My dad is at it again,
How do people cope with these pressures from people around them including family,

I’m just about 27 but my dad keeps worrying me over marriage I am not planning for anytime soon because he thinks i am living very comfortable of which I’m done with the troubles I go through from girls.

Infact I have been happy and having peace of mind lately being out of relationships

Is it a crime to be the only son of a home ?

Lol. who marriage help?

Answer these questions and I'll know how to help you.

1. How financially stable are you? If you don't have up to 10milla net worth, tell your old man to free you oooooo. Them no born woman come suffer with her husband.
2. Are you gay? No, really. You are 27 and you're already 'done with girls'. Please you don't need to reply but be honest to yourself. Just saying oo
3. What happiness do you derive being single? Oga are you sure you don't like men. Let me come and be going sef

WebSurfer:
My dad is at it again,
How do people cope with these pressures from people around them including family,

I’m just about 27 but my dad keeps worrying me over marriage I am not planning for anytime soon because he thinks i am living very comfortable of which I’m done with the troubles I go through from girls.

Infact I have been happy and having peace of mind lately being out of relationships

Is it a crime to be the only son of a home ?

Nah it' not, ur old man expects an offspring from u which is normal, but then my advice is not to give in to d pressure if u ain't ready so u don't end up regretting. #my 1kobo piece of advice

beardlessdude:
Lol. who marriage help?

Brother, I don’t know o..

WebSurfer:
My dad is at it again,
How do people cope with these pressures from people around them including family,

I’m just about 27 but my dad keeps worrying me over marriage I am not planning for anytime soon because he thinks i am living very comfortable of which I’m done with the troubles I go through from girls.

Infact I have been happy and having peace of mind lately being out of relationships

Is it a crime to be the only son of a home ?

Ha, I'm an only son too. Only got a mother and she doesn't let me rest too.

I know how you feel. Just listen and say yes sir.

My being unmarried and irreligious are the two things my mom always remind me anytime I run my mouth...

Gentle034:

Nah it' not, ur old man expects an offspring from u which is normal, but then my advice is not to give in to d pressure if u ain't ready so u don't end up regretting. #my 1kobo piece of advice

I don't think it's really about having an offspring. I have a daughter but my mum still wants a daughter in law

Gentle034:

Nah it' not, ur old man expects an offspring from u which is normal, but then my advice is not to give in to d pressure if u ain't ready so u don't end up regretting. #my 1kobo piece of advice

I almost did earlier this year but I can’t begin with stories aftermath.

was thinking it was just an offspring issue until my elder sister gave birth finally around September making him a grandfather..

Just this night we had a long call conversation with mentions and advices like I should force myself to pick a wife

correctguy101:


Ha, I'm an only son too. Only got a mother and she doesn't let me rest too.

I know how you feel. Just listen and say yes sir.

My being unmarried and irreligious are the two things my mom always remind me anytime I run my mouth...

lol at least somebody can relate

SULTANALAUDDIN:
You're 27?? I'm just 24 and my mum is always pressuring over not having a fiancée. I don't know how to tell her in my native language that we are in the era of HOES it is difficult to find a good girl.

I swear bro,, not easy at all

Just tell ur dad that ur missing rib is not yet found...

Marriage is beautiful if u find someone that love what u do...

Woman like material things so....so don't marry a girl that love u but the girl dat love what you do!

jamariwolf2:
Answer these questions and I'll know how to help you.

1. How financially stable are you? If you don't have up to 10milla net worth, tell your old man to free you oooooo. Them no born woman come suffer with her husband.
2. Are you gay? No, really. You are 27 and you're already 'done with girls'. Please you don't need to reply but be honest to yourself. Just saying oo
3. What happiness do you derive being single? Oga are you sure you don't like men. Let me come and be going sef

God forbid I can be gay. As a matter of fact I despise gays

I am just sick and tired of the bullshits I get from Nigerian ladies with the very poor orientation they got from the society

marooh:
Just tell ur dad that ur missing rib is not yet found...

Marriage is beautiful if u find someone that love what u do...

Woman like material things so....so don't marry a girl that love u but the girl dat love what you do!

But why are you answering my name going by your ID ? ?

