Pusyiter:
Bros, your answer is in your question. Search yourself, you know what you want.

what about when she had introduction with someone else and almost got married only to come back to you again,?

It could be sweeter as someone said because you have an understanding of what doesn’t work it’s up to you and her to commit to working through issues together

People are hard on exes a true relationship is like a mirror you are seeing your true reflection through the eyes of another sometimes we all need adjustment and tolerance to make Love work

Only u can figure that out bro, like u said earlie. U said u never gave her attention because of wot u were been told thereby losing her to another guy. Now, she wants u back and its a big sign that she still loves u buh she had to leave because u weren't giving her much attention. U said she's a very sophisticated lady, i think these is where u can ask yourself if u can roll with someone like her again. If her taste isn't more than urs, well goodluck

Blizzy9ja:
It can never be the same again

Yes, you are right. It can either get better or worse. Don't forget, BETTER

KreativGenius:


Are the factors that triggered the breakup still there?..

You need to evaluate everything that triggered the breakup first, make amendments in yourself and in her...If amendments are addressed,it's a starting point. Think deep, the answer's in you ! Any form of reconciliation without addressing what triggered the breakup is a waste of time

On point sir. Your summation is pretty insightful. @OP, I think you you should consider these points.

Daniel2289:

Where am having problem with him. is that he don't like the girl. Don't u feel if they come together, they will breakup again Because there is no love.

The one he doesn't like much is his present GF.

same asshole same outcome different asshole different outcome!
wisdom won't kill me abeg

Dcholeric:
I swear I don't like this guy....he sounds so confuse.

I broke up because i was a pvssy to my ex.

she at one time disgraced me in public.
she lives fake life.

now I have new girl .
she is independent.
she is less of "fake living".

my ex wants me back.
what should I do?

if you were my younger brother I wouldn't have used the word "confuse" ...I would have use the word " foolish " ..but you're not my younger brother.

you need more gray matters for logical thinking ...

please no insult intended

It will shock you how shocking the heart is, he said he doesn't like his new girl as much as he likes the ex...you see? Being independent, attractive, etc isn't enough to make the heart beat

Behold old things have passed away... Lol just kidding
Btw

OP it seems you aren't over her yet o

Relationship palava

This is quite twisted. I really wanted my ex back. Then we tried to get back together.. It didn't work out.. She's now a shadow of the girl I used to be crazy about.. Now I feel "pity" for her.. I know I had a hand in the changes.. But she can't blame me forever..

MrMoney007:
There's nothing like an Ex, many of us have done worse to our parents while growing up, did they tag us 'ex-children'?

If you're emotional, you're still a kid. If your Ex is reformed and there is vacancy, take them back. If they messes up again work on it.

Bro. There is Ex. Bcoz they ain't in good term any more , the fact that they can just come together without preceding conversations makes it to be called Ex.

Aprilivangie:
No idea...
Still on my own journey to recovery

Quick recovery dear.

Then it is clear she does not deserve you. QUIT bro!

tragergeorge:
what about when she had introduction with someone else and almost got married only to come back to you again,?

Ourown:
You don't have to choose either rice or beans...when you can just be eating rice and beans together till you know which you should really settle with. Just saying ooo

Hahaahahaha Bad guy! God go judge your case wella .Lol

Broz please follow ur heart,u already have the answer.

SirMichael1:


I'm sorry but do you guys read for the sole purpose of replying?? But you read where he wrote that she was complaining about the little attention he gave her or you didn't read that part??

Every relationship " ish " has more than one issues, both sides also contribute to the " ish ", beyond what he typed, i evaluated the situation to the best of my understanding boss

Google it

No

Why does your Ex( or soon to be current) wants the relationship secret? For your girlfriend, have you talked to about what you think she is, there is a probability that she is just like that naturally and might not see anything about it.

solasoulmusic:
It could be sweeter as someone said because you have an understanding of what doesn’t work it’s up to you and her to commit to working through issues together

People are hard on exes a true relationship is like a mirror you are seeing your true reflection through the eyes of another sometimes we all need adjustment and tolerance to make Love work

Depends on the ex

Mypeople2:
Hahaahahaha Bad guy! God go judge your case wella .Lol

Bros na just advice o

plessis:
I wouldn't take my ex back for a million dollars.....

Especially if the ex cheat, cheating is one thing I will never forgive cos a cheat will always be a cheat.

jy2kbeyond:


Quick recovery dear.

Tanx bro

Go forth and fornicate my son,the world is full of adventures,jst don't let your main chiq find out n always use a condom

Wetin concern me for wetin no concern me? Even the one wey concern me sef e neva concern me

Not that she wants to keep our probable relationship secret but her relationship status a secret.

mylove4God:
Why does your Ex( or soon to be current) wants the relationship secret? For your girlfriend, have you talked to about what you think she is, there is a probability that she is just like that naturally and might not see anything about it.

LukeSkywalker78:
Not that she wants to keep our probable relationship secret but her relationship status a secret.

Okay but what is the different between both

KreativGenius:


Are the factors that triggered the breakup still there?..

You need to evaluate everything that triggered the breakup first, make amendments in yourself and in her...If amendments are addressed,it's a starting point. Think deep, the answer's in you ! Any form of reconciliation without addressing what triggered the breakup is a waste of time

Nice one here. I just learnt something new...

drunkpunk:


Nice one here. I just learnt something new...

ttyl

MrMoney007:
There's nothing like an Ex, many of us have done worse to our parents while growing up, did they tag us 'ex-children'?

If you're emotional, you're still a kid. If your Ex is reformed and there is vacancy, take them back. If they messes up again work on it.

even when she cheats?

i know this is an old post, but i still got to clarify.