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Today Is World Introvert Day by Olarewajub: 2:21pm On Jan 02, 2018
World Introvert Day is held on 2 January each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to better understand and appreciate introverts. The first World Introvert Day was held in 2011.

Introverts are a misunderstood minority. We live in an extrovert world and introverts often appear to be arrogant and strange. Which we aren't. Introverts just work differently. And we are a majority in the gifted population. Most famous scientists, philosophers, artists and thinkers are introverted.

Why We Should Celebrate Introverts


1. Introverts really know their stuff.

I have an introverted friend who is basically a walking encyclopedia of Celtic myth. For example, if you ask him about the hero Cú Chulainn, he can not only tell you how he died but also what kind of chariot he drove around in. Listening to him talk, I’ve found myself thinking, “Wow, he really knows his stuff!” That’s because introverts love learning and adding to their vast stores of specialty knowledge. It’s no surprise that introverts often become experts in their field.

2. Introverts are problem-solvers and idea-generators.


Introverts tend to gravitate toward working alone. We’re the ones quietly sitting at our desks, turning ideas over and over in our minds. And there’s a benefit to this. When you’re with other people, your brain is forced to multitask. Even if you’re not interacting with someone, part of your attention is occupied just by their mere presence, research suggests.

But when you’re alone, you can clear your mind and focus your thoughts. And all this deep, concentrated thinking can lead to novel solutions and brilliant ideas.

So forget the brainstorming group. Take a cue from introverts and work alone, because “decades of research have consistently shown that brainstorming groups think of far fewer ideas than the same number of people who work alone and later pool their ideas,” according to psychologist Keith Sawyer.

3. Give up? Not yet.

Speaking of problem solving, introverts tend to stick with problems longer — well past when everyone else has moved on to another topic or gone home for the day. Albert Einstein, the world-renowned physicist who developed the theory of relativity, was probably an introvert. He once said, “It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”

4. Introverts make better team players than extroverts over the long run.

That’s right. Corinne Bendersky and her colleagues found that while extroverts make great first impressions, they may disappoint us over time when they’re a part of a team. Their “value and reputation at work diminish over time,” explains Bendersky. “On a team you’re expected to work hard and contribute a lot. But they’re often poor listeners, and they don’t collaborate.”

Introverts, on the other hand, may work harder on a team because they care a lot about what others think of them. They don’t want to be seen as not pulling their weight. So while companies may be attracted to hiring extroverts because they sound great in interviews, bosses should remember that introverts pack a powerful (yet understated) punch.

5. Introverts bring incredible depth and intimacy to their relationships.

We have a penchant for quality, one-on-one time and deep conversation. Instead of talking about the weather or what you did this weekend, we’d rather peer into your inner world. What have you learned lately? How are your ideas evolving? How are you really? When you have an introvert in your life, you may experience intimacy like never before.

6. Introverts know the power of words.

We tend to listen more than we talk and think before we speak. We choose our words carefully because we know that once said, words can’t be retracted or easily forgotten, if at all.

7. Introverts are low maintenance.


You can leave us alone for hours at a time and we’ll just do our thing. If you’re our friend or significant other, you don’t have to call, text, or check in on us constantly. If you’re the manager of an introvert, you don’t have to babysit us. Introverts tend to be self-starters, and we generally work quietly and steadily on things. In fact, you’ll probably only hear from us if we have a problem we can’t fix (believe me, we’ve tried solving it a dozen times already before coming to you). Likewise, we don’t need constant praise, gold stickers, and shout-outs in the company newsletter. If we’re working hard, we’re motivated from within.

8. Introverts are the calm in the center of the storm.

When everyone is losing their heads over the company’s latest policy change, introverts are thinking of new ways to adjust. When everyone is panicking because the birthday present didn’t arrive from Amazon on time, introverts are already coming up with a backup plan. Quietly.

9. Introverts “get” you.

That’s because spending time alone (which introverts love to do) may help you develop more empathy, especially for people outside your social group, research suggests. This is probably because being alone means you spend time reflecting. Solitude actually makes you more connected to others.

10. Introverts look before they leap.

We don’t rush into things; we often consider all possibilities before making a decision. This applies to our jobs and personal lives. For example, extroverts may jump into a new relationship more quickly than introverts. An Katrien Sodermans and her colleagues found that divorced extroverts were more likely than introverts to quickly remarry. When you don’t rush things, you often make better decisions.

