liljboy:
6. They avoid sitting on the bed

Many ladies avoid sitting on the bed when they visit men as they feel they are falling into a trap. The bed makes them more cautious and to avoid being tempted or lured into doing something they do not want to do at that moment, they would rather sit on the chair.

liljboy:
7. They would have a friend with them

Ladies do not like visiting men for the first time alone. They would rather go with one or two friends that would help them break the tension that could be around the place.

Having one or two other girls in the room apart from the main girl visiting would spoil the show for the men. Ladies can be sure nothing would happen then.

ubunja:
the question is Why would a gal visit a guy she doesnt wana sleep with?? to chow his food then escape? to watch TV when a gal asks to visit i tell her if nothing wont happen then she must not bother coming!. is she an Angel who must come to bless my room?i have enough guy friends that visit and nothing happens. all gals know my room is a slaughter house.when they agree to visit they know they are on the menu.
i dont have time to waste on reading signs and her mind.

hardbody:


This is not a problem, the next visit, your friend will come alone. You'd be fighting from outside.