elantraceey:


Why the face na..... you don't believe me?

alexialin:





That's really bad, sexxing another guy and talking to bf? That's terrible.


Na wa.

tosyne2much:
You nailed it man

Jupxter:



But Tosin, it doesn't mean because we have attained a mastery over our thoughts,that one party isn't cheating. No be today !

For me o, personally, i will love. Give it my best, but will go into relationships with less expectations.I rather be overwhelmed with performance of my partner than expect so much only to be ridiculed.

That's where the problem lies bro. Putting one's expectations high only to be messed up.

Anyway, I think it's what we have all passed through at a stage in life, so it's not something new baba

lefulefu:
god bless u for saying this.married couples are the most guilty sef.

Jupxter:



You've spoken well. It doesn't mean in a relationship, while we take our hearts way the other person may not be cheating. It's just a case of waiting till you catch them in the heart. One way or the other though, the guilt takes over them. There's something about cheating that brings guilt. The thing tires me. Been with a lady that cheated twice in a relationship. She didnt know i knew. I even loved her more despite what she did. In the end, her guilt forced her out of the relationship. So, i won't let my mind go through strain. I want to leave long.

But above all, may God help us. Cheating is so rampant that it's only a few healthy relationships that are faithful die.I've seen faithful relationships all around me, in fact, i've seen more healthy relationships around me. So i won't allow people mess my mind up.


To ay lover who cheats despite the other partner been sincere and faithful,i wish them best of luck

Henitan24:
I'm certain I'll be faithful to my spouse. So help me God

shinarlaura:


I am telling u.. at first i had the impression that single girls and boys cheated the most in a relationship but when i started working in a hotel, my mindset changed. U need to see the way married people cheat on each other. It calls for consent. People need to be in such places to know what's happening in this world

alexialin:








Abi?? The guilt always take over them and like you said, they leave on their own.

Big bros! I hale..

You surely know how it is.

I love your mindset life is too short.

And sincerely there are good relationships around. I won't either. Cause I believe my own will fall into the category of a good blessed relationship. I don't give up that easily and I don't follow the band wagon of almost all men are bad and all women are bad.
Such mentality is twisted.

Smiles, much thanks and much respect Bros!

shinarlaura:


I am telling u.. at first i had the impression that single girls and boys cheated the most in a relationship but when i started working in a hotel, my mindset changed. U need to see the way married people cheat on each other. It calls for consent. People need to be in such places to know what's happening in this world

alexialin:





Do you know a friend of mine who works in a hotel, gists me on their clients who come to lodge and am like? I was dismayed and am like I think I must be in different planet.

But babe, how do u cope? As in, how do u feel having to see this depraved side of humans who patronize the hotel?
She laughed and said well, she can't leave the job nah and moreover that's how it is the hotel business . You see all kind of things and shady sides of humans

lefulefu:
so sad.when couples who are not sexually compactable and who have no love for each other why won't they cheat.the woman go just marry the man for im money and job security while the man on the other hand go just marry the woman cos pastor told him he got a revelation that the lady is his wife or he just marry cos he feel say time for am to marry don reach.the result is that both of them go start to dey get extra marital affairs.

Jupxter:


I disagree with sexual compatibility, brotherly, if you know what better love is, it creates room for acceptance, true and deep love is loyal and committed. True love doesn't quit over flimsy excuses, people just don't love rigkht

xynerise:


True. That talk about sexual compatibility is a hoax. You enjoy sex more when you are in true love.

Jupxter:



We keep telling them, they don't listen

xynerise:


They won't listen because the western world has made sex an adventure which every curious person would want to explore

Henitan24:
I'm certain I'll be faithful to my spouse. So help me God

Blackfyre:


Are you a virgin?

Jupxter:



Tushe.Spot on. Glad to meet an individual of like understanding. Sex is easy when love is in place, intact. Sex is not an adventure, a fun-act between lower species to just engage in randomly. Sex is enjoyable when love is appropriate. The inadequacy of love is why we have terrible sex lives

xynerise:


Exactly. I have tried both( Sex in love and out of love). The former speaks volume. When I tried the latter, it was all about the ego.

Jupxter:


I disagree with sexual compatibility, brotherly, if you know what better love is, it creates room for acceptance, true and deep love is loyal and committed. True love doesn't quit over flimsy excuses, people just don't love right

Jupxter:



Still virgin hunting ?


Will you sacrifice compatibility for virginity?

lefulefu:
imagine a situation my brother u have a high sex drive and u happen to end up with a lady who is frigid.how u going to cope?

Blackfyre:


I am not hunting for anything ooo

Nope...that will be stupid..

lefulefu:
imagine a situation my brother u have a high sex drive and u happen to end up with a lady who is frigid.how u going to cope?

Jupxter:




Stop it. We want details. What did your friend notice about the visitors at the hotel, tell us. I'm keen on hearing the details

Jupxter:



The satiety that comes from sex is buoyed by love. Sexual satiety is the underlying reason people cheat, not compatibility

alexialin:





Heheheheheheh

You sure, you want details?

Hmmmm
OK o

Tighten your seat belt and get ready.

She said some married man have already paid for a particular room for a period of like 6months or so, to bring in different shapes and sizes of female students, every weekend.
While a couple who lodged in one of the suites, the newly wedded husband also paid for a room downstairs where his gf came in and stayed in the room for a whole one week. He was shuttling up to be with his new bride, and down in the early. Morning to be with his gf

Another one, the fiance and fiancee have already planned a date for their wedding. The fiance, owner of one oil and gas company like that in delta state came to Lagos for a business meeting and lodged in my friend's hotel, so his fiancee a lawyer usually come around sometimes in the evening to check up on him.. And he knows the days she drops by. But other days she doesn't drop by, him and his Lagos friend goes to unilag to pick up babes for the night. Then the next day, the cleaner cleans up the room. So one fateful day she came, checked everywhere in the room like a detective and saw a strand of eyes lashes underneath the bed, but on the floor. Al hell was let loose that day. The dumb fiance was blaming the workers there saying, it seems they use the suite to bring in ladies.
Can u imagine?

Instead of her suspecting her fiance, she was saying the workers are using the room for extra buizness and fun. Cos the guy paid for three weeks at a strectch,
so the suite won't be given out. Lol

My dear, u will also see an advanced woman with a toy boy taking a room.
Corporate ladies going into a room to meet with clients.
Students and all..

Smhhh.. Na wa

She said most nights, she hardly sleeps cos of screams and moaning of women coming out of the rooms lol

O ga o

Nigerians which way oooo

xynerise:


Exactly...love brings communication in sex.

People don't even listen to sex language these days

RETIREDMUMU:
nothing like faithful to me, use me and dump me while i use u too and dump u.

hoess aint loyal nigggaa ain't loyal anymore

So you think you can never find a faithful wife?

lefulefu:
imagine a situation my brother u have a high sex drive and u happen to end up with a lady who is frigid.how u going to cope?

I know say na you go ask this kind kweshion