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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by oyoofong(m): 12:41pm On Nov 17, 2017
Before you go anywhere where,bring your daughter to his house and pretend to go to the shop.Come back and peep through the window and be convinced to tell your amebo friend about him playing kerewa with your daughter
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Rozaytee: 12:44pm On Nov 17, 2017
ur are still planning to confront.... u better report dat stupid pervert to d police fast

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by adaxxy: 12:45pm On Nov 17, 2017
Nbote:
WTF!! Is ur friend still single or what?
him been single is not enough reason for him to rape his daughter..
What happens to him patronising the escorts and why his daughter.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Rozaytee: 12:47pm On Nov 17, 2017



What about the stigma if people around finds out?
wat stupid stigma... if u keep quiet dat little girl will suffer everlasting emotional trauma...

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by mustaphasaidu: 12:54pm On Nov 17, 2017
This 1 just weak me.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by donpeluchi(m): 12:58pm On Nov 17, 2017
Report to the police and lets hope they can take it from there.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by deadie(m): 12:59pm On Nov 17, 2017
NOT reporting this matter to the authorities amounts to abetting a crime. I find it difficult to digest that you still referred to/still consider this individual as a "friend".

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by seuncyrus(m): 1:06pm On Nov 17, 2017
fpeter:


You're a wicked man. Tough on you? Are you condoning evil? If it's tough on you then how do you think the girl feels?

before you condemn the man and let your emotions run you over , try to understand what he meant by "its tough on him" okay ? Do you think witnessing a situation like that is a normal thing ?
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by PeacenLove2: 1:09pm On Nov 17, 2017
earthcrust:
Pls listen to my counsel, reporting ur friend to law enforcement authorities will only bring about selfish interest and d little girl u are trying to help will suffer in d end.govt institutions in d country are very corrupt. A similar case happened in my area, and d matter was reported to d police and d police collected 250000 from d little girls Uncle to kill d matter, when d school authority where she attends heard what d police did the went and reported d matter to welfare and d welfare ppl contacted human rights lawyers association and they in turn brought in d state media before we knew it d matter was life with the girls face on a program in NTA. At this time d little girl had been taken from d police to welfare custody and was provided with little or no care.. To shorten d story . d girls uncle. Was charged to court and sent to prison, his company sacked him , his with with other children became helpless
While in bin awaiting trial a chief judge came to d prison and freed prisoners including this man because is was a civil case. The abused girl is still in d welfare till date. Case is still in court . d court is now after d man's wife who is also culprit. .I advice that u should help your friend by looking for a safe place for d little girl to stay. Away from d father. And make sure he apologizes to d daughter and try to counsel d girl to cover d Father's unclothedness NCOs no one is perfect.

You are incredibly insane. It's just so incredible.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Belafonte(m): 1:37pm On Nov 17, 2017
YelloweWest:

U don't need any evidence. What evidence can be provided? U think judges are stupid?
The girls testimony corroborated with those who she confessed to and the op as an eye witness is more than enough.

Maybe I think judges are stupid. Maybe I have seen what should be open-and-shut cases receive incredibly stupendous verdicts. You never know. But this is Nigeria where shit can turn around against the person in the right in the twinkle of an eye.

If you have ever been involved with the law in this country you'll know to bring your 100% when dealing with them. But what do I know, not only judges can be stupid.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by dayleke: 1:40pm On Nov 17, 2017
And after everything being said and done, the OP deactivated his account.
Whether the story is true or not, we shall never find out now.
Hypothetically speaking, he saw something outta the ordinary and was really shaken up, came here to seek for advice and what did he get?
The only victim here is the girl....
So so sad...

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Belafonte(m): 1:48pm On Nov 17, 2017
dayleke:
And after everything being said and done, the OP deactivated his account.
Whether the story is true or not, we shall never find out now.
Hypothetically speaking, he saw something outta the ordinary and was really shaken up, came here to seek for advice and what did he get?
The only victim here is the girl....
So so sad...

People, especially women like to act all outraged when stuff like this comes up. You will shake your head in disbelief about what goes on in this country when you hear stories both of the crime in question and the way the law, or what passes for the law, handles it.

After all the insults back and forth, nobody here can categorically tell if this little girl will get help or not. I guess if we want to get to the root of the matter we could employ some high level tracing of OP's IP, and that still won't guarantee anything positive. They think the man wants to go to jail. Lol. He will fight to save his hide. Any man vicious enough to diddle his daughter should be handled like the snake he is. Oh, well. Good luck to the girl wherever she is. She'll be needing boatloads of it.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by BumbleBee2ice(f): 1:48pm On Nov 17, 2017




We will confront him today
Oga pls do asap, this not an issue that should be treated with kid glove @ all angry
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by dayleke: 1:50pm On Nov 17, 2017
Belafonte:


People, especially women like to act all outraged when stuff like this comes up. You will shake your head in disbelief about what goes on in this country when you hear stories both of the crime in question and the way the law, or what passes for the law, handles it.

