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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by chopcy(m): 11:52pm On Nov 13, 2017
theapeman:
you are jus beating around the Bush undecided

is that how there teach you how to write an article?


you keep writing jargons with no solution to the jargons you wrote undecided


what to do if your man is a sex addict! then you keep telling us story of a woman bla bla bla bla!

education is very vital!
i tell you my broda (this one weak me)
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by boborosky(m): 11:52pm On Nov 13, 2017
You want my advice.......
OK......

buy him a s*x doll. Samantha is available.....just go to alibaba.com.

she can be your co-wife. Fortunately she'll never be jealous of you nor plan to kill your children.

good luck.
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by theapeman: 11:54pm On Nov 13, 2017
foliman:



Then why don't you get the details and re-frame it for the op? Learn how to make others happy no matter what!

May God dash you sense!
if you make others happy then who will make you happy! undecided

rather learn how to make yourself happy and forget about what people say about you! you and only you are responsible for yourself.



amen!

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by Adaumunocha(f): 11:54pm On Nov 13, 2017
Buy him Artificial Puci so he can Knock himself out. That's love.
I don't think we have shrinks that see to such in this country.
I wonder what all the psychology graduates are doing? All of them rushing for a white collar job instead of them to setup their centre and put their knowledge of the human mind to use.

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by thunderbabs: 11:54pm On Nov 13, 2017
nurey:
Answer: satisfy your spouse at all times

How: pay attention to details and know your spouse more

Op are you trying to let us know you are a sex addict, please always use rubber AIDS is real and monkey pox too grin

At all times can never happen.....na only when marriage fresh dt tin dey happen. Once ur wife don drop 1, 2, 3 , she gonn b denyin u most tyms...reality.....complaints of tiredness, not in d mood etc.....dtz reality and smone has to probably cheat, u know undecided

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by thunderbabs: 11:55pm On Nov 13, 2017
boborosky:
You want my advice.......
OK......

buy him a s*x doll. Samantha is available.....just go to alibaba.com.

she can be your co-wife. Fortunately she'll never be jealous of you nor plan to kill your children.

good luck.

Samantha kor Angelina ni.....u dz bobrisky's family undecided

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by blessedweapon(m): 11:56pm On Nov 13, 2017
Please listen to
Song: Walk on water
Artiste:Eminem ft Beyonce
smiley smiley cool cool

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by TIDDOLL(m): 11:59pm On Nov 13, 2017
Well, there's always an option called "Castration" undecided
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by wiloy2k8(m): 12:00am On Nov 14, 2017
I am one
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by Nobody: 12:00am On Nov 14, 2017
majekdom2:
Sex addicts are usually unproductive and jobless. They can't make use of their time judiciously. If you partner is one, leave as early as you can!
@ Bolded: not always the case. Weinstein is a movie producer and former executive. He was neither unproductive nor jobless. It was his occupation that gave him the chance to meet lots of women. Being jobless and idle can cause sex addiction but that's not always the case b/c often the men committing these crimes by way of their sex addiction are actually well-to-do.

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by wiloy2k8(m): 12:02am On Nov 14, 2017
theapeman:
you are jus beating around the Bush undecided

is that how there teach you how to write an article?


you keep writing jargons with no solution to the jargons you wrote undecided


what to do if your man is a sex addict! then you keep telling us story of a woman bla bla bla bla!

education is very vital!

No joy
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by Nobody: 12:09am On Nov 14, 2017
Gluhbirne:
The title should be "What To Do If Your Man Is A Rapist", not a sex addict, otherwise Weinstein shouldn't have been used as an example b/c he's more than a sex addict and his wife left him b/c of what he did to other women, not just b/c of his sex addiction.
Serial rappe points to sexual addiction
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by foliman(m): 12:18am On Nov 14, 2017
theapeman:
if you make others happy then who will make you happy! undecided

rather learn how to make yourself happy and forget about what people say about you! you and only you are responsible for yourself.



amen!



I hope you also know that you can't exist without others?... what about Newton's second law of motion?... do you know it actually have effect in nature of man too? We are different piece that compliments others... If people around are not happy and you have all it takes to make them happy... my brother do, not even for them but for yourself, it shows that you are socially mature!

My piece
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by theapeman: 12:30am On Nov 14, 2017
foliman:




I hope you also know that you can't exist without others?... what about Newton's second law of motion?... do you know it actually have effect in nature of man too? We are different piece that compliments others... If people around are not happy and you have all it takes to make them happy... my brother do, not even for them but for yourself, it shows that you are socially mature!

My piece
go compliment a mad man and see if Newton's second law of motion will take place undecided


this ideology has many flaws! the same people you try to make happy will be the very people who will turn there back on you! it has happened in so many history and still repeating itself gain!

I know you knew uncountable example of what I'm talking about.

take a look at the recent kidnapping of those foreign humanitarian who keep the community with health care centre and so on!

