akinolasam:

Whatever name you may want to call me, you may be justified.

I got involved in an extra affair and the truth is that i feel guilty every time I remember my action.

Must i tell my spouse what I have done? Howdo I save myself from all the consequences that may follow my confession?

Pls, advice me.

debosky:

You need to decide if she can find out or not. . . . personally if it was a one night stand or with a woman of the night, I'd consider not telling her.

If on the other hand, there is a possibility of her finding out, it will hurt if she doesn't hear it from you.

You must first of all clean up your act and be ready for her to hate you for a while, or even risk her leaving before you tell her.

akinolasam:

Whatever name you may want to call me, you may be justified.

I got involved in an extra affair and the truth is that i feel guilty every time I remember my action.

Must i tell my spouse what I have done? Howdo I save myself from all the consequences that may follow my confession?

Pls, advice me.

akinolasam:

the truth is that i feel guilty every time I remember my action.

debosky:

^^

I have assumed. . . . it could be a woman.

For a woman it could be even more costly. . . consider the chances of finding out first before spilling your guts.

TOPE2000!:

Rules gotta change for the women, doesnt it?
very sexist

TOPE2000!:

Rules gotta change for the women, doesnt it?
very sexist

debosky:

Nothing sexist I'm afraid - if they are white or foreigners, then no issues. But if they are Nigerian, the odds are unfortunately stacked against the woman if she commits the infidelity.

TOPE2000!:

i know but . . . . .but gotta try so bite me

debosky:

Where? [size=5pt]**Don't tempt me oh**[/size]

stillwater:

If he's a naija man, don't come clean. Whether you tell him yourself or he finds out himself, he will still pursue you out of his house.

~Sauron~:

How grave an offence is ADULTERY?

violent:

Sometimes its just good to let sleeping dogs lie.

Deep Soul:


This your name dey make person fear

debosky:

^^

I have assumed. . . . it could be a woman.

For a woman it could be even more costly. . . consider the chances of finding out first before spilling your guts.

akinolasam:

Whatever name you may want to call me, you may be justified.

I got involved in an extra affair and the truth is that i feel guilty every time I remember my action.

Must i tell my spouse what I have done? Howdo I save myself from all the consequences that may follow my confession?

Pls, advice me.

sulad82i:

1. Stop the droppings 1st (thats if u cant handle it)
2. Face your wife, apologize to her before you even let her know what u did
3. Stay a lil far away though, LOL

jumman:

Will advice u not to tell your spouse, but please and please never let it happen again.