Relationship expert and blogger, Joro Olumofin, shared on Instagram the 20 things he believes ladies should avoid in a relationship.


See full list of the 20 things he thinks ladies shouldn’t do when they meet a new guy, below.

1. Don’t take your friends along with you when he invites you on a date

2. Don’t go to his house unannounced

3. Don’t ask him for money

4. Don’t compare him to your ex or talk about your ex, only if he requests

5. Don’t get drunk on your first outing with him

6. Don’t wear see through or exposing outfits on your first outings

7. Don’t bore him with all your family or personal issues ( my house caught fire, my AC is not working, my rent is due )

8. Don’t talk about Marriage on a first date

9. Don’t pry about the size of his pocket, his earnings or the car he drives ( Do you drive a G wagon ? Are you a millionaire ? )

10. Don’t be too quick to post his picture on instagram, Facebook, (social media) etc

11. Don’t go out without “vex money” or a simple transport fare “bailout” money

12. Don’t lie you’re a virgin and don’t lie about your age ( Some ladies say they’re 22 when they’re 29)

13.Don’t order what you don’t know how to eat or you’re allergic to all because you’re forming sophisticated

14. Don’t ask to meet his Mother or Father. Only if he suggests

15. Don’t be rude or nasty to the waiter or waitress just because you want To impress or be a Diva

16. Don’t talk to him about your body count or guys you’ve slept with. YOUR STANDARD / DEFAULT body count is (2) guys

17. Don’t form British or American accent or any form of accent you can’t keep up with

18. Don’t think you’re an automatic girlfriend after the first Sexual Encounter

19. When your friends call you on a date don’t describe him in a derogatory manner eg I’m with that guy who has Bastard Money

20. Don’t start leaving clothes and tooth brush stylishly at his place

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/20-things-ladies-shouldnt-do-when-they-meet-a-new-guy-joro-olumofin-advises-ladies-about-to-start-a-relationship

See interesting ones here also http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/20-things-ladies-shouldnt-do-when-they-meet-a-new-guy-joro-olumofin-advises-ladies-about-to-start-a-relationship

So somebody is not allowed to have a fake life and marry in peace... Do you think there is any person on this earth who is "real" and that doesn't create a facade so as to survive

Most importantly; Don't Dramatize! Be your best self. Courteous self. Good self.

Some years back, I met a lady. It was obvious she liked my company, to be modest.
She would come to my desk and we would chat at length.
On walking home, she just turned pale, entered a cab and left me like I didn't matter. Without saying 'bye'.
I was stunned. I was shocked. I was disappointed.
We still talk freely but I can't just act as if that FIRST DAY was a mistake. I've opened to her about that first impression. We laughed over it but it made an indelible mark in me.

Okay
Noted

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Wallpapers check - 70%

Too much talk on top toto matter

We know all this mention another one smh....

dem dey hear

101things guys shouldn't do when they meet a new girl,hold on ayam coming......

SO OP U ARE PART OF JORONATION

Ordinarily, ladies should be assumed to know these....

If they dnt do number 3, u don kill somebody be dat

Cool

Standard body count.

And at the end, punna will be chopped and they lady will become rag.

Funny enough, they do all.

Nairaland girls can beg.

Them beg for money pass BANBINYANLA.

Nairaland is their workplace. Especially those girls in the romance section.

They all claim to be students(even my mama mate)

MODUS OPERANDI: they put a beautiful picture as DP( Big Trap)

Then they wait patiently. These girls are very patient. When they see a trending topic like this, they quip in something nice and the guys will become curious to see their profile.

When they see their best pictures there. They become very hooked,and then GAME on.

Sometimes they are talking to like 30 guys at once, who send them things from recharge cards to money. And we expect these girls to look for work?

Laveda, MimzZy and Refiner I lie?

Garuskristy nice picture on your DP.

Let me inbox you make it no lost.

the rate at which ladies ask for money this days is alarming...... just to nack oooo

number 18

Standard body count is two.... Nice one.

tell them

Why?

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But, Nigerian babes dont do all those he listed.

Who does that?

Hml! My bae

Hope they will hear . The hungry aunties