krushdripper:
I really like your profile picture, it's a real sought after feeling for me getting used to working/living in such a room, whouw !

Thanks

livingg:
Let Weddings Be Done With In Our Power

And yesterday I had an awesome experience at Church, a couple got married during church service. No wedding gown, no Cake, rice, wine, chicken, soft drinks or chinchin.... We drank Kunu zaki, ate doughnut and licked sweets. Yet the atmosphere was filled with joy and happiness, we praised God and danced With all excitement. The bride was even more excited than the groom and I saw her as the strongest among the two.
The lessons learnt are as follows:
1. Tell yourself the truth.
2. Cut your coat according to your shirt
3. Do not compare yourself with others; weddings are not competitions.
4. Ladies let's be like today's bride; lets be understanding; we should be contented with the love and efforts of our men and not push them into debt.
5. Most young men are not married today, not because they cannot afford to provide the woman with her day to day upkeep but because they cannot afford a wedding.
6. A simple wedding like this is far more honourable than 'zo mu zauna'.
7. Let us stop this wedding ceremony palavas and make life easy for ourselves.
P.S: I am not against glamorous weddings; all I say is let all be done within our power. #selah#

Source: I was there live

It is a hungry person who must insist on.forcing a man to.waste.money.on wedding.

Banky.W and Adesua.themselves.said they don't believe.in.glamorous or lavish.weddings. They had one.though.because.at least.they can afford it and they.were.swept off their feet.

It is not a must someone must.waste money on.a wedding. Most people set their limits in their own.minds.

anonimi:


We are struggling because we overreaching ourselves with unnecessary flexing to impress neighbours who are just as nonetity as we are compared to those who MAKE the things we flex with.
We are our own worst enemies.


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Personally, I don't do things cos of people. I do things cos it's what I want. Everyone in Naija today, is struggling(apart from a few). Some are struggling for 3 square meals, some for just a meal, some to move to the next level cos they're tired of where they are and feel they deserve better, some to maintain a certain standard and not drop, etc. Our struggles are in different grades. Truly, a lot of people engage in this for showoff but there are people who just want it cos that's what they want.

Lavish wedding doesn't necessarily mean happy marriage

God bless you. This is the plain truth. Things should be done in moderation.

aspirebig:



Shut up there....I said now people spend 1m to 2m on RECEPTION HALL alone.I did not mean 1m to 2m on entire wedding ..even the 1m to 2m. .is it easy? Wedding is NOT marriage oooo Wedding is just for few hours .and marriage is a LIFE ......

Let's be reasonable and realistic please .

MorataFC:
yeah, for sure, that one anything can happen, ur full squad is back, and man u has never lost at home in 33 games now.
So, taking a point,I will celebrate it.

no problem � my guy

nairamaniac:

Iya basira and papa mumunni for my backyard married with 1000naira. They shared only pure water to all of us that attended it.

Wedding lasted only one month.

So what's ur point?

You are entitled to your own opinion, but you are not entitled to create your own facts. The two instances I mentioned, Solarin and the Royal family are facts, your baba Basira, and mama Mumu, are conjectures and unacceptable as solid conclusions to back up a rational argument except the Mumus, or Mumuni you are using as example are the only ones reading it.

ogbonti:



You are entitled to your own opinion, but you are not entitled to create your own facts. The two instances I mentioned, Solarin and the Royal family are facts, your baba Basira, and mama Mumu, are conjectures and unacceptable as solid conclusions to back up a rational argument except the Mumus, or Mumuni you are using as example are the only ones reading it.

I created those characters to tell you "there are several couples that were extremely prudent with their weddings budgets but yet it crashed so early".

Of course I have seen several of them. Even know their names. But this is a faceless forum and i don't need to bring out their names in whole full. Hence I made my point with xyz as names.

You take yourself so seriously. I say this because I never debunked your argument or whatever you witnessed.
I only added to what you said by saying it could end up badly, either ways.

Go and bring the national identity cards of your solarin and royal family if u really Want to convince us that they are facts.

Anything less than that equally makes them conjectures and unacceptable to back up a rational argument.
Which doesn't make them any better than my mumu's and mumuni.
Or forever hold your peace.

#kosowo nigboro..... Low key tinx