A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.

Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can't cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That's why you can't always trust their judgment. When a joke is cracked,most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don't like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won't laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it's because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.

Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.

R.M - Professor of Psychology
Ohio State University - USA
Strickly for men pls

I have not heard of a cheating wife getting pregnant for her lover buy I have heard of cheating men impregnating girls upandan..


Now tell me, who is more heartless?

THEY ARE BOTH DEADLY, NO TWO WORDS ABOUT THAT.

dingbang:
I have not heard of a cheating wife getting pregnant for her lover buy I have heard of cheating men impregnating girls upandan..


Now tell me, who is more heartless?

Did you type this at free will or some lady put a gun on your skull to type it?

I shared this on another media with sincere4u and below were his responses:


[11/4, 1:15 PM]: *FACTS*
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: I know this by practical experience and in theory.
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: That said, it therefore follows women could have sex just for the sake of financial benefits, promotion on a job or even to nail a job or contract yet love their husbands at home like never before.
They even get to hate that guy who demanded for sex just to give them that job or contract.
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: Though i don't think love is all the reason women have sex.
What about prostitutes. We can't say they love or have emotional attachment with the different men they sleep with daily.
To them it's business and what motivates them seem to me to be money, rather than love.
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: I am no way discrediting the write up but highlighting what i feel are exceptions.
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: The write up holds sway specially .where a woman cheats for the fun of sex.

Do you guys think he's right?.

dingbang:
I have not heard of a cheating wife getting pregnant for her lover buy I have heard of cheating men impregnating girls upandan..


Now tell me, who is more heartless?

What cave have you been living in?

dingbang:
I have not heard of a cheating wife getting pregnant for her lover buy I have heard of cheating men impregnating girls upandan..


Now tell me, who is more heartless?

Whaaaaaaaaat
Like seriously??

naijaboiy:

You mean you have not heard of men fathering kids that later turned out not to be their biological kids?

Lol, if that’s not heartlessness then I wonder what is.

hahahahaha. Well, its not as rampant as wives getting heartbroken due to stories that touch.

naijaboiy:

Are you for real? Do you expect the woman involved to announce to her husband that the son he is training and so dearly love is not his?

I don’t think so..

ok.. So that means husbands cheating is lesser evil that wives cheating right?

dingbang:
I have not heard of a cheating wife getting pregnant for her lover buy I have heard of cheating men impregnating girls upandan..


Now tell me, who is more heartless?

actually cheating wives do get pregnant for their lovers and they lie to their husband that they are responsible.it happens all the time

thornapple:


Whaaaaaaaaat
Like seriously??

is it not in this same nl we read a story about one kenyan husband who found out he wasnt the biological father of the three children his wife had for him

lefulefu:
is it not in this same nl we read a story about one kenyan husband who found out he wasnt the biological father of the three children his wife had for him

Abi ooo
Lefulefu where have you been?.
Where twerkers carry you go hide?.

thornapple:


Abi ooo
Lefulefu where have you been?.
Where twerkers carry you go hide?.

i wont talk...u dey find wetin dey my mouth

Wives cheat and still love dere husbands.i met many not looking for emotional attachment but fun. Still love sere husbands....
Married n can cheat with 10ladies same time but married ladies cheat with 1at a time.

Men are deadly web it comes to cheating ladies only hide..

One of my lady friend married Bleep me more than single ladies so and she loves her husband. U need to c her pic with husband on facebook....

Did you sit down to write all this?

naijaboiy:

They are both great evils but one is deadlier.

If a man cheats outside and impregnates the girl, he would still be the one with th responsibility of catering for that child. Meanwhile his wife can also cheat outside and come back with a pregnancy claiming it to be for her husband.

That man will have the responsibility of taking care of a child that is not his own. Imagine the trauma he would go through when he discovers the hidden truth.

So much for double standard. Which one is "They"re both great evils but one is deadlier?". What's evil, is evil.

Op, there're still married women who cheat and still love their husbands going by our newest definition of love 'cause I don't believe anyone who cheats on his/her spouse loves them.

lefulefu:

i wont talk...u dey find wetin dey my mouth

Confess joor.

lefulefu:
i wont talk...u dey find wetin dey my mouth

Wait ooo u wan con dey shakara for us abi

both are still cheaters....both actions lead to marriage dissolution Period.

thornapple:
I shared this on another media with sincere4u and below were his responses:


[11/4, 1:15 PM]: *FACTS*
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: I know this by practical experience and in theory.
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: That said, it therefore follows women could have sex just for the sake of financial benefits, promotion on a job or even to nail a job or contract yet love their husbands at home like never before.
They even get to hate that guy who demanded for sex just to give them that job or contract.
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: Though i don't think love is all the reason women have sex.
What about prostitutes. We can't say they love or have emotional attachment with the different men they sleep with daily.
To them it's business and what motivates them seem to me to be money, rather than love.
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: I am no way discrediting the write up but highlighting what i feel are exceptions.
[11/4, 1:15 PM]: The write up holds sway specially .where a woman cheats for the fun of sex.

Do you guys think he's right?.

You will notice that these women who have sex for "benefits" TRY VERY HARD to keep it professional e.g "No kissing" etc because kissing is actually more intimate than fukcing.

Because they know when they get intimate with the person, wahala don start be dat. Those women understand themselves well.

A man can kiss/smooch/slow-kiss/french-kiss all he wants, if she's just a lay, she's just a lay

ebonflexy:


You will notice that these women who have sex for "benefits" TRY VERY HARD to keep it professional e.g "No kissing" etc because kissing is actually more intimate than fukcing.

Because they know when they get intimate with the person, wahala don start be dat. Those women understand themselves well.

A man can kiss/smooch/slow-kiss/french-kiss all he wants, if she's just a lay, she's just a lay

Noted.
I think you both are of same opinion.
Good one.

Martin0:


Wait ooo u wan con dey shakara for us abi

No mind am.
Lol

Benita27:
Op, there're still married women who cheat and still love their husbands going by our newest definition of love 'cause I don't believe anyone who cheats on his/her spouse loves them.

Benita has spoken.

thornapple:
No mind am. Lol

Abi,I jus tire for diz my handsome fyn friend ooo

Martin0:


Abi,I jus tire for diz my handsome fyn friend ooo

Lol
I'm not sure if he's handsome

thornapple:
Lol I'm not sure if he's handsome

Nor go talk like that ooo,dat guy na mr handsome