After all the insults back and forth, nobody here can categorically tell if this little girl will get help or not. I guess if we want to get to the root of the matter we could employ some high level tracing of OP's IP, and that still won't guarantee anything positive. They think the man wants to go to jail. Lol. He will fight to save his hide. Any man vicious enough to diddle his daughter should be handled like the snake he is. Oh, well. Good luck to the girl wherever she is. She'll be needing boatloads of it.

Bro, you said it well.
Seems you are versed in this kinda situations, are you Law Enforcement ?
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Belafonte(m): 1:51pm On Nov 17, 2017
PeacenLove2:


You are incredibly insane. It's just so incredible.

Why is he insane? He may be ignorant, he may be distrustful of the judiciary and reluctant to want to deal with it. But does that make him insane? Anybody can fling insults on the internet, that's no proof of sanity, intelligence or knowledge. What you should have done, which is even more productive, is take the anecdote of the person you insulted and let them see how the situation they witnessed can be avoided. Now that you've insulted them has the girl been saved?
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Belafonte(m): 1:55pm On Nov 17, 2017
dayleke:


Bro, you said it well.
Seems you are versed in this kinda situations, are you Law Enforcement ?

No, I'm not law enforcement but I've been around enough of them to that they know how to manipulate the judicial process to extract almost whatever outcome they desire.

With my experiences with them I'm uncomfortable around them. Their only allegiance is avarice and greed. Underestimate them at your own peril.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by dayleke: 1:59pm On Nov 17, 2017
Belafonte:


No, I'm not law enforcement but I've been around enough of them to that they know how to manipulate the judicial process to extract almost whatever outcome they desire.

With my experiences with them I'm uncomfortable around them. Their only allegiance is avarice and greed. Underestimate them at your own peril.

Chai!!!!
Which way Naija?
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by dayleke: 2:02pm On Nov 17, 2017
Belafonte:


No, I'm not law enforcement but I've been around enough of them to that they know how to manipulate the judicial process to extract almost whatever outcome they desire.

With my experiences with them I'm uncomfortable around them. Their only allegiance is avarice and greed. Underestimate them at your own peril.

Bro, is it possible to write one of your experiences here maybe it's gonna save somebody's life or something ?
Of course with name changes and everything. A real life experience ?
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by seuncyrus(m): 2:05pm On Nov 17, 2017
So the OP deactivated , I read the whole thread from beginning to the end. Too much emotions on this thread (I'm sure everyone understands why).

A man witnessed his friend having sex with his own daughter , I don't even think there's anything more abominable than this , the mere thought of it gives me the creeps ...so many people said he should have recorded a video, some said he should have called on the neighbours ,others said he should have screamed...all this is easier said than done in this kind of situations.


The man was obviously confused , if it were to be his daughter the reaction would have different we all know that ....maybe he was thinking about the stigma like he said , or his "friendship" with the guy or even the justice system if/when he reports ( the man could probably be out in less than a week if he's reported to the police )

So that event occurred , the OP didn't do anything about it and brought it to Nairaland for a solution ... Then came the insults, the ridiculous questions , the curses while all the man needed was HELP... I'm sure if the man had gotten someone to HELP on the first page and not just give "advises" like we usually do a girl would have been saved now .

Someone even suggested that the OP " leave the matter to God " wtf ?
( who knows maybe that's why he deactivated )

Please let's change our attitude, someone needs HELP , if you are in the position to HELP don't give ADVICE or PRAYER ...
and to the judges and judgina I pray the Lord gives you understanding

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Belafonte(m): 2:09pm On Nov 17, 2017
dayleke:


Bro, is it possible to write one of your experiences here maybe it's gonna save somebody's life or something ?
Of course with name changes and everything. A real life experience ?

What I know mostly is what I've heard them talk about and when I've seen them argue about money sharing after a 'job' is successful. My friend's girlfriend owns a bar in some coded neighbourhood in Ogun state and I've heard enough to fear police.

There was this time when a man was carjacked after which he made a report at their division. Luckiky, after a few weeks car was found in another state and it was transferred to them. Anyway, car owner didn't know and after two months went back to check on the progress of the search and saw his car gathering dust. Happy as he was, oga thought he could carry his car along since the lost item had been recovered. Never mind he hadn't been contacted before his arrival there.

Anyway, dude goes to stake his claim and begin the collection process only to be billed 200k. As he starts to protest, he's asked if he knows how his car was revovered which, of course. he doesn't. They lied that there was a shootout with robbers and that one of their colleagues is critically injured and they'll need money for hospital bills which government isn't really paying. So, they can't leave their colleagues to suffer in vain while car owner simply waltzes away with his car grin. He must to drop something.

