I may sound naive but I need the candid advise of the good people of Nairaland on this. U are free to insult me or advise politely as long as it brings back my sanity . I met this cute girl online recently and after chatting for 3 days we became close pals. Now she refuse to talk to me, instead yawns whenever I called her. We both live in Europe but different country hence we haven't met. I have strong feelings for her even after knowing she has 2 kids , and am not a father yet .

U should know we're both in our mid 30s.

I know it's not the norm, init?

u were not in love, u were "infatuated"

U seem so sure my guy that's infatuation?

@Poster

Maybe the traffic regulation should add a blue light for you to know that it is high time to move your car.

She is yawning at you already and you still refused to move your car. Please comot your car for road before even the blue light turns red

^^ nice analogy.
@ Poster it's time to move on. She probably seen enough of u already to know she's not into u.

Infatuation is worrying u

Maybe you just want what you cant have? OR have imagined her to be more than she is, just a thought.

^^ does voice mean a thing?

^^Thanks. U r too kind. . . allowed her voice to get into my head 

3 days only and talking of love. Guy, why you dey fall our hand now? Abeg wake up jjor

@poster, u just need 2 change ur name. Chelsea ndi owo!

@ Poster, falling in love comes in a different ways and at times we don't use our heads and we tend to be drifted with the voice of our hearts. Just pray and submit everything to God, ask for Divine Providence.

chelseaguy:

^^Thanks. U r too kind. . . allowed her voice to get into my head

Voice? You are in love with a voice? Sorry did you say mid 30s or mind-teens

^^ I wish am a teen right now. I respect women but some are in the clouds . How can a lady of 2 kids looking for a 'wow' guy rather for a mature understanding
guy. Even in her setback, she's looking for a basketball looking star and she's 5 .4 inches . I'm not bad myself. . . though she thinks am short at 6.4inches

Thanks all. Some just don't learn. . .

^^ You are not quite mature yourself. Look at you falling for a 'voice'

You really don't know her, so I'm yet to see how you can justify this 'love' you have for her!

chelseaguy:

^^ I wish am a teen right now. I respect women but some are in the clouds . How can a lady of 2 kids looking for a 'wow' guy rather for a mature understanding
guy. Even in her setback, she's looking for a basketball looking star and she's 5 .4 inches . I'm not bad myself. . . though she thinks am short at 6.4inches

Thanks all. Some just don't learn. . .

LMAO i laugh at the bolded words
did she insult you or what

^^ Falling in love has nothing to do with age my dear. However, I agree my story sounds unfortunate but we have chatted alot on voice/cam.
We also share life mutual friends.

it is not love brother!

Get a local pretty chick dude.

^ I kinda getting myself now. . . it's not love then I never had any carnal thought of her.

chelseaguy:

^^ Falling in love has nothing to do with age my there. However, I agree my story sounds unfortunate but we have chatted alot on voice/cam.
We also share life mutual friends.

Actually it does! I mean I'm assuming you know what the word 'love' means.

The way you describe her, I can't help but assume that the qualities that made you fall for her after 3 days of webcam and phone conversations are very superficial. It's the kind of young love we talked about when we were in secondary/high school!

The point I'm trying to make is that you are not in love with her. You are not even close to being in love with her. You just feel a strong attraction, not even to her personality, but to her 'voice' . . .

I'm sorry, but you have to get over yourself . .  _{I feel like I'm talking to my kid brother}    

I wish U have an ideal Uju. I only fancy mature girls cause i don't have stomach for hyper-active younger girls. She fits my deal as I also not keen
of having my kids. Strange but true of me. . . thought of being a father never intrigues me.

That gave you the impression that what you feel is called love?

^ Maybe not love literary but on the road to it. . .

hommie are you that lonely or not good looking that out of all the single girls online and offline you decided to get hooked on a mid 30's woman with kids. I dont blame her for yawning at you because i'm sure she is starting to think there is something wrong with you for being a single guy with no kids and wanting a woman in another country mid 30's and with kids.

get a hooker bro it will take the blue balls away

4get this guy he is just a dreamer,

only tell him to wake up

She doesn't think you are serious, that's why she yawns. Me too I'll yawn. A lady has to be careful.

stillwater:

She doesn't think you are serious, that's why she yawns. Me too I'll yawn. A lady has to be careful.

U brought a good point. . . how serious can I get to be taken seriously?
 

4get this guy he is just a dreamer,

only tell him to wake up

Thanks for your advise.

omega25red:

hommie are you that lonely or not good looking that out of all the single girls online and offline you decided to get hooked on a mid 30's woman with kids. I dont blame her for yawning at you because i'm sure she is starting to think there is something wrong with you for being a single guy with no kids and wanting a woman in another country  mid 30's and with kids.

get a [b]hooker [/b]bro it will take the blue balls away

lol. . . thanks but I will pass on that. I got some white chicks here that are at my beck and call.