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I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 3:40am On Mar 24, 2010 |
I may sound naive but I need the candid advise of the good people of Nairaland on this. U are free to insult me or advise politely as long as it brings back my sanity . I met this cute girl online recently and after chatting for 3 days we became close pals. Now she refuse to talk to me, instead yawns whenever I called her. We both live in Europe but different country hence we haven't met. I have strong feelings for her even after knowing she has 2 kids , and am not a father yet . U should know we're both in our mid 30s. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Pweety4me(f): 3:41am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Online issues aight. . . |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 3:55am On Mar 24, 2010 |
I know it's not the norm, init? |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Mudley313: 6:18am On Mar 24, 2010 |
u were not in love, u were "infatuated" 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 6:49am On Mar 24, 2010 |
U seem so sure my guy that's infatuation? |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by deco2come: 6:54am On Mar 24, 2010 |
@Poster Maybe the traffic regulation should add a blue light for you to know that it is high time to move your car. She is yawning at you already and you still refused to move your car. Please comot your car for road before even the blue light turns red |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by NobiGod: 7:28am On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^ nice analogy. @ Poster it's time to move on. She probably seen enough of u already to know she's not into u. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by kemisuga(f): 9:53am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Infatuation is worrying u |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Tinksh(f): 10:09am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Maybe you just want what you cant have? OR have imagined her to be more than she is, just a thought. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by DeepSoul(f): 10:18am On Mar 24, 2010 |
You are in love after three days. Not just three day. But three days online. Sorrry, how old are you again? |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 10:29am On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^ does voice mean a thing? |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by googles: 10:34am On Mar 24, 2010 |
[size=13pt]i personally do not have anything against online dating matter of fact i think itz cool if you guys understand yourselves and if the connection is true but wen it gets to the point where your padner yawns or starts giving you attitude. . . . . i think its time for reality check that partner doesnt want you anymore.just get your acts together and move on itz just three days for God sakes. . .Breathe buddy [/size] 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 10:39am On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^Thanks. U r too kind. . . allowed her voice to get into my head |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Spyker: 10:40am On Mar 24, 2010 |
3 days only and talking of love. Guy, why you dey fall our hand now? Abeg wake up jjor |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Krissykriss(m): 10:42am On Mar 24, 2010 |
@poster, u just need 2 change ur name. Chelsea ndi owo! |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Nobody: 11:39am On Mar 24, 2010 |
@ Poster, falling in love comes in a different ways and at times we don't use our heads and we tend to be drifted with the voice of our hearts. Just pray and submit everything to God, ask for Divine Providence. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Nobody: 11:42am On Mar 24, 2010 |
chelseaguy: Voice? You are in love with a voice? Sorry did you say mid 30s or mind-teens |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 12:47pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^ I wish am a teen right now. I respect women but some are in the clouds . How can a lady of 2 kids looking for a 'wow' guy rather for a mature understanding guy. Even in her setback, she's looking for a basketball looking star and she's 5 .4 inches . I'm not bad myself. . . though she thinks am short at 6.4inches Thanks all. Some just don't learn. . . |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Nobody: 1:10pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^ You are not quite mature yourself. Look at you falling for a 'voice' You really don't know her, so I'm yet to see how you can justify this 'love' you have for her! |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by yme1(f): 1:14pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
chelseaguy:LMAO i laugh at the bolded words did she insult you or what |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 1:17pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^ Falling in love has nothing to do with age my dear. However, I agree my story sounds unfortunate but we have chatted alot on voice/cam. We also share life mutual friends. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by julianH(m): 1:18pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
it is not love brother! |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Nobody: 1:22pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
Get a local pretty chick dude. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 1:22pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
^ I kinda getting myself now. . . it's not love then I never had any carnal thought of her. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Nobody: 1:23pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
chelseaguy: Actually it does! I mean I'm assuming you know what the word 'love' means. The way you describe her, I can't help but assume that the qualities that made you fall for her after 3 days of webcam and phone conversations are very superficial. It's the kind of young love we talked about when we were in secondary/high school! The point I'm trying to make is that you are not in love with her. You are not even close to being in love with her. You just feel a strong attraction, not even to her personality, but to her 'voice' . . . I'm sorry, but you have to get over yourself . . I feel like I'm talking to my kid brother |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 1:30pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
I wish U have an ideal Uju. I only fancy mature girls cause i don't have stomach for hyper-active younger girls. She fits my deal as I also not keen of having my kids. Strange but true of me. . . thought of being a father never intrigues me. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Duniverse(m): 1:47pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
That gave you the impression that what you feel is called love? |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 1:50pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
^ Maybe not love literary but on the road to it. . . |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by omega25red(m): 1:55pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
hommie are you that lonely or not good looking that out of all the single girls online and offline you decided to get hooked on a mid 30's woman with kids. I dont blame her for yawning at you because i'm sure she is starting to think there is something wrong with you for being a single guy with no kids and wanting a woman in another country mid 30's and with kids. get a hooker bro it will take the blue balls away |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by jfking2005(m): 1:57pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
4get this guy he is just a dreamer, only tell him to wake up |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by Nobody: 1:57pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
She doesn't think you are serious, that's why she yawns. Me too I'll yawn. A lady has to be careful. |
Re: I Am In Love With A Girl I Haven't Seen: by chelseaguy: 2:03pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
stillwater: U brought a good point. . . how serious can I get to be taken seriously? 4get this guy he is just a dreamer, Thanks for your advise. omega25red: lol. . . thanks but I will pass on that. I got some white chicks here that are at my beck and call. |
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