A friend of mine is gay and he wants to stop but he doesn't know how to..some gals have seduced him yet he doesn't get aroused...Anytime he does his gayish stuffs..at first he will feel happy then later on he will cry cuz he feels it is a sin.
Pls give advice on how to stop pls..no insults pls.

There are many gay matters experts on NL, wait, they will soon be here.......

Meanwhile, start by telling him what the Holy Book says about gayism, tell him if he doesn't repent, he's gonna rot in hell.
I hope that works!!!

They keep saying it is God that created them that way tho', so I get confused with their lifestyle and decided not to dabble into their matters, like i just did!!!

You cannot stop someone from being gay. So, please don't even try if you don't want them to commit suicide. You can get them to hate themselves and pretend for a bit, though. People have tried shaming gay people at church camp, reconditioning their brain with shock therapy and yet they return to their natures. Don't start anything with a gay man, you'll only be disappointed.

modelmike7:
There are many gay matters experts on NL, wait, they will soon be here.......

Meanwhile, start by telling him what the Holy Book says about gayism, tell him if he doesn't repent, he's gonna rot in hell.
I hope that works!!!

They keep saying it is God that created them that way tho', so I get confused with their lifestyle and decided not to dabble into their matters, like i just did!!!

He is trying to stop..honestly I feel for him..he said he has nt had sex with him but he sucked d guy dick..that it feels normal nw...that he wants to stop..a friend even arranged a prostitute for him but even as she was stack naked..he was not aroused..instead he felt disgusted.

gifttwitty12:
A friend of mine is gay and he wants to stop but he doesn't know how to..some gals have seduced him yet he doesn't get aroused...Anytime he does his gayish stuffs..at first he will feel happy then later on he will cry cuz he feels it is a sin.
Pls give advice on how to stop pls..no insults pls.

Just say ur boyfriend is a gay and you are trying very hard to stop him but all to know Avail.. Arrange better Ashi for bros like 3 thick ones i mean 3 professional Ashis lodge them for 2 days and the rest is history.....

gifttwitty12:
He is trying to stop..honestly I feel for him..he said he has nt had sex with him but he sucked d guy dick..that it feels normal nw...that he wants to stop..a friend even arranged a prostitute for him but even as she was stack naked..he was not aroused..instead he felt disgusted.

Oh no, I really feel for him. I can see he really want to stop genuinely.
I do think it is a thing of the heart.
I hope the real expert in this case will come over and try to Google on his behalf also 'How to stop being a gay', I hope that brings something positive.

NightHound:
You cannot stop someone from being gay. So, please don't even try if you don't want them to commit suicide. You can get them to hate themselves and pretend for a bit, though. People have tried shaming gay people at church camp, reconditioning their brain with shock therapy and yet they return to their natures. Don't start anything with a gay man, you'll only be disappointed.

He wants to stop badly..anytime he indulges in such acts,at first he will be happy later on he will cry cuz he feels bad..He told me everything yesterday..He tried watching porn yet he doesn't feel anything..I need suggestions on how to help him pls.

salamudeen:


Just say ur boyfriend is a gay and you are trying very hard to stop him but all to know Avail.. Arrange better Ashi for bros like 3 thick ones i mean 3 professional Ashis lodge them for 2 days and the rest is history.....

What if it is her BF?

And the olosho part is the best advice you can give?
Weldone.

salamudeen:


Just say ur boyfriend is a gay and you are trying very hard to stop him but all to know Avail.. Arrange better Ashi for bros like 3 thick ones i mean 3 professional Ashis lodge them for 2 days and the rest is history.....

He is not my bf..he is just a close friend..He confessed everything yesterday..His sister has already arranged ashi for him but he was not aroused..he felt disgusted instead...According to him..he likes responsible people.

modelmike7:


What if it is her BF?

And the olosho part is the best advice you can give?
Weldone.

Tell him oo..This is really a sensitive matter..he has tried everything but yet to no avail..only close friends n his siblings are aware.