WebSurfer:


1. I am very financially stable with over that net worth so that’s not a case.

2. God forbid I can be gay. As a matter of fact I despise gays

3. I am just sick and tired of the bullshits I get from Nigerian ladies with the very poor orientation they got from the society

Hmmm send me a pm then. You just found yourself a wife.

jamariwolf2:
Hmmm send me a pm then. You just found yourself a wife.

Its like you are not reading it well, I have many girls around me but I am not looking for a wife

WebSurfer:

Is like you are not reading it well, I have many girls around me but I am not looking for a wife

lol. But why? With all the money nii

WebSurfer:
lol at least somebody can relate

It's not a small thing bro. Plus I already gave her a grand daughter the old woman never stops to remind me of my marital status.

She'll be like "My boy, you'll not find a girl to settle down with abi? I heard mature ladies visit you in this house. You think as you are living people are not seeing you? I know all your secrets. Find a good girl and make me happy"

Me will just be silent and say thank you ma, I'll try and deny the ones I could.

jamariwolf2:
lol. But why? With all the money nii

Let me use you as an example. See how you bolded the above and asked me to send you a pm, not that you’ve seen me or know me, neither how I look like.

Most ladies flock around me for such reasons and at the end of the day, they make it seem that is the reason they are around me.

Do you need me to continue ?

The pressure is too much on we girls.

jamariwolf2:
Hmmm send me a pm then. You just found yourself a wife.

This geh..

correctguy101:


It's not a small thing bro. Plus I already gave her a grand daughter the old woman never stops to remind me of my marital status.

She'll be like "My boy, you'll not find a girl to settle down with abi? I heard mature ladies visit you in this house. You think as you are living people are not seeing you? I know all your secrets. Find a good girl and make me happy"

Me will just be silent and say thank you ma, I'll try and deny the ones I could.

If I had a child like you, I would care less.. seriously

Either way wahala dey.u no marry dem go hassle u why u no marry... U marry and ur wife will be nagging u to death over unnecessary stuff,fighting u and all.a number of married men kick the bucket before they turn 50 all thanks to their trouble some nagging wife.get married when u know u are psychologically and financially ready cos if u follow ur parents mouth oyo will be ur case. With the strong racket wey many babes dey pull these days u got to be careful when choosing a wife.marriage no be beans.

WebSurfer:

Its like you are not reading it well, I have many girls around me but I am not looking for a wife

So,Na only pressure on marriage u fine come here?
Eeh
Why not try bobrisky as u no wan marry wife

marooh:


So,Na only pressure on marriage u fine come here?
Eeh
Why not try bobrisky as u no wan marry wife

God forbid...
Respect yourself ooo.. you well so ?

WebSurfer:

I almost did earlier this year but I can’t begin with stories aftermath.

was thinking it was just an offspring issue until my elder sister gave birth finally around September making him a grandfather..

Just this night we had a long call conversation with mentions and advices like I should force myself to pick a wife

I still think you shld not rush urself into this. Have u ever asked your dad why he really wants you to settle down sharp-sharp?

WebSurfer:

Let me use you as an example. See how you bolded the above and asked me to send you a pm, not that you’ve seen me or know me, neither how I look like.

Most ladies flock around me for such reasons and at the end of the day, they make it seem that is the reason they are around me.

Do you need me to continue ?

lol. Don't continue.

lefulefu:
Either way wahala dey.u no marry dem go hassle u why u no marry... U marry and ur wife will be nagging u to death over unnecessary stuff,fighting u and all.a number of married men kick the bucket before they turn 50 all thanks to their trouble some nagging wife.get married when u know u are psychologically and financially ready cos if u follow ur parents mouth oyo will be ur case. With the strong racket wey many babes dey pull these days u got to be careful when choosing a wife.marriage no be beans.

The things we see ladies do these days
I rather stay at peace with my mind

Purebeerry:
This geh..

lol. My sista. Who no like better thing.

Gentle034:

I still think you shld not rush urself into this. Have u ever asked your dad why he really wants you to settle down sharp-sharp?

You know that question is very hard. I’m sure he will start with fornication to cover his tracks .. normal thing very religious father will do cos i remember him saying Something hold your body very well on that call earlier

correctguy101:


I don't think it's really about having an offspring. I have a daughter but my mum still wants a daughter in law

Gee you would be surprised, if u ask her why d pressure on marriage, especially if she is a religious person.

jamariwolf2:
lol. Don't continue.

The things girls do are amazing plus they ain’t loyal