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My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. / How My Pastor Ruined My Marriage - Civil Servant / My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. (2) (3) (4)
Re: . by fatymore(f): 2:02pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
Marriage.. Marriage.. Marriage.. It is getting weird and scary these days... Look before you leap.. Don't jump into marriage so that you won't jump out |
Re: . by Nobody: 3:00pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
But where is lalasticlala sef |
Re: . by stacyadams: 4:09pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
bitcoinmilliona: |
Re: . by stacyadams: 4:14pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
bitcoinmilliona:as u don beg the first one,them insult u..i suggest u move on wit ur life..any day she wan answer mrs again.she go come back...na she go advice her self...just dey drink ur origin and leave women outta ur life now. 4 Likes |
Re: . by Futureberry: 11:19pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
Valro:don't chill you hear..let them stab you 2 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:24pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
kendrace:You're shifting the goal post. Nothing justifies cheating in marriage. That union is meant to be kept sacred. If his wife's attitude was that bad then he either endures since it's for better, for worse or walk away if he can't deal. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:24pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
Seun Remove this thread from the 1st page, he has modified the initial post. |
Re: . by Haryorbammmy(m): 11:26pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
Op, when you knew you don't want your issue to reach front page, why did u post it on Nairaland!!!. Now wey you don cast, you quickly commot the story. RADARADA OSHI!!! 1 Like |
Re: . by Coldfeets: 11:30pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
fatymore: It's getting scarier these days probably because most of you are seeing marriage as a do or die affair. I think you guys are entering the union with the mindset that everything just have to be perfect including a perfect partner and no mistakes are allowed. Well... As for me, I simply see marriage like a video game as in if the game is no longer interesting to you; you can simply press the RESET button. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Omoobadare: 11:30pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
Good evening all, sorry if I am disturbing you. My wife feels it is not economically right to have her wedding gown gotten for her by a relative from berketex in UK in August(our wedding was august as well) remain useless at home. The wedding gown cost 1100 pounds at purchase in Machester, we want to put it up for a token of 300k. Serious buyer can talk to me via omoobadare@yahoo.com or via 08152164861 |
Re: . by fatymore(f): 11:32pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
Coldfeets:I pray you meet someone you love.. So you won't think of resetting.. The guy has modified his post |
Re: . by romeorailss: 12:26am On Dec 01, 2017 |
fatymore: I thought when u make front page. U can't even control your own post any longer I just came here to read an all I saw from the op was a full stop. |
Re: . by femi4: 7:45am On Dec 01, 2017 |
bitcoinmilliona:We got married this year. I stay on the mainland. Its been one heavy quarell to another. Any disagreements she runs back home to her parents house to complain and assasinate my character towards them. Which makes no one respect me.Shes never happy, always rude and has no regard for me and very arrogant. Well she's from a rich home. Well, Im the cool type but i have my own weaknesses. To cut the long story short, I fell for a lady and cheated during the peak of the tensions at home. Before then, Iv been keeping late nights and drinking to reduce my stress and avoid her cos she hardly communicates, if we do it might lead to another quarell. She loves silent treatments. On my birthday she never told me HBD. Just sent me a watsapp text. The lady got my wives number and heavily spilled the beans that we have been seeing even leaked some photos and damaging texts. Before then I told my wife and begged her, saying the lady is out for blackmail. After my wife got full details from the lady she moved outta the house to her parents house(island) I was castigated by everyone and was truly sorry. Last sunday I went with my Dad to her fathers house. Oh my God I was heavily insulted! Called names by her parents. Like stupid, slowpoke, looser etc saying I had a mission when I married his daughter. Even my wife didnt help with the damage control she kept on leaking many secrets and spilling more beans. I told the father i will come back for her in a weeks time cos I was so hurt to take her same day. I and my Dad left disappointed. I have vowed never to go there again but my parents and siblings are saying i should go a second time in attempt to pick my wife. I didnt really know this chick b4 getting married. Courted for a few months and the both families gave thier go ahead. We are from the same state. I'm so sad guys. What do i do? I find it hard to concentrate at work. My fathers blood pressure is high. He says we must go. I'm not ready to loose him Should I move on? Because I'm not happy with my marriage. |
