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Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Nutase(f): 5:57am On Dec 11, 2017
Why did you have to wait? Now you are seeking advise. please do as you wish Jare.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Airforce1(m): 6:08am On Dec 11, 2017
Serious
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Redhot111(m): 6:21am On Dec 11, 2017
dukeprince50:
www.nairaland.com/4216891/want-cheat-runaway-husband

op open that link and read the story, its very bad to marry a wife and travel for months, you will sex starve her, why did he travel for 7months? wetin him deh find for yankee.
just as it is for men, so is it for ladies.
Dont tell your cousin though, you will just break a relationship, just advice her and forget about it.

I don't know if u are married or single. But if ur wife go Bleep and u come find out somehow and also find our that ur brother knows abt her infidelity all the while how will u feel?
Infact where I come from, it our culture that if u see a thing like that and u didnt tell abt it, some misfortunes starts coming ur way for no reasons. U could even die in some funny circumstances.

So my guy, tell ur cousin ooooo

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Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Redhot111(m): 6:27am On Dec 11, 2017
DeadRat:
Look At What Human Being is Saying... Smh... Where Is The Sense In This Comment? Must You Comment?
She aired her view and wat is wrong with that? Though I do not support her view, I don't it's enough start throwing jibes at her.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by slimany: 6:34am On Dec 11, 2017
Nedfed:
My cousin that lived in the United Kingdom sent some items to me to deliver to his wife.
Getting to dia house, I met the door locked so I try to check on dia neighbour for me to drop dos items. Actually I tried her line before coming but was switched off. While trying to move from dia own flat to the next flat, I heard someone moaning from the oza room, I paused but to my greatest surprise I discovered the voice is that of my cousin's wife, so I waited at the verandah for her to be tru. After an hour and few minute, she came out together with a man who happened to be my cousin's pal ( his best man during dia wedding).
Both of them av begged me not to tell my cousin but I can't keep dis to myself. My cousin is overthere trying hard just to make tins work fine for the family while the wife here engaging in adultery.
He travelled out of country not upto seven months dis is happening, what will now happen if he stays for more years before the family join him?
Am at a confused state now, what shud I do?


Op. God will not forgive you if you don't tell your cousin what you saw. and as such, you will also experience such faith as well . As long as there is know children in between both of them. Summon the courage to tell your cousin, and you shall be blessed beyond ur imagination
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by slimany: 6:36am On Dec 11, 2017
Redhot111:


I don't know if u are married or single. But if ur wife go Bleep and u come find out somehow and also find our that ur brother knows abt her infidelity all the while how will u feel?
Infact where I come from, it our culture that if u see a thing like that and u didnt tell abt it, some misfortunes starts coming ur way for no reasons. U could even die in some funny circumstances.

So my guy, tell ur cousin ooooo


Gbam. Op, you see these again. Don't slack. Hurry up and do that. Let me tell you the truth, The affairs between them will continue been t they won't bring the match to ur cousin's home again , they will henceforth play away matches.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Elthugnificent(m): 7:12am On Dec 11, 2017
It is either the story is false or you are also a suspect .

Reason why it might be false; you try her number it happens to be switch off, but you decide to take the package to her house anyway. Why not wait for another day.

Reason why you might be suspect; bros how you take know her moaning?
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by obyrich(m): 7:13am On Dec 11, 2017
If she does not have any children just keep mum stop further giving her all the gifts from your cousin. Always notify her and tell her to acknowledge receipt of all such gifts to your cousin. Let her manfriend take care of her needs while you save your cousins money for him. Tell her that you will divulge the secret to all if she complained to him about not receiving the gifts. Watch her kill herself by herself. grin
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 7:20am On Dec 11, 2017
ehbellsho:
Watch her for a while after dis plea if she will/has changed. after which you den decide if you would tell or not.
werey
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 7:24am On Dec 11, 2017
If u having plans to travel abroad don't marry.when u travel then and settle u can always get a wife to marry.wetin happen to op's cousin is exactly wat happens to a man when u rush to marry a woman then run abroad to hustle.op tell ur cousin and if ur cousin is wise make he break up with her and get another woman over there.her manfriend can always take care of her or maybe marry her.

