person will do everytin to get ur attention. he buys u dis and dat which the other guy may not be doin regularly due to the fact that u av spent much time together in the rlship. bfor u knw it the lady will be lookin for the flaws of the old guy bcus she will be considering the new guy. little tin she start nagging which may finally resolve to breakup. lobatan oo. Yoruba says: ikan Toba ni je, ma fi runmu. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:maybe There Should Be A Clause... Having Make Friends Is Okay cause I Got Alot Of Female Friends But Flirtin or Havin So Called Back Up is So Wrong. Shut Them Out |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by deafeyez: 6:22pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
darkmarky: U talk well o. But if u too leave woman like that, person go do u something o. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
I've got more female friends than male ones.........hell the odds are like 80-20 and i dont plan to stop being friends with more ladies even when i'm in a relationship if my bae cant accept that and not feel insecure then shes OHO............ it shouldnt be same for ladies though |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by makydebbie(f): 6:31pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:Then he'll take the "Friendship" tag. And wait for the right moment to strike. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
DeadRat:Okay. Cool. |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Papiikush: 6:34pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
Laveda:Brostitute |
Re: Should We Shut Every Other Person Out While In A Relationship? by Papiikush: 6:35pm On Oct 31, 2017 |
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