NLbully:
This came to my amusement when I asked someone if he knows how much his partner is earning and to my surprise he said they don't disclose it to each other ( Can't really understand what led to the conversation )

How do you see this, do you think it is right for your partner not to know how much you earn as salary ??

ademide0710:
Every marriage should be built on trust,very important. I know how much my husband earns, when he got a new job he shows me his employment letter. I have my business too. I'm not interested in his money. The trust we have for each other has helped our family so far. He does his responsibility as a husband and father. Whenever his finance down, he finds it so difficult to approach me for money but I always beg him to collect from me,after so much persuasion he stills return when his financial buoyant . When we go for shopping, I make payment at times but his not always comfortable with it. He believes his the head of the family but to me we are to help and support each other. I bless the day, I met that man.

sinaj:
How will they plan well if they dunno how much they earn

Maybe one of them mismanage money tho.

NwaAmaikpe:



A wife must never know what her husband earns or his source of income.
It is none of her business, her job is just to enjoy the wealth and make babies for the man, that's why they are called 'oriaku'.

But a woman's income must be known,
It's source well defined;
Before you unknowingly start eating food cooked from money gotten through prostitution.

dingbang:
Finally, its wrong.

At least thats what a married man advised me. As a banker, I told him never to reveal his pin to anyone and I stressed the "anyone".

Well he spoke to my soul, my brother, when you are married, its not good to hide your money from you spouse, be open to each other.

ademide0710:
Every marriage should be built on trust,very important. I know how much my husband earns, when he got a new job he shows me his employment letter. I have my business too. I'm not interested in his money. The trust we have for each other has helped our family so far. He does his responsibility as a husband and father. Whenever his finance down, he finds it so difficult to approach me for money but I always beg him to collect from me,after so much persuasion he stills return when his financial buoyant . When we go for shopping, I make payment at times but his not always comfortable with it. He believes his the head of the family but to me we are to help and support each other. I bless the day, I met that man.

biacan:
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dingbang:
what's ur fcvking problem?

dingbang:
get lost please.. Your madness don too much

sinaj:
How will they plan well if they dunno how much they earn

Maybe one of them mismanage money tho.

shinarlaura:
It's very wrong to hide it. Being open will enable for the futur planing of the family.

whitebeard:
U all should declare ur stuffs, or else it would look like a marriage based on contract, u won't enjoy it.

Lalas247:
Wrong


But me I will hide mine sha for at least the first 10 years .... been burnt before kole happen second time around !

martineverest:
Totally wrong.. My wife shud know how much I earn and we will run same account..... She must know all my password and I will know hers.

This is y I like western couples... They run same account and monitor each other's spending

dingbang:
my ex girlfriend knew I had money.. U needed to see bills flying upandan.

Let's say u tell ur husband u have 500k in ur akant.. And u tell him of ur plans oo.., he then suddenly gets into a financial problem. His mind flashes back ..ahh..my wife has 500k in her akant, thank God! And he knows very well the reason why u saving the money.. Will u give him?

slam7000:


What if you are an Alhaji married to 4 wives? Would you disclose your worth to all 4?

NwaAmaikpe:



A wife must never know what her husband earns or his source of income.
It is none of her business, her job is just to enjoy the wealth and make babies for the man, that's why they are called 'oriaku'.

But a woman's income must be known,
It's source well defined;
Before you unknowingly start eating food cooked from money gotten through prostitution.

ademide0710:
Every marriage should be built on trust,very important. I know how much my husband earns, when he got a new job he shows me his employment letter. I have my business too. I'm not interested in his money. The trust we have for each other has helped our family so far. He does his responsibility as a husband and father. Whenever his finance down, he finds it so difficult to approach me for money but I always beg him to collect from me,after so much persuasion he stills return when his financial buoyant . When we go for shopping, I make payment at times but his not always comfortable with it. He believes his the head of the family but to me we are to help and support each other. I bless the day, I met that man.

NLbully:
This came to my amusement when I asked someone if he knows how much his partner is earning and to my surprise he said they don't disclose it to each other ( Can't really understand what led to the conversation )

How do you see this, do you think it is right for your partner not to know how much you earn as salary ??