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Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 7:30am On Dec 11, 2017
adajoe555:
What if the man is also banging someone else there

Hmmm


It is not right for couples to stay away from each other for that long, It breeds temptation.
aghhhh! U made a strong point herecheesy.he might be banging one kporkish whitey or black American babe over therecheesy.do me i do u..man no dey vexcheesy.i just pity any guy that has plans moving abroad dey marry put wife for here.while he's over there other men here go dey pass im wife around like tennis ball.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Swaggzkid: 7:36am On Dec 11, 2017
Nedfed this is a serious issue that may cost you if you dont trade causiouly.
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Secondly you don't have a strong evidence to backup your claims for now which the wife might try all her possible best to counter and brainwash the pitifulhusband into believing her. What am trying to say in essence is that don't tell him YET this is not their first and certaintly it wont be their last so relax and gather more STRONG evidences that will convince even the dumbest doubting thomas.
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Make her believe you wont let the cat out of the bag ever! gaskiya And try to gather concrete evidence from there by getting abit closer to her henceforth. Mind you they might be meeting in hotels or the guy's place, just be vigilant if possible be checking her chat with him. Hope i made little sense.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by hopyroll(m): 7:39am On Dec 11, 2017
Hmmmmm
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by DeadRat(m): 7:42am On Dec 11, 2017
Redhot111:

She aired her view and wat is wrong with that? Though I do not support her view, I don't it's enough start throwing jibes at her.
I Dont See How That Pricks Your Hair undecided
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by hopyroll(m): 7:44am On Dec 11, 2017
Wait oooo, this your cousins frd, is he leaving in the next flat with them? Or they borrowed the flat?
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by asuustrike2009: 7:46am On Dec 11, 2017
Don't tell him just let him see things for himself
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Stanley1155: 7:46am On Dec 11, 2017
How are we sure your cousin is not committing the same adultery over there, bros body no b firewood,but bros to b serious if the wife never born pikin tell your cousin but if she Don drop one or two I use anytin wey dey give you joy dey beg u no tell am for the sake of the child.

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Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 7:47am On Dec 11, 2017
lefulefu:
aghhhh! U made a strong point herecheesy.he might be banging one kporkish whitey or black American babe over therecheesy.do me i do u..man no dey vexcheesy.i just pity any guy that has plans moving abroad dey marry put wife for here.while he's over there other men here go dey pass im wife around like tennis ball.


Hahahahahcheesycheesy

Na point u make oogrin
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 7:49am On Dec 11, 2017
lefulefu:
If u having plans to travel abroad don't marry.when u travel then and settle u can always get a wife to marry.wetin happen to op's cousin is exactly wat happens to a man when u rush to marry a woman then run abroad to hustle.op tell ur cousin and if ur cousin is wise make he break up with her and get another woman over there.her manfriend can always take care of her or maybe marry her.


U make strong point here oogringrin
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Fchristo(m): 7:51am On Dec 11, 2017
Nedfed:
My cousin that lived in the United Kingdom sent some items to me to deliver to his wife.
Getting to dia house, I met the door locked so I try to check on dia neighbour for me to drop dos items. Actually I tried her line before coming but was switched off. While trying to move from dia own flat to the next flat, I heard someone moaning from the oza room, I paused but to my greatest surprise I discovered the voice is that of my cousin's wife, so I waited at the verandah for her to be tru. After an hour and few minute, she came out together with a man who happened to be my cousin's pal ( his best man during dia wedding).
Both of them av begged me not to tell my cousin but I can't keep dis to myself. My cousin is overthere trying hard just to make tins work fine for the family while the wife here engaging in adultery.
He travelled out of country not upto seven months dis is happening, what will now happen if he stays for more years before the family join him?
Am at a confused state now, what shud I do?

Tell him if you have prove
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 7:57am On Dec 11, 2017
Martin0:



Hahahahahcheesycheesy

Na point u make oogrin
yes oo if u having plans to relocate just forget about wife for the main time .u marry then travel out then that ur wife don become public property for streetcheesy.these days men wey really love their wife wen u dey overseas u can easily procure documents for ur wife to join u.like Germany and Italy u can easily procure documents for ur wife to travel and join u.so i don't understand when a guy go dey overseas for long and im go leave im wife for Nigeria.dat na error nacheesy...except maybe the man has an oyibo wife dere wey im no want make im naija wife knowcheesy.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 7:59am On Dec 11, 2017
Stanley1155:
How are we sure your cousin is not committing the same adultery over there, bros body no b firewood,but bros to b serious if the wife never born pikin tell your cousin but if she Don drop one or two I use anytin wey dey give you joy dey beg u no tell am for the sake of the child.
if u eventually find out ur wife sleeps around and u come know say ur brother or close cousin always knew abt this...how u go feel?cheesy.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Redhot111(m): 8:00am On Dec 11, 2017
DeadRat:
I Dont See How That Pricks Your Hair undecided

