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MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Europija(f): 10:39pm On Dec 21, 2017
Helllo all.I have been married to Nigerian man for 1 year now.I am white girl.He always likes more black girls then white.He always teling me how black women are the best how white are not good wives.Later on he stoped with that but now he makes me feel insecure about myself.He flirts infront of me with others which are both white and black.Not a big flirt but he does it.I try to cook the best for him he hardly says Oh it is very good or it is perfact...I never say some big compliments from his side.It makes me.feel so small.If we discuss about something he wil never agree with me like i am some idiot.Few days ago he shouted at me and looked at me as if i killed somebody just because I smelled food and is food i like alot egusi soup..Anything i do for him he see it as stupidity or shamefull as if i am idiot..I se myself as inteligent and worthy girl but he really destroys it all.Me and him are going true dificult financial times.I am the one providing for home and for all.He was very sick few months ago and i was then with him.I pay our rent bils and food.And he never told me thank you and he even said how i didnt do almost nothing for him..he laughs at me when i say that i did alot for him..pls what should I do sad
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by SkillfulValue: 10:40pm On Dec 21, 2017
shocked

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Europija(f): 10:45pm On Dec 21, 2017
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by MrOjay1(m): 10:46pm On Dec 21, 2017
grin
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Fetula4u: 10:47pm On Dec 21, 2017
Call his family members and report him.....

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by OrestesDante(m): 11:08pm On Dec 21, 2017
∆ He is done with you!!! ∆
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by LuvSwollenPussy(m): 11:15pm On Dec 21, 2017
Don't worry when he gets green card, all will end.

BTW I can take you to one baba as a second option if you mind.
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by dhantey324(m): 11:25pm On Dec 21, 2017
don't agree with the guy above^^^

Did u notice this behavior when u guys were dating?

It might just be his own way of not letting the things you do get into your head and then u become unruly to him. Everything na game. lipsrsealed

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Nutase(f): 11:30pm On Dec 21, 2017
Sorry if your story or not borne out of seeking attention. The truth is that he doesn't love you. He is just using you and the earlier you come to terms with this and take a decision to help your life the better for you.
Do you have any kids with him?

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by babyfaceafrica: 11:35pm On Dec 21, 2017
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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Mariinee(f): 11:59pm On Dec 21, 2017
Premiumwriter:
nairalanders!
Wetin concern this one with the thread?
1K word for 500? Stop it!
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Premiumwriter: 12:14am On Dec 22, 2017
Mariinee:
1K word for 500? Stop it!
y?
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Mariinee(f): 12:23am On Dec 22, 2017
Premiumwriter:
y?
It is cheap. sad
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Premiumwriter: 12:32am On Dec 22, 2017
Mariinee:
It is cheap. sad
the aim is not money, it's for improving my writing skills. I've this crazy idea since but don't know how to put it out
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Mariinee(f): 12:36am On Dec 22, 2017
Premiumwriter:
the aim is not money, it's for improving my writing skills. I've this crazy idea since but don't know how to put it out
If it isn't for money, then write and keep it. undecided

What crazy idea though?
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by harrwix(m): 12:49am On Dec 22, 2017
Europija:
Helllo all.I have been married to Nigerian man for 1 year now.I am white girl.He always likes more black girls then white.He always teling me how black women are the best how white are not good wives.Later on he stoped with that but now he makes me feel insecure about myself.He flirts infront of me with others which are both white and black.Not a big flirt but he does it.I try to cook the best for him he hardly says Oh it is very good or it is perfact...I never say some big compliments from his side.It makes me.feel so small.If we discuss about something he wil never agree with me like i am some idiot.Few days ago he shouted at me and looked at me as if i killed somebody just because I smelled food and is food i like alot egusi soup..Anything i do for him he see it as stupidity or shamefull as if i am idiot..I se myself as inteligent and worthy girl but he really destroys it all.Me and him are going true dificult financial times.I am the one providing for home and for all.He was very sick few months ago and i was then with him.I pay our rent bils and food.And he never told me thank you and he even said how i didnt do almost nothing for him..he laughs at me when i say that i did alot for him..pls what should I do sad

It is very simple.. The man here do not love you...He is just using you to get some benefits... The earlier you leave him the better!

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Offpoint: 12:50am On Dec 22, 2017
I no no Sey white girls too also get problem with English language too o(op don't be offended please o)
........
on a normal ground *darkness and light" aren't meant to meet.
op, a typical Nigerian man was/is design(ed) to die for a huge and a massive backyard, which 98% of whites don't posses it. that's why your man is misbehaving.



modified:
op, I've just gone through all your previous posts, they're all about *Your husband this, your husband that* Just file for a divorce... if you ain't happy with him. Life is too short for all these headaches and bullshitz

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by goldman777: 5:31am On Dec 22, 2017
I smell lies ur moniker is fake

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by ubunja(m): 5:36am On Dec 22, 2017
Nutase:
Sorry if your story or not borne out of seeking attention. The truth is that he doesn't love you. He is just using you and the earlier you come to terms with this and take a decision to help your life the better for you.
Do you have any kids with him?
if it was the opposite? if the guy said My wife makes me feel insecure...you will be telling the man to MAN UP and quit being a pvssy.
well this white girl needs to woman-up and get her big-gal panties on. grow some ovaries.