It's a physiological issue.. .. Gay is bad so is adultery and so many things in life... But let's check it this way
IF YOU THINK THE GAY GUY NEEDS HELP... click like.

IF YOU THINK HE NEEDS TO LOVE HIS LIFE AND BE PROUD OF HIS NATURE .. . Click share.

At the end all men shall be judged according to our choices in life. Choose right!

salamudeen:


Just say ur boyfriend is a gay and you are trying very hard to stop him but all to know Avail.. Arrange better Ashi for bros like 3 thick ones i mean 3 professional Ashis lodge them for 2 days and the rest is history.....

Gay dey get girlfriend?

So you choose this Thursday to disgrace yourself thinking you've made a meaningful contribution? Or you don't know what being a gay means?


@Op jare, the solution lies in your hands. Since he likes and trust you enough to confide in you, kindly choke him with your seductive look , the gayism in him will fade

gifttwitty12:
He wants to stop badly..anytime he indulges in such acts,at first he will be happy later on he will cry cuz he feels bad..He told me everything yesterday..He tried watching porn yet he doesn't feel anything..I need suggestions on how to help him pls.

That is called 'internalized homophobia.' He is ashamed of who he is because he buys into the demonization of gay people by the Bible and general culture. But he can not invent his desires; they're supposed to be inherent. He will always struggle with himself for as long as he looks at himself through other people's eyes.

Hhahahaha Egbami oo
So upon all the cute girls wey dey na Anoda man yansh de arouse your friend
Your friend needs this to reset him brain
Comeradespade coman see oo

Florblu:



Gay dey get girlfriend?

So you choose this Thursday to disgrace yourself thinking you've made a meaningful contribution? Or you don't know what being a gay means?


@Op jare, the solution lies in your hands. Since he likes and trust you enough to confide in you, kindly choke him with your seductive look , the gayism in him will fade

Uhmmm...Me n this guy are close..he took me to a hotel room..he was like he wants to spend sometime with me..Ion know whether he was trying to check if he will feel something but that day I told him I can't go home late..he was so annoyed..I neva knew he was a gay..he told me that he has once had feelings for a girl but the girl doesn't like him so he felt bad n it hurts him till this day.

Lastking147:
Hhahahaha Egbami oo
So upon all the cute girls wey dey na Anoda man yansh de arouse your friend
Your friend needs this to reset him brain
Comeradespade coman see oo

Pls no insults..This is a sensitive matter pls...He needs help n I am trying to help pls.

gifttwitty12:
Pls no insults..This is a sensitive matter pls...He needs help n I am trying to help pls.

wetin be my own?
carry am go pastor place he need deliverance gidi gaan
or make u yourself rape am
a friend in need is a friend indeed oo

NightHound:



That is called 'internalized homophobia.' He is ashamed of who he is because he buys into the demonization of gay people by the Bible and general culture. But he can not invent his desires; they're supposed to be inherent. He will always struggle with himself for as long as he looks at himself through other people's eyes.

He goes to church..He said this gayish stuff was Nt that serious until he came to Bayelsa..he even told me he once had feelings for my ex n I laughed...He really wants to stop...He asked me whether I now see him as another person..I said no..I told him that no matter ur sexual preference..u are still a human..Only God judge..ion judge.
He wants to stop.

Lastking147:

wetin be my own?
carry am go pastor place he need deliverance gidi gaan
or make u yourself rape am
a friend in need is a friend indeed oo

He is a responsible type of guy..he said he can't sleep with someone he doesn't like.
I am not single....

U don't need to stop him.. He's gay so what? If it brings him happiness then I see no reason why he should stop . He should know that ppl would definitely hate, u are SU, They hate, U smoke, they hate, u go about fvçking they hate. Life is too short to get urself worked up over ppl's opinion.. Love your life and give 0 fvck bout what ppl think.. if u are a true friend then u should encourage him to love himself...

mhizesther:
U don't need to stop him.. He's gay so what? If it brings him happiness then I see no reason why he should stop . He should know that ppl would definitely hate, u are SU, They hate, U smoke, they hate, u go about fvçking they hate. Life is too short to get urself worked up over ppl's opinion.. Love your life and give 0 fvck bout what ppl think.. if u are a true friend then u should encourage him to love himself...