11. Introverts create worlds in their heads — and help create the world we live in.

Introverts are artists, actors, musicians, entertainers, and writers. Famous creative introverts include J.K. Rowling (only someone who spent years imagining could create the world of Hogwarts) and Lady Gaga (she’s quoted as saying, “I generally really keep to myself and I am focused on my music.”) There’s also Shonda Rhimes, David Letterman, Harrison Ford, Gwyneth Paltrow, John Green, Elton John, and Emma Watson. The list could go on and on.

12. Who runs the world? Introverts.

Extroverts can and do lead. But let’s not forget that introverts make powerful leaders, too. In fact, it has been reported that 40 percent of executives describe themselves as introverts, including Microsoft’s Bill Gates. Gates believes that introverts can make great leaders because they know the value of being alone and focusing deeply. Speaking at an engagement in 2013, he said: “I think introverts can do quite well. If you’re clever you can learn to get the benefits of being an introvert, which might be, say, being willing to go off for a few days and think about a tough problem, read everything you can, push yourself very hard to think out on the edge of that area.” Other introverted leaders include Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King Jr., Barack Obama, and Abraham Lincoln. Introverts are the dreamers and doers who fight for a better, brighter future.


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Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by delugajackson: 2:39pm On Jan 02, 2018
Really great piece.

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Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by Nobody: 2:49pm On Jan 02, 2018
Glad To Be Part Of The INTROVERT Family

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Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by 9jaPromo(f): 2:51pm On Jan 02, 2018
Wow!
Which part I belong now!
For me na both in and ex grin

Nice article

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Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by ubunja(m): 2:53pm On Jan 02, 2018
introverts are losers that hit the books while others played and thus became smart but are now acting like being smart is a trait of being introverted. lmfaoooooooo
talk about getting cause and effect twisted. grin
Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by Tajbol4splend(m): 3:09pm On Jan 02, 2018
Why is this day introvert day, is there any reason behind choosing it?
Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by unapapadeycraze: 3:24pm On Jan 02, 2018
introverts don't get enough pvssies to fvck, i'm not happy about that.

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Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by YoungBlackRico(m): 3:42pm On Jan 02, 2018
ubunja:
introverts are losers that hit the books while others played and thus became smart but are now acting like being smart is a trait of being introverted. lmfaoooooooo
talk about getting cause and effect twisted. grin

grin Ode, cause and effect in something like this? Most were born smart, so yes it's a trait. You can hang yourself now...
Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by ubunja(m): 3:46pm On Jan 02, 2018
YoungBlackRico:
grin Ode, cause and effect in something like this? Most were born smart, so yes it's a trait. You can hang yourself now...
you cant be right. introverts are the bookworms populating libraries 6 days a week.they dont have a social life coz books are their friends.i know too much about introverts and their solitary ways coz im from there. and i know how easy it is to justify being missing from all the cool parties by claiming you are smarter than the dumb ones that take life as one big party.
introverts need to put the books down and go outside.

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Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by YoungBlackRico(m): 3:56pm On Jan 02, 2018
ubunja:

you cant be right. introverts are the bookworms populating libraries 6 days a week.they dont have a social life coz books are their friends.i know too much about introverts and their solitary ways coz im from there. and i know how easy it is to justify being missing from all the cool parties by claiming you are smarter than the dumb ones that take life as one big party.

introverts need to put the books down and go outside.
You defined you man, just because "you were a loser" doesn't mean others are. There are those who can balance the two, so stop generalizing and making assumptions bro.


*Not all introverts are smart btw. undecided

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Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by ubunja(m): 4:09pm On Jan 02, 2018
YoungBlackRico:
You defined you man, just because "you were a loser" doesn't mean others are. There are those who can balance the two, so stop generalizing and making assumptions bro.


*Not all introverts are smart btw. undecided
not all introverts are smart LOOOL
when OP repeatedly drummed the smartness trait at point 1, 2, 3 and 11. grin
dont make me laugh.
Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by YoungBlackRico(m): 4:18pm On Jan 02, 2018
ubunja:
not all introverts are smart LOOOL when OP repeatedly drummed the smartness trait at point 1, 2, 3 and 11. grin dont make me laugh.
I don talk my own. grin
Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jan 02, 2018
Female introverts are the best companion for marriage.
God bless we introverts.
Re: Today Is World Introvert Day by efembaba(m): 10:43pm On Jan 02, 2018
Proud to be an introvert.. Though it can be tough at times-d social awkwardness, the pressure to call and keep in touch, having to remember names of people.. But am proud of dis thing.. My mind is my best company nd buddy

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