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by MrSavage: 8:11am On Dec 22, 2017
A white girl that can't speak good english, shutup there you are from anambra grin

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Greenbullet(m): 8:19am On Dec 22, 2017
MrSavage:
A white girl that can't speak good english, shutup there you are from anambra grin

Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by LadyMarionette(f): 8:24am On Dec 22, 2017
He is a very insecure man who is desperately trying to make YOU feel inferior so that you don't begin to see how little he's actually contributing to your life (I'm not just referring to money now). He wants you to get consumed in this wave, trying to please him to win his approval. Which he will never give, by the way. He must have read very early on that you might have self esteem issues, and he latched on to them. It does seem like he needs you, but it doesn't seem like he loves you, so be careful.

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Nobody: 9:02am On Dec 22, 2017
You must be Slavic. Your English is not bad. Your husband being a Nigerian is irrelevant, the point is you see your husband as a flirt. First make sure you're not just being jealous/paranoid, maybe talk to him about it.

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Nobody: 9:06am On Dec 22, 2017
MrSavage:
A white girl that can't speak good english, shutup there you are from anambra grin
I get where you're coming from. When we hear "white" our mind automatically goes to US or UK. There are millions of whites that can't utter a word in English bro
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Ajfems(m): 10:44am On Dec 22, 2017
Must u cast ur husband here... Go and meet marriage counselor nau. White girl... Racism.
ND if u feel insecure... Well the while country feels Same way... It christmas for Pete sake.

Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Nobody: 10:55am On Dec 22, 2017
You sure he didn't marry you for the green card, you never can tell.
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Gofwane(m): 11:32am On Dec 22, 2017
Europija:
Helllo all.I have been married to Nigerian man for 1 year now.I am white girl.He always likes more black girls then white.He always teling me how black women are the best how white are not good wives.Later on he stoped with that but now he makes me feel insecure about myself.He flirts infront of me with others which are both white and black.Not a big flirt but he does it.I try to cook the best for him he hardly says Oh it is very good or it is perfact...I never say some big compliments from his side.It makes me.feel so small.If we discuss about something he wil never agree with me like i am some idiot.Few days ago he shouted at me and looked at me as if i killed somebody just because I smelled food and is food i like alot egusi soup..Anything i do for him he see it as stupidity or shamefull as if i am idiot..I se myself as inteligent and worthy girl but he really destroys it all.Me and him are going true dificult financial times.I am the one providing for home and for all.He was very sick few months ago and i was then with him.I pay our rent bils and food.And he never told me thank you and he even said how i didnt do almost nothing for him..he laughs at me when i say that i did alot for him..pls what should I do sad
dump him and move on with your life. No time to be managing any union that is not aimed at your happiness, even if you are the devil that is creating trouble for your faithful spouse.

If you no see any nice guy to marry, just pm me
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:55pm On Dec 22, 2017
So I went through op's old threads, and I was angry people accused her of being a scam just because her messages were flawed with errors. Some European countries I know don't even communicate in English, so it's annoying to find people judging her based on her Grammars. However, I decided to check her profile pic and dayum! I instantly held back my sweet little thought....I won't be suprised if the person behind the handle is somewhere here in Nigeria grin
Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Bidobado: 2:14pm On Dec 22, 2017
Europija:
Helllo all.I have been married to Nigerian man for 1 year now.I am white girl.He always likes more black girls then white.He always teling me how black women are the best how white are not good wives.Later on he stoped with that but now he makes me feel insecure about myself.He flirts infront of me with others which are both white and black.Not a big flirt but he does it.I try to cook the best for him he hardly says Oh it is very good or it is perfact...I never say some big compliments from his side.It makes me.feel so small.If we discuss about something he wil never agree with me like i am some idiot.Few days ago he shouted at me and looked at me as if i killed somebody just because I smelled food and is food i like alot egusi soup..Anything i do for him he see it as stupidity or shamefull as if i am idiot..I se myself as inteligent and worthy girl but he really destroys it all.Me and him are going true dificult financial times.I am the one providing for home and for all.He was very sick few months ago and i was then with him.I pay our rent bils and food.And he never told me thank you and he even said how i didnt do almost nothing for him..he laughs at me when i say that i did alot for him..pls what should I do sad

You married a boy, find yourself a man.

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Re: MY HUSBAND MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE by Europija(f): 2:29pm On Dec 22, 2017
Nutase:
Sorry if your story or not borne out of seeking attention. The truth is that he doesn't love you. He is just using you and the earlier you come to terms with this and take a decision to help your life the better for you.
Do you have any kids with him?
no kids with him

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