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by richard870(m): 12:36am On Nov 14, 2017
NgcoboP:
There's a growing list of sexual assault allegations. Harvey Weinstein, 65, has been fired from his production company and his wife has left him. So reports that he is about to undergo therapy for sex addiction are unsurprising.

His wife Georgina Chapman, 41, was initially thought to be standing by him. But then the Marchesa designer described his behaviour as "unforgivable" and said her "heart breaks for all women who suffered pain".

So just what constitutes a "sex addiction" and what effect can it have on a spouse?

Shock, isolation and disbelief are the first things a woman feels when she finds out her partner has a sex addiction.

One of the first questions women ask is: Can sex addiction be real, or is it an excuse for infidelity, porn and bad behaviour?

That's understandable. Whatever drives a partner's behaviour, the result will be betrayal. Adultery is adultery.

But sex addiction is a real condition. And the longer it goes untreated, the more extreme behaviour the addict has to explore to achieve the same level of dopamine release.

Partners of sex addicts often feel intense shame. They ask if the addiction is somehow their fault: Were they loving, attractive, sexy enough? They fear they will be judged. That they "should" have known and stopped it. Unlike drugs, alcohol or gambling, there are often no outward signs. Couples can have been together for years without any hint of a problem.

Some addicts lose interest in marital sex entirely. Women often discover their seemingly celibate partners are addicts.

One of the most important things a woman can do is meet with others in the same situation.

Self-care, physical and emotional, is also vital. Weinstein's wife has already announced she is leaving him, but a therapist would suggest no further decision-making for six months to allow recovery from the sheer shock.

Only when a woman is feeling safe and secure - and her other half is in recovery - can she decide whether she wants to go on with the relationship.

https://www.timeslive.co.za/sunday-times/lifestyle/health-and-sex/2017-10-13-what-to-do-if-your-man-is-a-sex-addict/
@OP, title should have been ''what can be done when one's partner is a sex addict?''

I actually think you are referring indirectly to yourself.If that's the case, all you need do is simply make sex more enticing by spending more time on pre-intimacy. Research shows that a higher percentage of females love pre-intimacy and would give in to sex anytime provided the pre-intimacy is long enough

Try the above mentioned and watch who becomes the ''addicted one'' in weeks to come


Bye for now!
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by foliman(m): 12:37am On Nov 14, 2017
theapeman:
go compliment a mad man and see if Newton's second law of motion will take place undecided


this ideology has many flaws! the same people you try to make happy will be the very people who will turn there back on you! it has happened in so many history and still repeating itself gain!

I know you knew uncountable example of what I'm talking about.

take a look at the recent kidnapping of those foreign humanitarian who keep the community with health care centre and so on!

But do they ever stop coming? Though your point about the foreigners is actually factual... so apply modesty in all dealings.
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by teflonjake(m): 12:42am On Nov 14, 2017
OP
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by YelloweWest: 12:46am On Nov 14, 2017
Dump him and let him sort himself out.

That's just too much baggage.
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by kalufelix(m): 12:49am On Nov 14, 2017
They Haf Come Again So A Married Man Cannot Sex His Woman Peacefully Again And You Want To Dey Count Census For Am. If Man No Fire Na Dem Go Say E No Fit Satisfy Ein Woman...

The Pv$$y Is Mine And You Have To Learn To Mind Your Business Seriously

Poor Content In The Article Btw...

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by Nobody: 12:50am On Nov 14, 2017
Ishilove:

why did you remove her comment ? bcuz she simply called your name ?
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by ojlifa: 1:09am On Nov 14, 2017
Leave this American rubbish for Americans we Africans are not mad people.the women used wEinstein even more than he used them.after they rode on him to success they did the American thing distory him.I have no sorry for him because he is the chief character in promoting this same rubbish on tv.there are very few independent women.80% of women round the world bleeped there way to success then turn and start making noise.I wonder when we men would begin to get the opportunity to bleeped our way to sucess.



NgcoboP:
There's a growing list of sexual assault allegations. Harvey Weinstein, 65, has been fired from his production company and his wife has left him. So reports that he is about to undergo therapy for sex addiction are unsurprising.

His wife Georgina Chapman, 41, was initially thought to be standing by him. But then the Marchesa designer described his behaviour as "unforgivable" and said her "heart breaks for all women who suffered pain".

So just what constitutes a "sex addiction" and what effect can it have on a spouse?

Shock, isolation and disbelief are the first things a woman feels when she finds out her partner has a sex addiction.

One of the first questions women ask is: Can sex addiction be real, or is it an excuse for infidelity, porn and bad behaviour?

That's understandable. Whatever drives a partner's behaviour, the result will be betrayal. Adultery is adultery.

But sex addiction is a real condition. And the longer it goes untreated, the more extreme behaviour the addict has to explore to achieve the same level of dopamine release.