Re: . by bitcoinmilliona: 8:07am On Dec 01, 2017 |
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Re: . by Nobody: 9:17am On Dec 01, 2017 |
keepingmum:dis ur advice is bad,if d lady loves her husband do u think she will forgive her parents for seperating dem? Parents are d 1s dat should support & advice dem,na d guy know y he marry her. hmmm I smell gold digging too cos he saw some signs & still enter d union wit her |
Re: . by DukeNija(m): 10:42am On Dec 01, 2017 |
keepingmum: You are a very foolish and idiotic creature. You think you are better than him? You self righteous thing! Quote me and die. |
Re: . by DukeNija(m): 10:48am On Dec 01, 2017 |
bitcoinmilliona: Long enough. Pls don’t act desperate cos they will take advantage of you. If they want their daughter to remain married they must also act it. She’s not exactly a wife material anyways so if the marriage crashes you’ll have your peace of mind. In fact, let them be the ones to contact you cos I’m sure at some point, they’ll be tired of her in that house. Lol This is an opportunity for you to set things straight in your marriage. She also has to show interest in the marriage and then you both can come to the negotiation or whatever table and talk about the way forward. Please just let them be for now, while you focus on how to ameliorate your fathers condition. 1 Like |
Re: . by bitcoinmilliona: 11:08am On Dec 01, 2017 |
DukeNija: Thanks |
Re: . by bitcoinmilliona: 12:20pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
Seun pls front page |
Re: . by Blonchilli(m): 12:34pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
bitcoinmilliona someone once told me if your spouse cheats on you and you're ready to make it work you wouldn't tell a soul about what he/she did. Most of the time we feel telling someone about it solves it but it doesn't. Sorry to say but even if you both go back home together your marriage is already dead within and to the people that knows about your infidelity. NB: I'm not supporting a cheating spouse |
Re: . by Blonchilli(m): 12:39pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
Jesse01:I don't even know what's he's trying to save there. Both of them will now start raising kids in a home without love |
Re: . by Nobody: 3:14pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
What kind of rubbish did I just read?!!!! And why the hell op do you think you have a right to play the victim card? The first paragraph was all about painting your wife bad. Then you started the second paragraph with "I'm a cool guy"?! This has to be a joke because I doubt if things were the other way round, she'd be playing the victim card. You even had a right to feel hurt because her parents insulted you. Indicating she's a rich spoilt child, when it's actually you who's a LovePeddler with no self respect whatsoever. Not even self control, yet think you have the right to apologise and everything is going to be fine? Because if things were the other way round, you wouldn't be here seeking for advice? "Heeeelp my wife cheated on me" And people wouldn't be here commenting on how you should divorce or better send her back to her dad's house? Hypocrisy at its peek! I see hypocrites trying to justify this disgusting act but you know what? The marriage is already over. I hope she divorces you. A year of marriage is still young and this is her time and chance to escape being married to a dog 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Zither(m): 4:21pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
LUGBE: Easy bro. No one is perfect. He already admitted his faults. We all have our weaknesses and that includes you and me. If you won't help him build his marriage by offering constructive pieces of advice then don't destroy it by judging him needlessly. |
Re: . by Lalas247(f): 10:05am On Dec 02, 2017 |
Blonchilli:Exactly the marriage is already dead ...can’t be revived unfortunately 2 Likes |
Re: . by Blonchilli(m): 10:47am On Dec 02, 2017 |
Lalas247:Wish there was a thumbs up emoji on nairaland right now Raising kids in a toxic home is worse than poverty |
Re: . by bryanarchie: 12:06pm On Dec 02, 2017 |
lovelygurl: Thank you. |
Re: . by coolcatty: 6:58pm On Dec 03, 2017 |
DukeNija: Spot on.. This was exactly what I told the op.... Ignore... Expect the worse... But no matter what... Do not call or look for her. It's ur call... This is an opportunity to get things right... You either get it right now or loose it completely. |
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