Car owner pleads and pleads and has to negotiate to 50k, after all he wants is his car back. Takes him couple of days to come up with the money and take it there. No car. Dem done move am.

Long story short, it takes him almost a month to get that car back from them, and that is after involving a lawyer. And he still parted with 100k, as well as, lawyer fees.

So many stories they tell of lawyers and judges being intimidated by them. Sometimes, the way a case is handled at inception can Bleep up a good case.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by dayleke: 2:13pm On Nov 17, 2017
Belafonte:


What I know mostly is what I've heard them talk about and when I've seen them argue about money sharing after a 'job' is successful. My friend's girlfriend owns a bar in some coded neighbourhood in Ogun state and I've heard enough to fear police.

There was this time when a man was carjacked after which he made a report at their division. Luckiky, after a few weeks car was found in another state and it was transferred to them. Anyway, car owner didn't know and after two months went back to

?
Pls continue
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by charisexy(f): 2:14pm On Nov 17, 2017
Are you sure hes the father of that child? report him to the authority but you still need evidence because of fear she met not want to tell the whole truth while being question by the authority, what a terrible world!! shocked shocked
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by dayleke: 2:24pm On Nov 17, 2017
Belafonte:


What I know mostly is what I've heard them talk about and when I've seen them argue about money sharing after a 'job' is successful. My friend's girlfriend owns a bar in some coded neighbourhood in Ogun state and I've heard enough to fear police.

There was this time when a man was carjacked after which he made a report at their division. Luckiky, after a few weeks car was found in another state and it was transferred to them. Anyway, car owner didn't know and after two months went back to check on the progress of the search and saw his car gathering dust. Happy as he was, oga thought he could carry his car along since the lost item had been recovered. Never mind he hadn't been contacted before his arrival there.

Anyway, dude goes to stake his claim and begin the collection process only to be billed 200k. As he starts to protest, he's asked if he knows how his car was revovered which, of course. he doesn't. They lied that there was a shootout with robbers and that one of their colleagues is critically injured and they'll need money for hospital bills which government isn't really paying. So, they can't leave their colleagues to suffer in vain while car owner simply waltzes away with his car grin. He must to drop something.

Car owner pleads and pleads and has to negotiate to 50k, after all he wants is his car back. Takes him couple of days to come up with the money and take it there. No car. Dem done move am.

Long story short, it takes him almost a month to get that car back from them, and that is after involving a lawyer. And he still parted with 100k, as well as, lawyer fees.

So many stories they tell of lawyers and judges being intimidated by them. Sometimes, the way a case is handled at inception can Bleep up a good case.

Thanks bro.
Seen
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by dayleke: 2:25pm On Nov 17, 2017
seuncyrus:
So the OP deactivated , I read the whole thread from beginning to the end. Too much emotions on this thread (I'm sure everyone understands why).

A man witnessed his friend having sex with his own daughter , I don't even think there's anything more abominable than this , the mere thought of it gives me the creeps ...so many people said he should have recorded a video, some said he should have called on the neighbours ,others said he should have screamed...all this is easier said than done in this kind of situations.


The man was obviously confused , if it were to be his daughter the reaction would have different we all know that ....maybe he was thinking about the stigma like he said , or his "friendship" with the guy or even the justice system if/when he reports ( the man could probably be out in less than a week if he's reported to the police )

So that event occurred , the OP didn't do anything about it and brought it to Nairaland for a solution ... Then came the insults, the ridiculous questions , the curses while all the man needed was HELP... I'm sure if the man had gotten someone to HELP on the first page and not just give "advises" like we usually do a girl would have been saved now .

Someone even suggested that the OP " leave the matter to God " wtf ?
( who knows maybe that's why he deactivated )

Please let's change our attitude, someone needs HELP , if you are in the position to HELP don't give ADVICE or PRAYER ...
and to the judges and judgina I pray the Lord gives you understanding



Well said.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 2:28pm On Nov 17, 2017
dayleke:
And after everything being said and done, the OP deactivated his account.
Whether the story is true or not, we shall never find out now.
Hypothetically speaking, he saw something outta the ordinary and was really shaken up, came here to seek for advice and what did he get?
The only victim here is the girl....
So so sad...

