I really need the opinion of matured people.

Does beauty or handsomeness have any effect on a happy marriage?

Is it okay to overlook physical attractiveness when it comes to marriage?

I would be very glad if married people can give their experience on this, thanks!


Seun lalasticlala mynd44

Physical appearance does not affect marriage once there is love between the couple there us everything

Sister, kid yourself not.


Physical attraction is very essential.

But,

Physical attraction need not be at first sight. It can “develop” over time and this often is when you get to know the person’s innate qualities which makes them appear attractive to you.

Good luck.

Ask d male pen!s he should v all d answers u need,i wonder if i don't get turned on whenever I'm wiv u then i 1nda ow I'm gon spend my whole life wiv u,mehn dat wld b real torture....

Marry someone you are proud to flaunt.

Well, well, well!


Character is golden but that is not an excuse for any man to marry an ugly woman.

Physical attractiveness matters in marriage, it must however not be the basis for a man's choice of a spouse, other inner qualities are essential.

A man needs to be proud to be seen with his wife anywhere, anyday and for any occassion. It's a source of pride to such man.

Iyanda1993:
Physical appearance does not affect marriage once there is love between the couple there us everything

So love is enough, right? Please, are you married?

Mcy56:
Physical attractiveness matters in marriage, it must however not be the basis for a man's choice of a spouse, other inner qualities are essential.

A man needs to be proud to be seen with his wife anywhere, anyday and for any occassion. It's a source of pride to such man.

I thought so too, thanks

UbanmeUdie:





Well, well, well!


Character is golden but that is not an excuse for any man to marry an ugly woman.

How do you define an ugly woman? I thought they say money changes everybody, that nobody is ugly

Purebeerry:
Marry someone you are proud to flaunt.

What if i have no intention of flaunting him?

Headlesschicken:
Ask d male pen!s he should v all d answers u need,i wonder if i don't get turned on whenever I'm wiv u then i 1nda ow I'm gon spend my whole life wiv u,mehn dat wld b real torture....

What if she grows older? Or will the erection be forever? Some older people dont even have sex anymore.. Does it all boil down to sex?

Xiadnat:
Sister, kid yourself not.


Physical attraction is very essential.

But,

Physical attraction need not be at first sight. It can “develop” over time and this often is when you get to know the person’s innate qualities which makes them appear attractive to you.

Good luck.

I would want you to further explain this "develop over time" aspect. Is it that someone you dont find attractive today can be attractive tomorrow?

tolanibae:


What if i have no intention of flaunting him?

One day you will flaunt him.

tolanibae:


What if i have no intention of flaunting him?

Showoff

tolanibae:
I really need the opinion of matured people.

Does beauty or handsomeness have any effect on a happy marriage?

Is it okay to overlook physical attractiveness when it comes to marriage?

I would be very glad if married people can give their experience on this, thanks!


Seun lalasticlala mynd44

Do you know how many luxurious cars davido has? Six!
What about Christiano Ronaldo? Nineteen (19)

How many cars can take either of them from one destination to d other? Just one!
Then why the profligacy?
Simple, human beings wants (not needs o) are insatiable!
Neither of them bought all those cars in a single day. When they thought they've bought the ultimate ride, another one pops up d following year.

This is d same reason couples cheat on one another. Whoever wouldve thought that jayz could ever cheat on the godess-beyonce? But it happened! That shows that beauty alone isn't enough 4 a successful marriage.
Beauty is like ur university certificate- it can ONLY land u a job but ur skills and a whole bunch of other factors will keep that job for you.

Speaking as a male, men are attracted by what they see and that's all. A man can be aroused and end up making love to an attractive woman without a pinch of love for her in his heart.
If/when a man marries u for ur beauty, be rest assured that he'll still set his eyes on other women (either equally beautiful or more beautiful than u).
To cut along story short, outward beauty can land u a marriage but inward beauty ie ur character only will preserve that marriage for u.

A TIP: Don't let modernization fool u o. Men (,esp African men) are egoists. They want submission from their women. During courtship, he may open d car door for u, preach (and acts) d 'ladies first' sermon, even kneel down to propose to u, acts indifference to 'equality', feminism etc, but that's where it ends o. Once u bcom his wife, subconsciously he expects u to SUBMIT to his authority. And this is where things go south in many marriages. The woman is confused at the Change ...,.....and b4 u say 'jack', they have gone their separate ways.
Just know now that life as a fiancé ~fiancee is totally different from life as husband~wife.
If u follow ds tip (coupled with lots of prayers plus heart of forgiveness) ull have a lon-lasting marriage.

richie240:


Do you know how many luxurious cars davido has? Six!
What about Christiano Ronaldo? Nineteen (19)

How many cars can take either of them from one destination to d other? Just one!
Then why the profligacy?
Simple, human beings wants (not needs o) are insatiable!
Neither of them bought all those cars in a single day. When they thought they've bought the ultimate ride, another one pops up d following year.

This is d same reason couples cheat on one another. Whoever wouldve thought that jayz could ever cheat on the godess-beyonce? But it happened! That shows that beauty alone isn't enough 4 a successful marriage.
Beauty is like ur university certificate- it can ONLY land u a job but ur skills and a whole bunch of other factors will keep that job for you.

Speaking as a male, men are attracted by what they see and that's all. A man can be aroused and end up making love to an attractive woman without a pinch of love for her in his heart.
If/when a man marries u for ur beauty, be rest assured that he'll still set his eyes on other women (either equally beautiful or more beautiful than u).
To cut along story short, outward beauty can land u a marriage but inward beauty ie ur character only will preserve that marriage for u.

A TIP: Don't let modernization fool u o. Men (,esp African men) are egoists. They want submission from their women. During courtship, he may open d car door for u, preach (and acts) d 'ladies first' sermon, even kneel down to propose to u, acts indifference to 'equality', feminism etc, but that's where it ends o. Once u bcom his wife, subconsciously he expects u to SUBMIT to his authority. And this is where things go south in many marriages. The woman is confused at the Change ...,.....and b4 u say 'jack', they have gone their separate ways.
Just know now that life as a fiancé ~fiancee is totally different from life as husband~wife.
If u follow ds tip (coupled with lots of prayers plus heart of forgiveness) ull have a lon-lasting marriage.

Thanks so much for this. If i may ask, are you married?

tolanibae:


Thanks so much for this. If i may ask, are you married?

Yes

richie240:

Yes

I tot as much