It pricks my hair the same way her view erected ur dick.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by DeadRat(m): 8:03am On Dec 11, 2017
Redhot111:


It pricks my hair the same way her view erected dick.
so Her View Erected You Dick... Alright enjoy
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Redhot111(m): 8:06am On Dec 11, 2017
DeadRat:
so Her View Erected You Dick... Alright enjoy
I mean ur dick
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 8:07am On Dec 11, 2017
lefulefu:
yes oo if u having plans to relocate just forget about wife for the main time .u marry then travel out then that ur wife don become public property for streetcheesy.these days men wey really love their wife wen u dey overseas u can easily procure documents for ur wife to join u.like Germany and Italy u can easily procure documents for ur wife to travel and join u.so i don't understand when a guy go dey overseas for long and im go leave im wife for Nigeria.dat na error nacheesy...except maybe the man has an oyibo wife dere wey im no want make im naija wife knowcheesy.



Hahahahahah na true ooo,e get one story wey my pa yan me one time like that,him say e get one woman wey don marry from our village to one gando guy,but these woman dey tear rubber anyhow she nor send if dem dey table her story for hoodgringrin

Na so I'm husband con show enter town unfortunately the tory con reach him husband ear's say I'm woman dey tear rubber,O boy e nor take this guy time to drive this woman go im, papa house oogringrin

Till date diz women never even marry sef but luckily for her she con get money pass that her then husband wey still base for gandgringrin

Na me even do tilling work for her hostel near oko poly,omo she don rich anyhow now ooo,me nor know how she tale make money oo and that im, husband eye go don dey shuk to come back,but onething be say she nor be faithful woman,she dey tear rubber pass ashi ooogringrin

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Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by DeadRat(m): 8:08am On Dec 11, 2017
Redhot111:
I mean ur dick
what Does Her Comment Have To Do With Dick? Use Your Brain To Comment Next Time
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Redhot111(m): 8:14am On Dec 11, 2017
DeadRat:
what Does Her Comment Have To Do With Dick? Use Your Brain To Comment Next Time
and wat has ur comments hit to do with pricking my hair? Mumu
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by lefulefu(m): 8:16am On Dec 11, 2017
Martin0:




Hahahahahah na true ooo,e get one story wey my pa yan me one time like that,him say e get one woman wey don marry from our village to one gando guy,but these woman dey tear rubber anyhow she nor send if dem dey table her story for hoodgringrin

Na so I'm husband con show enter town unfortunately the tory con reach him husband ear's say I'm woman dey tear rubber,O boy e nor take this guy time to drive this woman go im, papa house oogringrin

Till date diz women never even marry sef but luckily for her she con get money pass that her then husband wey still base for gandgringrin

Na me even do tilling work for her hostel near oko poly,omo she don rich anyhow now ooo,me nor know how she tale make money oo and that im, husband eye go don dey shuk to come back,but onething be say she nor be faithful woman,she dey tear rubber pass ashi ooogringrin
lol its like she really invest the money well she make from her runz business.na so e be.sometimes too there are other men abroad dem go request from their brother or other family member to look for wife for dem in naija cos dem no wan marry the ladies overseas as in feminism Stuff and dem knowing dhier right.wen dem go marry the new wife and carry her overseas na dat time she go show the guy her true colour.there have been cases of overseas based guys marrying from the village and moving such women over..only for the women to divorce them and take over their house,money and other properties.guy fear womencheesy.
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 8:16am On Dec 11, 2017
lefulefu:
if u eventually find out ur wife sleeps around and u come know say ur brother or close cousin always knew abt this...how u go feel?cheesy.


Wait ooo,u mean say the woman dey carry oyibo come house con gborgue
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by DeadRat(m): 8:19am On Dec 11, 2017
Redhot111:
and wat has ur comments hit to do with pricking my hair? Mumu
K
Re: Should I Tell My Cousin What I Saw Or Remain Silent by Martin0(m): 8:20am On Dec 11, 2017
lefulefu:
lol its like she really invest the money well she make from her runz business.na so e be.sometimes too there are other men abroad dem go request from their brother or other family member to look for wife for dem in naija cos dem no wan marry the ladies overseas as in feminism Stuff and dem knowing dhier right.wen dem go marry the new wife and carry her overseas na dat time she go show the guy her true colour.there have been cases of overseas based guys marrying from the village and moving such women over..only for the women to divorce them and take over their house,money and other properties.guy fear womencheesy.


Na wa for u oooogrin

U nor need to tell me to fear dem,I am very very very and will alway's be afraid of them...

Do u know that a woman can determine how long a man lives...gringrin

Women are dangerious ooogringrin

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