creating this thread for 1st time mothers ,expectant mothers,potential mothers and mothers who are still findin parenting a little difficult. Well no one knows it best but every tip i willbe dropping I have tried and i hope it will work out fine for you. Please dont mind to ask questions and drop your views and observations as you try these tips.I will drop one tip per day. I hope you learn one or two things.

#1. Find a mutual ground for you and your child. No matter how busy or classy you are, find a mutual ground for you and your baby, it could be a game, a movie, a story,or a hobby... Make sure its something that interest bothof would. Dont pretend to like it let it be something you love to do.....why?
- It increase your child's game time makin her feel more loved
- it relieves your stress by giving youa break
-it help your child pick your interest.So......try this and be a happy mum

pracise 5 of the following to be a happy mum
1. try 2 be home early and not chose a stressful work dat seperates u from dem for so long
2. show good example by not gossiping, backbiting, insulting your husband in front of your children , fighting etc
3. teach your children using the best manual (THE BIBLE) AND correct dem in love wen they err
4. satisfy your husband and dont neglect him because he is also ur baby, give him attention cos when he is pissed off, the house can be tense
5. remember to take care of yourself because most of your family members depend on you, u may not have the pampering husband or the selfless child

#2. no matter your child's age even as young as a new born always try to have 2-3 minutesof heart- to-heart talk with him/her individually.that is if you have 3 children find different time for each person, tell them about your work, your childhood, your hobby, everything......Why?....
- it help you build a stronger relationship bridge between you and her
- it makes them feel important
- it helps them develop their communication skills
-it gives them an impression that you trust them
-Jackpot....,, it relieves your heavy and burden heart as well as helps you have a heartily laugh especially when you hear their response and questions.Be a happy mum.