Dear Nairalander, i'm really confused at the moment! been dating a lady for close to two years now and i intend making her my wife soon.She is such an adorable and charming lady,a perfect definition of how i want my wife to be! However,i noticed few months to the relationship that she doesn't have her normal monthly flows,i told her about my observation and she said all is well with her! its been a year and four months into this relationship yet the situation remain the same! i advised her to see her doctor but she hasn't,she seems so relaxed about the situation unlike me! Meanwhile she has a child already while i don't have. can i still go ahead and marry her with faith? Matured advices needed please

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She needs to visit a doctor, stress and infection can stop regular menstrual flow.

harrisonford001:
Dear Nairalander, i'm really confused at the moment! been dating a lady for close to two years now and i intend making her my wife soon.She is such an adorable and charming lady,a perfect definition of how i want my wife to be! However,i noticed few months to the relationship that she doesn't have her normal monthly flows,i told her about my observation and she said all is well with her! its been a year and four months into this relationship yet the situation remain the same! i advised her to see her doctor but she hasn't,she seems so relaxed about the situation unlike me! Meanwhile she has a child already while i don't have. can i still go ahead and marry her with faith? Matured advices needed please

pls let a see a doctor and let your reasons be constructive

Relationships have always focused on sex, cheating, finance and home keeping but with very limited discussion on health except to the mention of genotype (AA, AS, SS etc)

Before you start thinking of marriage both of you must be confident enough to visit a doctor together and be willing to carry out any test at anytime.

If you can't talk her to visit a doctor with you to carry out the necessary tests, forget it!

My one cent.

It amusing how females with one or two issues mostly meet the requirements of whatever they are in a relationship with...

This is definately caused by the void created by insecurity.

As a whole female are never going to be loyal,that why the fractions of human that blv in deity created laws to force them into loyalty and submission.

She said she is fine so let her be...

Is it your menses?

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guy let her be,is it ur menses?

Two questions:


How old is she?

Is she hairy?



There are some factors responsible for secondary amenorrhoea.

1. Pre-Menopausal or Menopausal condition, if she's above the age of 38 and 45 respectively.

2. PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrome(PCOS). A hormonal imbalance condition.


3. Hyperprolactinaemia. A very high level of prolactin in the blood.




Insist she sees a gynaecologist in time.

yea i suggsted that

MrSavage:
pls let a see a doctor and let your reasons be constructive

Your concerns are valid and she should recognize that. Even if she personally isn't concerned about it. When you are ready to get serious, tell her you're still worried about the irregular periods (since you want to have children) and so would like both of you to go to the clinic to have yourselves checked out.

thanks

godfatherx:
Relationships have always focused on sex, cheating, finance and home keeping but with very limited discussion on health except to the mention of genotype (AA, AS, SS etc)

Before you start thinking of marriage both of you must be confident enough to visit a doctor together and be willing to carry out any test at anytime.

If you can't talk her to visit a doctor with you to carry out the necessary tests, forget it!

My one cent.

cummando:
She said she is fine so let her be...

Is it your menses?

she's 33

matrix199:
Two questions:


How old is she?

Is she hairy?



There are some factors responsible for secondary amenorrhoea.

1. Pre-Menopausal or Menopausal condition, if she's above the age of 38 and 45 respectively.

2. PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrome(PCOS). A hormonal imbalance condition.


3. Hyperprolactinaemia. A very high level of prolactin in the blood.




Insist she sees a gynaecologist in time.

very valid! so confused i must say!

LadyMarionette:
Your concerns are valid and she should recognize that. Even if she personally isn't concerned about it. When you are ready to get serious, tell her you're still worried about the irregular periods (since you want to have children) and so would like both of you to go to the clinic to have yourselves checked out.

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