Well said.

mhizesther:
U don't need to stop him.. He's gay so what? If it brings him happiness then I see no reason why he should stop . He should know that ppl would definitely hate, u are SU, They hate, U smoke, they hate, u go about fvçking they hate. Life is too short to get urself worked up over ppl's opinion.. Love your life and give 0 fvck bout what ppl think.. if u are a true friend then u should encourage him to love himself...

He told me he wants to stop n I asked him "is it bcus the society frowns on it"..he said no.. he said he knows it is not right n he wants to stop.
I told him whoever u are...I love u..do anything that rocks ur boat..I ain't God..wu am I to judge u..He was so happy wen I told him.

Maybe someone need to flog him back to his senses that may help.

with all these beautiful women with gorgeous figures floating around, some men still have the mind to be gay.....smh I will pray for him cuz it ain't normal.

gifttwitty12:
Uhmmm...Me n this guy are close..he took me to a hotel room..he was like he wants to spend sometime with me..Ion know whether he was trying to check if he will feel something but that day I told him I can't go home late..he was so annoyed..I neva knew he was a gay..he told me that he has once had feelings for a girl but the girl doesn't like him so he felt bad n it hurts him till this day.

Maybe that's why he is seeking refuge with the same sex, rejection.
This is just the aftermath of the girls rejection, he must have really been in love with her and she just tossed him aside like a piece of rag, it hurts.

I'll advice you help him stay away and keep him mind off gayism and eventually when he falls in love along the line he'll no longer be interested in being gay.

gifttwitty12:
He is a responsible type of guy..he said he can't sleep with someone he doesn't like.
I am not single....

Ayam not understanding Ko yee mi
That one Na excuse jor
Toto Na Toto Abi Dem don dey use make up for am?
Na Only Jesus fit redeem him life just like ITunes Card

mhizesther:
U don't need to stop him.. He's gay so what? If it brings him happiness then I see no reason why he should stop . He should know that ppl would definitely hate, u are SU, They hate, U smoke, they hate, u go about fvçking they hate. Life is too short to get urself worked up over ppl's opinion.. Love your life and give 0 fvck bout what ppl think.. if u are a true friend then u should encourage him to love himself...

globalkay:
It's a physiological issue.. .. Gay is bad so is adultery and so many things in life... But let's check it this way
IF YOU THINK THE GAY GUY NEEDS HELP... click like.

IF YOU THINK HE NEEDS TO LOVE HIS LIFE AND BE PROUD OF HIS NATURE .. . Click share.

At the end all men shall be judged according to our choices in life. Choose right!

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gifttwitty12:
He told me he wants to stop n I asked him "is it bcus the society frowns on it"..he said no.. he said he knows it is not right n he wants to stop.
I told him whoever u are...I love u..do anything that rocks ur boat..I ain't God..wu am I to judge u..He was so happy wen I told him.

Still don't know why it's wrong.. maybe religion issued

Lastking147:

Hey sweetie, what's wrong na

globalkay:
It's a physiological issue.. .. Gay is bad so is adultery and so many things in life... But let's check it this way
IF YOU THINK THE GAY GUY NEEDS HELP... click like.

IF YOU THINK HE NEEDS TO LOVE HIS LIFE AND BE PROUD OF HIS NATURE .. . Click share.

At the end all men shall be judged according to our choices in life. Choose right!

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Florblu:



Gay dey get girlfriend?

So you choose this Thursday to disgrace yourself thinking you've made a meaningful contribution? Or you don't know what being a gay means?


@Op jare, the solution lies in your hands. Since he likes and trust you enough to confide in you, kindly choke him with your seductive look , the gayism in him will fade

ehn ehn dem no dey get, mumu

wizzyrich:
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