I had to create this thread in response to a previous thread I encountered this morning. Most young people rush into relationship and marriage with out finding out details about their partners/spouses. Some men out there have no conscience so also some ladies. My dear, you can never be sure about the man/ lady you are working down the aisle With. Do due diligence, pray, dig out information, go for medical tests and also listen to the wisdom of older folks.
I have seen men whose wife and children reside abroad and they live life here like complete bachelors.
There was even a case in my office recently. The man's family lives in pH. He pays flight ticket for my colleague to come and see him in Abuja. He has gone to see her family and they have even bought clothes for introduction and traditional wedding! Can anything be more real than these? But she later found out and her heart is in pieces as I write this.
Be wise. Don't make commitment just yet. Don't be in a hurry to give in. The right person will come along. You will have to kiss a few ugly frogs before ur prince charming comes around
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I think people should be able to go through this "due diligence " in different ways but it's importance cannot be overemphasized

Captaynbee:
I think people should be able to go through this "due diligence " in different ways but it's importance cannot be overemphasized

You are right. There is actually not set way to go about it but the bottom line is that due diligence should be observed