Grown Women



Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.

Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.



Girls want to control the man in their life.

Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.



Girls check you for not calling them.

Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.



Girls are afraid to be alone.

Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.



Girls ignore the good guys.

Grown women ignore the bad guys.



Girls make you come home.

Grown women make you want to come home.



Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.

Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.



Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).

Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.



Girls think a guy crying is weak.

Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.



Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.

Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.



Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.

Grown women know that that was just one man.



Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.

Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.



Girls will read this and get an attitude.

Grown women will read this and meditate on it

well said !!

@Man-eater
Wow!! So apt.
U sure have eaten more than ur rightful share of men.

@man-eater

wow girl! i dey feel u sha. . . keep it up.

Really good - didn't know that b4.

Yes yes yes!

Well, we need one for Boys vs Grown Men!

Why didnt she post her link

Very True!

true talk

Douzy:

Well, we need one for Boys vs Grown Men!

there is nothing like a grown Men, all your all boys

nice one Man-eater totally loved it

So why not start our own view of Grown Men vs. Boys?


For starters, I think a grown man is one who plays his role and not always put me in control.

I know a grown woman is supposed to "make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits" but seriously, someone who doesn't mind taking control of the situation is appealing also, it's well apprteciated!

it's all true; well put!

and as where boys vs men are concerned, the differences are way bigger! but it's def worth trying a similar post on that topic. I mean, it'd be fun

a sermon

Is there anything like a grown woman?

4 Play:

Is there anything like a grown woman?

is there anything like a grown man

4 Play:

Is there anything like a grown woman?

trust 4play to make such comments


@topic nice thread!

If you take the attributes expressed by the author as characteristic of "grown women",I can't help but conclude that they don't exist

LoL @ 4play.

They do exist, you just haven't met any.

True alot of females are emotional basketcases (needy, maipulative, controlling, jealous) and couldn't fit into the description above but trust me, there are "GROWN WOMEN" out there and it takes a GROWN man to attract a GROWN woman

So if you haven'rt met any 'grown women', hmmm, maybe it's something about you?

Theres no such thing as a NO GOOD MAN!every no good man was made what no good by a NO GOOD WOMAN!!

@topic
I'd rather go for the grown women!or I think

;d

since when

lol,

Gamine

what a wonderful and true understanding.

Life would have been better if so many ladies had this knowledge.

Since you married to. . . .,,,,,,,,,,

are we supposed to know Zignor?

simplejide:

what a wonderful and true understanding.

Life would have been better if so many ladies had this knowledge.

Life would have been better if grown women did'nt have
to deal with boys posing as men.

See as you deviate Question.

@Topic,

As a Woman thinketh, so she is

Girls will read this and get an attitude.

Grown women will read this and meditate on it

Whatever. Bite me!!!