IT'S A FABRICARED STORY. This can happen but no sane human being will say this "If he's locked up who will take care of her?" afterwards. He's trolling
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by SUSSYASH: 3:10pm On Nov 17, 2017
Hmmm, what more haven't i heard in this wicked world.
Young man, you will have children(a girl child) someday(that's if you don't have any yet).Anything can happen, this same horrible friend of yours can do it to anybody's child including yours.
So please i beg you in God's name expose him without thinking twice, go to any police station near you or simply call 112, you will be given further directives.You don't even need picture evidence to do so, inasmuch as the little girl can confess it to be true.
PEOPLE ARE JUST WICKED...he has destroyed the little girls psyche, he needs to be castrated.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Fhemmmy: 3:32pm On Nov 17, 2017
PeacenLove2:


Imagine if he could do this to his own child, everybody else will be like ants. This is a monster. Op, this friend of yours deserves no sympathy. He is a disgrace to humanity. Please alert the appropriate agencies before you confront him. Desperate people will do just about anything and let her mother be warned as well. I don't know why she would leave her daughter behind. Very disheartening.

Your friend deserves to be put out like a mad dog. Animal in human skin. My prayers are with the poor girl. This too shall pass.

I just pray and hope the OP will do the right thing, i wonder how he could even call such an animal his/her friend?

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by nairamaniac: 4:12pm On Nov 17, 2017
Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop.
father shd be arrested.
Meanwhile, I think I saw this story on uc-browser news. Did they get it from you? Or you got the news from somewhere else?

Why did u deactivate your account?

U have no escuse to do such. No matter the kind of responses u got here. The girls safety is in ur hands.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by delishpot: 4:13pm On Nov 17, 2017
Dcholeric:

men are only your saviour.... lol

I hope you enjoyed the rape moments...

fowl ..no it should be okuko Gambia grin
did it get that right?
go ahead kill your dad and husband and son ..(if were able to have any ) they are the source of your frustration. grin


Yinmu, It's not Your turn to be in the spotlight, we have a child being molested to save. She cried out you did not. You are igun okuko.. Plus you..... I do not trust your kind you may be one of them abusive neighbour. Kill my husband? Hahahahaha, because I said many girls are sexually abused by men, you automatically believed that I am female. LOL you are one of those kinds who ask guys why they want to save a rape victim that isn't their sister ba? Like no man would speak against abusive men? Sorry to burst your bubble, there are men who fight for women and women who stand strong behind their men.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by YelloweWest: 4:30pm On Nov 17, 2017
Belafonte:


Maybe I think judges are stupid. Maybe I have seen what should be open-and-shut cases receive incredibly stupendous verdicts. You never know. But this is Nigeria where shit can turn around against the person in the right in the twinkle of an eye.

If you have ever been involved with the law in this country you'll know to bring your 100% when dealing with them. But what do I know, not only judges can be stupid.
If every rape case need pictorial evidence do u think a single rapist will ever get convicted?
I am telling u what is obtainable by law in the case of rape.
It's corroboration.

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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Belafonte(m): 4:44pm On Nov 17, 2017
YelloweWest:

If every rape case need pictorial evidence do u think a single rapist will ever get convicted?
I am telling u what is obtainable by law in the case of rape.
It's corroboration.

Convictions aren't enough. Do you know how many tape convictions have turned out to be merely false accusations? Even råpe cases where fathers, yes fathers, have been falsely accused because their wife wanted to punish him for a perceived wrong? Just this Wednesday, a man who had spent 46 years in jail on råpe charges was found not guilty because of new evidence. 46 fûcking years. There's a reason for the term "beyond reasonable doubt".

On the flip side, do you know how many real cases of råpe have been tossed out for lacking sufficient evidence? grin . You can feel outraged all you want, the law still has a fairly reaonable process for trying allegations. Bungling it could mean that justice is eventually not served. For all our zeal, care should be taken to follow due process.
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by AnodaIT(m): 4:46pm On Nov 17, 2017
Left for me alone, this is the best way to go.
Involved police and court and you just increased the suffering of the child

earthcrust:
Pls listen to my counsel, reporting ur friend to law enforcement authorities will only bring about selfish interest and d little girl u are trying to help will suffer in d end.govt institutions in d country are very corrupt. A similar case happened in my area, and d matter was reported to d police and d police collected 250000 from d little girls Uncle to kill d matter, when d school authority where she attends heard what d police did the went and reported d matter to welfare and d welfare ppl contacted human rights lawyers association and they in turn brought in d state media before we knew it d matter was life with the girls face on a program in NTA. At this time d little girl had been taken from d police to welfare custody and was provided with little or no care.. To shorten d story . d girls uncle. Was charged to court and sent to prison, his company sacked him , his with with other children became helpless
While in bin awaiting trial a chief judge came to d prison and freed prisoners including this man because is was a civil case. The abused girl is still in d welfare till date. Case is still in court . d court is now after d man's wife who is also culprit. .I advice that u should help your friend by looking for a safe place for d little girl to stay. Away from d father. And make sure he apologizes to d daughter and try to counsel d girl to cover d Father's unclothedness NCOs no one is perfect.

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