More like this:
http://www.mortalpoet.com/dear-nigerian-girls-stop-things/

You guys are quick to castigate and generalize most times.

The sisters may have various reasons for their actions. What about brothers that forms 'holier than thou' too?

OP, are you the Bro Dave or Bro Nelson? Maybe the sister already suspected that your intentions were not pure because there are many of you wolves in sheep's clothing now in churches all over.

Haba !! You call her sister and you are brother ...u wan commit incest ni..? Try call her by name and drop brother & sister matter ... she can start seeing you as a potential partner...

ponti93:

Dear Sister,

You've come of age and I need to tell you some blunt truth.
You refused to be friends with all the brothers in the church, if they don't greet you first, you ignore them. Even when they greet you, your mouth is too heavy to answer, all because you're a precious sister.

They added you to the youth Whatsapp group but you never make any contribution. Bro Dave privately messaged you, you replied him after three days because you are busy. Even when you replied, it's a one liner. K, yh, same here, y, lol, hey, hi, those are the only vocabulary in your own dictionary.

It is true that you are friendly, but only to the sisters and married women in the church. Now that you are rubbing shoulders with Good women at 24, all the brothers are not spiritual to your standard, therefore they can never meet your standard of Husband material.

Bro Dave, the general secretary turned himself to follow-up secretary just to get your attention. When he calls, you don't pick and you never call back. He sent you "merry Christmas, happy new year, happy new week" text messages. He's already composing happy weekend message and you refuse to reply common "thankyou".

When you saw him at church yesterday, you acted like you didn't see his messages. He brought it up and you quickly form too busy and spiritual to be replying messages.

Every night, Bro Nelson is always the one to ping, he asks how are you and mention all your siblings by name and your reply is "all fine", and the chat is over. You don't even bother to ask him how his day went, talk less of asking after his family.

Dear Daughter, don't worry o, keep snubbing all the brothers at church because God has prepared your own angel from heaven, shebi you can pray very well, continue oo

The biggest turn off is a guy hitting on me with that whole brother and sister bullshit, I once was friends with a so called president of a popular youth Fellowship on campus,i went to his lodge for the first time, the next thing he was all over me, mteeeew, laced with all that brother and sister facade is the same thing an unbeliever is looking for too, that's how they end up sleeping with all the sisters in the congregation,Nonsense. But Bro Dave seems pained tho

dingbang:
Is it by force?
As she no wan like bro Dave... Make he leave am..

Spot on

ponti93

lol

Some of these brothers behave like romance land guys, once things go sour, they will cast it in the church.

they dont used to hug at all.if they say give your neighbour a smile and it happens that it's a guy that is sitting close to them,they wil stand up and look for another sister then smile and come back.

Unionised:


Leave the born again part out.

She is just not into you.

I know a lot of born again sisters, and I assure you they are so friendly one tends to misconstrue those smiles as 'come ons'.

Trust me, they need no ice breaker to initiate a conversation.

So the problem is you.

You probably have a 'track record' of conquests within the church circle.

Or you are just a sore loser!

If I want to date a girl in my church, I date!

Don't be a sissy....

Wait! He's not even a problem


He simply need to understand not every man who says hi to a lady, the lady will fall Inlove with.
So he need to move on and keep up with his career , his packaging and worship with God until he meets the lady who would. Love to be with him.

That's all.

Ukododondon:
Haba !! You call her sister and you are brother ...u wan commit incest ni..? Try call her by name and drop brother & sister matter ... she can start seeing you as a potential partner...

sister in the lord

Sapiosexuality:
More like this:

http://www.mortalpoet.com/dear-nigerian-girls-stop-things/

u can post the article on nairaland u will get more views

Zanas:
I swear I have one like that in my church we call her sister holy spirit. She's always forming she doesn't have time for the things of the flesh. Now she's 31 and I don't know what will become of her

Give me her number

1Sharon:
Maybe she snubs all the Christian boys cos she realises that they are all hypocrites?

My dear... you're wise!

Lolz...e pain am

ponti93:
u can post the article on nairaland u will get more views

Yes, I will. Thank you.

Well the sister might be acting base on experience of the past as many brothers in church take advantage of church to sleep with sisters and abandoned them. Some are Married but will pretend their marriage isn't going well. There are many of them doing it in my church. Most brother's believes if a sister smile so well with them meaning the sister is interested in them and will quickly fast forward in getting the sister's number with intention of only sleeping with the sister not marrying her. Our pastor have noticed the brothers will trick sisters of marriage then before six months the brother will say he is no longer interested and he must have slept with the sister in secret. Pastor will say no jumping from one sister to another and when the six months given for courtship elapsed marriage must take place so that others will stop such act of deceiving the sisters.

Florblu:
We can't because of "scarcity of husband" lower our standards.

Boya Bro Dave and Nelson should step up their games

Menopause will humble you.

1Sharon:
Maybe she snubs all the Christian boys cos she realises that they are all hypocrites?

Babe, e be like say u been one of them, this one hit u wella o.

Lol

All churches my dear

OtemSapien:
Is it deeperlifer church?

ponti93:

Dear Sister,

You've come of age and I need to tell you some blunt truth.
You refused to be friends with all the brothers in the church, if they don't greet you first, you ignore them. Even when they greet you, your mouth is too heavy to answer, all because you're a precious sister.

They added you to the youth Whatsapp group but you never make any contribution. Bro Dave privately messaged you, you replied him after three days because you are busy. Even when you replied, it's a one liner. K, yh, same here, y, lol, hey, hi, those are the only vocabulary in your own dictionary.

It is true that you are friendly, but only to the sisters and married women in the church. Now that you are rubbing shoulders with Good women at 24, all the brothers are not spiritual to your standard, therefore they can never meet your standard of Husband material.

Bro Dave, the general secretary turned himself to follow-up secretary just to get your attention. When he calls, you don't pick and you never call back. He sent you "merry Christmas, happy new year, happy new week" text messages. He's already composing happy weekend message and you refuse to reply common "thankyou".

When you saw him at church yesterday, you acted like you didn't see his messages. He brought it up and you quickly form too busy and spiritual to be replying messages.

Every night, Bro Nelson is always the one to ping, he asks how are you and mention all your siblings by name and your reply is "all fine", and the chat is over. You don't even bother to ask him how his day went, talk less of asking after his family.

Dear Daughter, don't worry o, keep snubbing all the brothers at church because God has prepared your own angel from heaven, shebi you can pray very well, continue oo

Hahahah