Partners of sex addicts often feel intense shame. They ask if the addiction is somehow their fault: Were they loving, attractive, sexy enough? They fear they will be judged. That they "should" have known and stopped it. Unlike drugs, alcohol or gambling, there are often no outward signs. Couples can have been together for years without any hint of a problem.

Some addicts lose interest in marital sex entirely. Women often discover their seemingly celibate partners are addicts.

One of the most important things a woman can do is meet with others in the same situation.

Self-care, physical and emotional, is also vital. Weinstein's wife has already announced she is leaving him, but a therapist would suggest no further decision-making for six months to allow recovery from the sheer shock.

Only when a woman is feeling safe and secure - and her other half is in recovery - can she decide whether she wants to go on with the relationship.

https://www.timeslive.co.za/sunday-times/lifestyle/health-and-sex/2017-10-13-what-to-do-if-your-man-is-a-sex-addict/

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by MrRitchie: 1:41am On Nov 14, 2017
theapeman:
you are just beating around the Bush undecided

is that how there teach you how to write an article?


you keep writing jargons with no solution to the jargons you wrote undecided


what to do if your man is a sex addict! then you keep telling us story of a woman bla bla bla bla!

education is very vital!

I actually opened the thread to know what the solution is since the title is 'what to do' but I ended up reading a story of another person throughout without any answer to the title and sadly, it ended up at front Page, the mod that moved it to FP needs to go learn work all over again.

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by cococandy(f): 1:41am On Nov 14, 2017
Do you even know what sex addition is?
It’s not an excuse for philandering.
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by cococandy(f): 1:49am On Nov 14, 2017
Of course.

A man in power insists on sexual favors before qualified candidates are cast for a role, given a job or any other example from the many instances where powerful men take advantage of those beneath them. But wait for it.... these men are the victims.

If these women weren’t throtting about looking to make a career instead of staying home, the men wouldn’t have to ask them for sex in order to give them positions they are qualified for. I can’t believe I did not see how this wasn’t the abusers’ fault. Silly me


ojlifa:
Leave this American rubbish for Americans we Africans are not mad people.the women used wEinstein even more than he used them.after they rode on him to success they did the American thing distory him.I have no sorry for him because he is the chief character in promoting this same rubbish on tv.there are very few independent women.80% of women round the world bleeped there way to success then turn and start making noise.I wonder when we men would begin to get the opportunity to bleeped our way to sucess.



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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by arodavoo(m): 2:08am On Nov 14, 2017
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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by muller101(m): 2:22am On Nov 14, 2017
No sex. Problem. Little sex. Wahala
Too much sex. Catastrophe
Kilode

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by 9jaDoc(f): 2:25am On Nov 14, 2017
I know. Good question. You can't satisfy him unless u wan die, and u can't shoot him. What do u do indeed.
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by talk2percy(m): 2:33am On Nov 14, 2017
Give it to him 3x a day...simple
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by smallsmall: 2:40am On Nov 14, 2017
Gluhbirne:
The title should be "What To Do If Your Man Is A Rapist", not a sex addict, otherwise Weinstein shouldn't have been used as an example b/c he's more than a sex addict and his wife left him b/c of what he did to other women, not just b/c of his sex addiction.

Ofcourse, we know women are opportunist.
Let her pretend that she did not know or she believed he was really a dangerous person and she only found out today. undecided undecided undecided

All these rubbish on the airwaves of recent, just goes to show how desperate women are becoming, in their effort to emasculate successful men.
You never hear them accuse a poor man or one unknown entity.

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by Caseless: 2:45am On Nov 14, 2017
Ishilove:

grin move am to FP.
Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by smallsmall: 2:45am On Nov 14, 2017
ojlifa:
Leave this American rubbish for Americans we Africans are not mad people.the women used wEinstein even more than he used them.after they rode on him to success they did the American thing distory him.I have no sorry for him because he is the chief character in promoting this same rubbish on tv.there are very few independent women.80% of women round the world bleeped there way to success then turn and start making noise.I wonder when we men would begin to get the opportunity to bleeped our way to sucess.




I tell you, women are so bitter nowadays and so cunning they fashion ut ways to take advantage of successful men while pretending they are victims.
When you have sex with a man, in exchange for some favours, only to come out ten years after, shouting sexual assault?
Even a fish-brain should know the difference between that and rape!


If it was rape, you would say say it out at the slightest opportunity but l guess the "accruable benefits" are just too much to forgo at that time.

****Just watch as the Nairaland bitter-bitch gang would start swinging on me**** grin grin

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Re: What To Do If Your Man Is A Sex Addict by computerglobal(m): 3:03am On Nov 14, 2017
TimeMod1:
A female sex addict is far worse than the male counterpart. Until she reaches menopause, her hormones become increasingly more raging & troubling. Worse still, she lets it out at the instance of a vibration, even as little as the vibration of a car.

Lol

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